...How do you feel being without the person at the Holiday time?
Do you want to call? Do you want to have them here just to not be alone ont he Holiday?
How are yo dealing with it?
2007-12-14 07:32:48 · 13 answers · asked by Francesca 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tina I know this is a serious Q...but just to make u smile...my answer is.....
If u can't be with the one u love, then love the one your with!
Now to be serious...seems this time of yr can make us feel love we may not feel at other times...also we are so easy to forget if this person has hurt us..all of a sudden are memories are only good ones..and our feelings become clouded.
If this person feels like you do..let them call Tina...u go on and have a great holiday...u have plenty to do and look forward to!!!!
2007-12-15 18:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't focus on what's not there instead look at what is
There is always someone worse off than you
YOu have your health your life
Do something for others
Volunteer at a homeless shelter or something like that
Get out of yourself
Me i'm used to being alone on the holidays so it doesn't bother me
that hasn't been an issue for me for a while now because i am with someone now and we live together
but before that i was always alone so to speak on holidays so i went out and did something for others or just did some things that i liked to do
2007-12-14 16:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by rebel_angel031 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I'll have a good Holiday anyway. My life isn't based upon him for happiness. We love sharing things, but when we can't, we're usually just fine. I'm getting together with friends from Church for Christams dinner and then going either to the movies or the beach after that. He'll be in CT with family. Be proactive and find something great to do.
2007-12-14 15:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by mrhthepoet 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I spend the holiday with my family or friends instead. If "the person" in question doesn't want to see me, there's no way I'm going to beg.
2007-12-14 15:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try and create new memories with family members or friends. It hurts to be without somebody you were with for so long but it's easier if you can spend time with the people that have been there for you this year.
2007-12-14 15:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Adee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is very sad not to be able to get to see loved ones.... call all the time, just have to make it through
2007-12-14 15:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have kids and they keep me busy during the holiday!!!
yeah, it get lonely at time .....
focus on someting else.....
I focus on my kids and myself....
2007-12-14 15:39:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Cuban 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I try not to focus on my pain and/or suffering and instead, focus on helping someone who is less fortunate than me.
Good luck.
2007-12-14 15:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I get depressed as I have no one to be with!
2007-12-14 15:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because there might be a warm body there,doesn't mean that you still are not alone.You know what i mean ,don't you chica?
2007-12-14 23:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋