i married before one year it was love marrige but after three months he beat me because he dont want me to go my parents house and dont want to do job all the time he was at home then i come to my parents house he was calling me continousily i ask him talk to my father plz i will come my father was very angry at him the boy was very cruel he tell to me that he will not talk to my father iwant to go then i went to other country for change and when i come back i remarried he cheated me a lot when i go for divorce in court his wife to come with him now we are divorced but i am really depreesed at his behvoiur he very bad man and still not giving my own things his second wife is living at my things furniture tv dvd clothes gold all things what to do really felling bad i am cheated
2007-12-14 09:07:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You first get down on your knees and thank God that you are not dead! He could have killed you! More women are killed by men like this than you can imagine! Now, to address your things. Yes, it is hard to part with things, but consider yourself blessed that you got away before he could do more than just take your things. You can replace things, you cannot replace your life! Let him take whatever he has. Leave him alone and do not attempt to make contact with him. Pray for this poor girl he is living with now! Pray that the Lord will keep her safe. You must put your ex-husband in the hands of the Lord. Be done with him and go on! I know you are feeling cheated, but it is better than being dead over material possessions! I will be praying that the Lord will keep you safe! God bless you! I really hope you move on!
2007-12-14 11:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that things went so badly for you, in your marriage and divorce. It sounds as though he did not do right by you...I am sorry!
I want you to know that the only thing I know to do is to pray and ask God to make right, this situation. You cannot change this cold heart but, GOD can! Therefore, I ask you to pray and ask God to guide you, hun. Yes, many times people cheat us but, is it worth feeling angry or sad over? God can take your sadness from you and replace that with His joy!!
Please know, I do care and I will be praying for you and for your ex to see that which he has done wrong and make it right! may God's will be done, in your life!
If you ever need to e-mail and just talk...do so!
gail
2007-12-14 09:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't respect you at all. You deserve to be with someone who will love and cherish you every minute of the day. Not hurt you and insult you or your family. Don't allow this to continue. Get away from him fast. There is someone out there for you that will love you and wants to take care of you. Trust me. This isn't the only one out there...
2007-12-14 09:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should not feel cheated beacuse you are well rid of him and you should be smiling to your self because from now on the only way is up for you... what is furniture tvs and dvds and stuff its nothing what comes first is you your self you are safe and out of harm be gratful that you got out alive and unharmed because not many woman do x
2007-12-14 09:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dianne E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should honestly get as far away from him as possible. in life you need to make choices that make you happy. no one would be happy in this situation. you can take him to small claims court for your things back. feel sorry for the other woman. i know you probably care about him, but you need to get your stuff back, or possibly money for the stuff. good luck with everything!
2007-12-14 09:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by srt4goingfasterthanyouuu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life and start over. THINGS are not important.
He sounds like a bad person. Get away from him.
2007-12-14 09:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from it and let it go, material things is not worth the hassle
2007-12-14 09:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer
2007-12-14 09:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋