My husband and i are seprated and he just got back from the military . Well hurt happened on both sides but finally we started getting along last week we sleep together and a few days later ate together and he bought me clothes on another day last week i brought our 2 yr old to him and dropped her off at 9 pm i picked her up he said lets all go eat together we had a nice time He said he would call me it is now friday no call At the beginning of the week i tryed to call and text him he never answered. I really don't understand how he can let the week go by i think this means he doesn't miss me? or is thinking i have no idea but it really hurts i need a man to answer this. Everytime i go there i can't call because he doesn't answer so i show up inexpected theres never another women around and from other things i really think he is not cheating. but for the life of me if we are divorcing why would he be so nice with me and then turn around & not call i have not seen him all week since sun
2007-12-14 04:42:59 · 11 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i stopped calling tuesday and now i almost feel like we are at a mexican standoff who will call first but wouldn't he at least call about his daughter by now. Or does all this mean he just doesn't care at all about me in that case how would we go out and eat together sun nite? hmm this is bothering me do you think it is bothering him now that i'm not calling i don't understand men He is 35 me 30.
2007-12-14 04:44:58 · update #1
You need to back off and let him make the next move, whatever that may be. I respect our military men and the job they do. You need to understand that he may have some issues after being in a military situation. Perhaps he is taking his time to get his feeling straight. If you continue to hound him and show up unexpected all you are going to accomplish is pissing him off and coming across as controlling and desperate. Desperation is not sexy. Stand on your own, be prepared for things to crumble and be prepared for him to get over it. Stop being weak. You need to think about your child and yourself. He will either come back or back off, either way you cannot control his decision so stop trying.
God Bless
Yoda out
2007-12-14 04:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I,ve been married now for 39yrs this month, My wife and children are my life,But this husband of yours does not seem to be bothered about you or your child I would not give him the time of day. Don,t let him see that it bothers you or he may just do it all the more, I hope things work out for you , you deserve a lot better than this .Good luck.Have a nice Xmas and a prosperous new year.
2007-12-14 05:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably thinking everything is going well and he doesn't want to rush or he doesn't want you to feel he is pressuring you. It's probably a combination of things, maybe work. Maybe the week just passed too quickly for him and he knows he is seeing you on Sunday. Don't worry, no matter what you will have your answer soon enough,,,good luck
2007-12-14 04:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sitting on the fence. Remember he just got out of a demanding relationship with the military. Give him time to acclimate. Its in your best long term interest.
2007-12-14 04:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by arvindrenamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a child together. You guys need some counseling. That kid didn't ask to be born, but it deserves to be raised by intelligent, loving parents, and you and he need to step to the plate, grow up, and be parents. It is no longer about each of you, it is about your child.You need to know that, and so does he. Get a couple of sessions of family counseling.
2007-12-14 04:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just keeping you on the line for a easy score. If something happens and one of his other ladies dont pan out he will call. You are now just a piece of *** to him.
2007-12-14 05:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If going threw A DIVORCE there are no rules>Don't know what he is up to but seems it has issues>Be safe keep an open mind>
2007-12-14 05:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-11 06:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by figurelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really insecure....
You need to give him a break, the more you push the farther he will go.....
Keep your mind busy with something else like your kid!
When it is time he will wonder what you are up to...
Turn the tables.
2007-12-14 04:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Gyspy Soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call, wait. If you call he might think that you are just too needy. Give him space
2007-12-14 04:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋