We've been married for more that a year and until now i've haven't *** everytime we have sex.. everytime im almost theire there will be something pops on my mind and i forgot about CUMMING.. i need help for you guys.. Thanks
2007-12-14 03:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you have to figure out what makes you come.
Experiment.
Also, relax, don't think about it.
and tell him what you like.
2007-12-21 12:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
This is, and is not a big deal. Ya don't say how old ya are. I don't know how much 'experience' you have. So this is all I can tell ya.
It is NOT necessary to orgasm each and every time ya have sex....it's nice..but not necessary. Personally, I don't 'keep count'...if I do great...if I don't...well...there is always nextime.
Now as for the reason why yer not able to, hun I think yer trying too hard....the orgasm has become an important measuring device to ya, and it really shouldn't. I know girls/women who can only get themselves off.
Some people are lucky and each partner is able to learn right away the 'combination' that unlocks the 'O'....
But the journey to finding the mysterious 'O' should be fun in it's self......don't ya think?
Are you familiar with your body? What you like? What sets ya off? By all means discover it yourself, and then be able to give him the right directions to get ya there...it will take practice. But the important thing is, enjoy yourselves, learn from one another...learn from yourselves...just learn.
2007-12-14 03:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tira A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something pops in your mind? Your lovemaking must be pretty dull. Got to spice that up a little. Perhaps he could help a little too. More touching, more foreplay. BTW It's not uncommon to not climax every single time you have sex. Some women seldom do. But at least reach for that brass ring.
2007-12-14 03:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
several things; 1) there is nothing wrong with orgasm, so no needto hide the word 2) it is very bad for a guy if she cannot orgasm 3) he needs to be great at oral to begin things, and so you can have both kinds of orgasms 3) try being on top, that usually does it for women 4) good luck!
2007-12-14 03:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For men it's easy. For women it can take some practice and by practice I mean just that! Most experts will tell you a woman has to be familiar with her own body before she can help her partner know which buttons to push to help her climax.
2007-12-14 03:26:54 · answer #5 · answered by Leaveamark 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys and girls shouldn't have sex or get married until they are men and women.
2007-12-14 03:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mind on CUMMING!!! You need to get into it and stay until you ***.
2007-12-14 03:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by lydia t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, I am a women. You need to focus on the moment. And let nothing distract you. Have FUN
2007-12-14 03:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, men don't care if women have orgasms or not. Most women do not have orgasms during sex. I've never had one with another person in the room.
2007-12-14 03:31:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I just started to have orgasms after about 4 years.. and the way it worked for me is being on top.. so try it!
2007-12-14 03:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by evelyngrz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not sad for the boy, sad for the girl!
2007-12-14 03:27:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋