What do you do if your ex husband can't stand your new boyfriend, but expects and pushes his new girlfriend on you? He talks so bad about my boyfriend and if I have a problem with his girl friend, all of the sudden I am just horrible.
2007-12-14 05:08:19 · 26 answers · asked by cyn s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means he never really got over the break up.
2007-12-14 05:11:19 · answer #1 · answered by LuckyLavs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just jealous about your new boyfriend. You tell him that if he expects you to be nice to his girlfriend then he needs to do the same for you, and if he doesn't then he is not worth being friends with after the divorce.
If he wants you as a friend then he should respect your decision in who you date, after all you two are not together anymore.
You have to remember there was a reason y'all divorced and if you couldn't remain friends in the marriage, then what makes you think you can now the marriage is over.
2007-12-14 13:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by steph78s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer at top wins. Setting boundaries is key. Talk only of kids issues. Anything else is using the kids talk session as means to get into your bizniz.
You draw a line in the sand and they test it always. They act all nice one day and then slam! Stick to the issues and don't deviate.
2007-12-14 13:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Delay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why they are ex husbands. If you don't care about him, you should not care of his comments about your new boyfriend. You should out smart him and tell him his new girlfriend is perfect for him. They make a wonderful pair, and to stay away.
2007-12-14 13:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by clever girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I wouldn't care what he thought, says, or does...My life is not his business...That is what you have to enforce so that he respects you...My ex-husband and I have both moved on..We have two children together that we both have to be responsible for...Other than them as long as the children are put first and are not in any harms way we don't get involve in each other's personal life...That is the way it is suppose to be and we try not to cross the boundaries...This is what being Divorce means for us.....
2007-12-17 09:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him about it.
I understand - sort of. I don't have an ex husband, but my boyfriend has an ex wife, who can say all she wants about me and to me. But if I do anything, he defends her (even though she treats him like dirt) and somehow I come out to be the bad person.
2007-12-14 13:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
woah! are you like bff's with your ex-husband. I think both of you should give each other loads of space at this point. and honestly, if you care so much about what your ex thinks, then why aren't you together? it is a new life, tell him to take a hike with his gf and live a new happy life WITHOUT him
2007-12-14 13:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by mishkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you even associating with an 'ex'. You a sucker for punishment? Didn't have enough when you were married that now you ask for more after the divorce?
2007-12-14 13:11:06 · answer #8 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's jealous of you having a boyfriend. Maybe some unresolved feelings?
2007-12-14 13:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by Diane A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining Order.
2007-12-14 13:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by Elliott J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Obviously your ex is jealous of what you now have. He expects you to be happy for him but an't accept that you may have found happiness too.
Ignore the dumb a** and enjoy your new relationship.
2007-12-14 13:11:20 · answer #11 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋