im only doing it when theres no one nearby and we are shopping in the store or something, i would unexpectedly grab his pants and i thought it was sexy and wicked and i was not doing it to shame him, not at all ...but im just naturally playful... is that so bad? why he doesnt seem to like it? i love touching him specially his c%#k and cant help myself!
2007-12-12 23:14:41 · 37 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
bcuz ur a sluth!
2007-12-12 23:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
He is probably shy and self conscious. My wife is like you-sort of a mild exhibitionist who seems to have a knack for groping me in a group of people when no one is noticing. I used to blush when we would be in a store and from the other end of the aisle she would yell " hey horsec***k come here!" Not that I deserve such a title , but I have learned to enjoy it. Recently we groped each other all up and down in Walmart. As she pointed out we were so flagrant that if anyone were actually watching the surveillance cams we could get kicked out of the store for public indecency. Maybe that's what your hubby is worried about. Now that my wife has kinked me up a bit mre am inclined to believe that anyone watching the cams would probably just keep watching to see how far it goes! LOL.
Maybe he will relax and learn to enjoy it. If not you could try whispereing naughty things to him in public rather than flat out groping him. But, if he could learn to enjoy it---well I think there are very few women who are as cool and as fun as you and my wife. A lot of men are probably envious!
2007-12-13 00:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no that isn't bad its affection and its love and it is sexy and wicked and a bit primal in stint which I think is great, but most people act so funny when it comes to love and urges they seem to think its taboo or something, but maybe your hubby is worried about what people may think of you if someone does see you do that, you know what I mean, I'm sure you know how small minded some people can be, talk to him about it, tell him it makes you feel sexy naughty or what ever the case maybe, I would be very lucky and feel very proud if my wife felt that way where she could do and wanted to do that, good on you I say never be ashamed to show your feelings or urges.
2007-12-12 23:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a time and place for everything, and his idea of the right time or place is apparently different than yours.
Some people aren't that comfortable with public displays of affection. My husband is best friends with the husband of my best friend, and was actually the one to get them together in high school. He swears that prior to their wedding, he never once saw them kiss. My best friend kind of WANTED to, but her husband is one of those super-conserved types. PDA is only fun when you're both interested.
And I can tell you, regardless of how much I loved my husband and loved our bedroom activities, I would not have enjoyed him just coming up and grabbing a breast or putting his hand between my legs at the supermarket.
Maybe you could try some less offensive PDA than grabbing his c%#k. Pat him on the butt. Put your arm around him and draw him closer to you, etc.
The #1 rule of crotch-grabbing is that the person attached to the crotch needs to WANT to be grabbed. He doesn't want to be in public, so while you are enjoying yourself, you're making him uncomfortable, which completely defeats the purpose.
2007-12-12 23:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Obviously he is not comfortable with public displays of affection groping etc. Regardless no one sees he is concerned they might and more importantly you are not respecting him. If you know he does not like it or find it sexy then you disrespecting him for your own thrill. So who is benefiting from it?
Seek alternative measures that you both feel comfortable with. Maybe role playing at home meeting him at the door naked. But remember if he doesn't appreciate those type gestures don't do it. If you have to have that thrill then maybe you need to re access the man you are with. Perhaps you have different values.
2007-12-12 23:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because what you think is sexy and wicked, he thinks is weird and painful? Just how hard are you grabbing?
Next time try just running your hand GENTLY down his back instead, maybe he prefers being treated like a husband and lover rather than a c**k on legs.
No offence but would feel entirely comfortable if he grabbed your crotch or boobs in public?
2007-12-12 23:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by grrrl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is a lucky guy!
You probably just need to flirt with him in something more his language. I don't like to be grabbed either. I am not sure why.
I prefer that my woman talks dirty to me.
Try walking up behind him in the store(or wherever you would normally grab him) and whisper in his ear how much you want him to do XXXXX to you (fill in the x's with your own naughty thing).
This might be more his style. That way you both get what you want. A relationship is about finding the common ground and enhancing the hell out of it!
2007-12-12 23:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this and it's mostly because it's a tease and drives you crazy in a public place and have nowhere to "take care of things"...plus no guy likes it when it's constantly grabbed.
Just do it once in awhile--maybe a long awhile--and it will be alright. Not all the time because it is a bit annoying.
2007-12-12 23:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by Js_5 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you are married and he doesn't want you touching him anymore. He wants his mistress to touch him. Here are the facts of life get used to them:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything.
I don't lie.
2007-12-13 02:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Consider the history. We as guys are trained to avoid touching yous in public under penalty of laws and social stigma. So, I imagine that part of his issue is that your actions are thought as bad manners in most places.
I would probably ask my partner to restrain herself as well, but the girls I kiss would not do more than grab my butt, which is way cool!
2007-12-12 23:23:09 · answer #10 · answered by science_joe_2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahah, he surely loves it but also surely shy of that in public even if no one nearby cause he doesn't wanna be in a situation like gentlemen see a sexy women - STAND UP !!!
Hahah, saying this cause same happens on my husband too...
LMAO
2007-12-12 23:36:34 · answer #11 · answered by Justagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋