2007-12-14 21:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My boyfriend is a married guy and our relationship has been 4 years already. He said he loves me more than anybody else but i have a hard time accepting that fact. I know one day, sooner or later something will come up and we are both going to go our separate ways, but i just wanted to know if there's really a possibility that he really loves me more than he loves anybody else. thanks
2007-12-14 21:11:41 · update #1
he may love u but doesn't want his marriage to end either. it goes without saying that he doesn't love his wife, but he doesn't love u either to put u in such a predicament where u can't see a future with him.
2007-12-14 21:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2015-08-23 09:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does really love you and he loves you more than he loves his wife. If you are in love and happy being with him do what you have to do to stay with him. Leaving him and finding another man will not make you happy. If he does leave his wife for you don't ever get married and destroy the love you have for each other. Here are the facts of life you need to learn now:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
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2007-12-15 01:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, but he should have divorced her 4 years ago and if he didn't, you should not have continued to see him all of that time. There's a thing called loving yourself before others can love you. I would have a hard time loving myself if I were dating a married man for 4 years. Maybe that is why you are questioning his love, and very rightly so.
2007-12-14 22:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by 8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. But it's also highly painful. It takes a lot for many men to commit to marriage, so he probably loves his wife an awful lot too. It's been four years, sweetie. He's not going to leave her, and if he will do it for you he wil do it to you. A lot of men are good at telling women what they want to hear. I wonder what he says to his wife in the comfort of thei marriage bed. I bet he tells her she's the most special person in the world, so beautiful, he loves her more than anything. Don't tust a cheater, whether it's with you or on you. Leave him and stop letting him mess up two women.
2007-12-14 21:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a selfish prick and it isn't possible he would love another woman more then his own wife. He might lust after you more then his wife only because you give him sex when ever he is with you. If he loved you he would divorce his wife and marry you. Why would you or anyone else ever want to love a man like that. If he can do that to his wife then he will do that to you and anyone else he is fooling around with.
2007-12-14 21:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you see in this man, who is living a lie with his wife? If he doesn't respect his commitment with his current wife, why would he have the integrity to respect it with you? The longer you wait to break it off, the more painful and damage it will probably do. It can be tough finding a stable man, etc, but how could this be your answer or what you are looking for?
2007-12-14 21:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by str8_op 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your married b/f doesn't really love you, he has to tell you what he feels you might want to here or he will be back out looking for some other dirt bag to lie to. But not to worry its just as much your fault as it is his. How can a person have such low self esteem to just be a cumm dumpster to some married man.
2007-12-14 21:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you have feelings for him and it will be painful to end the relationship but he's a married man with a spouse. You should not participate with him in betraying his partner, breaking his vows, exclusivity and promises to her, or hurting her. Put yourself in his wife shoe's for a moment, your husband shouldn't cheat on you and you shouldn't be stealing her husband away from her. I know you're not a bad person but this act is a very unkind one.
2007-12-14 21:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yeah. If he is not in love with his wife then yeah. A man that is truly in love with his wife will not want to lose that.
Don't try and be a home wrecker. It never works out your relationship will be build on lies. If he loves you so much why can't he leave his wife ????
2007-12-14 21:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by snowflake311 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your initial Question, Yes! But whats the point if he is married? Its a lose, lose situation no matter how great the sex is, so therefore whats the point other than heartache.
2007-12-15 00:18:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋