Marriage & Divorce - 7 December 2007

is in prescool.i am looking for something fulltime when she starts school next year.the kids love their home but i hate living like this i tell him why dont we look for other people he says he doesnt want anyone else,but he doesnt want me either.hello

2007-12-07 22:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by shellya 2

for real .what makes a woman who is married. with kids. and a husband .think that they can hide things about what there doing. and think a younger man would want them .dont it bother them knowing that we younger men only use them like trash or what . are they thinking. like that trailer park trash .who is in her.40.s using her own familys home to get layed in it by younger men .she was always doing the come on to me as well my friend so we both took turns on her. me first. then my buddy. second. and act like nothing happened when her kids. and man returined there she sat as if nothing had went on but in there about.15. minutes eariler it had . what is wrong with trash like her those streach marks was sicking we both later on agreeded on that but to act so loving and easy isnt that a whore as to her action.s as if we cared about that trash but only was using her like she thought she was using us isnt that a cheap thing in every aspect as being called a woman and mom and wife as well /

2007-12-07 21:28:50 · 20 answers · asked by matthew v 3

I have been with my husband 4 years,married 7 months, I found condoms in his wallet yesterday and he said they were old and that it wasnt what it looked like( because we don't use them). Then he says he is going out to an old friends birthday party and is an extra shirt with him(I just found that odd) and I ask if I could go and he wouldn't le me and it's after 4 in the morning and he has never called yet? should I be worried or thinking of how to get even?

2007-12-07 21:09:50 · 17 answers · asked by free2Bme 2

My case: she fall out of love with me, then got to know a rich guy... so she decided to file for divorce cos she said she has no feelin for me anymore and she finds me a burden, and the marriage cert a restriction for her.... but b4 she told me all these, she has been going out with this guy without letting him know she is married ( though he knows now), and they have been calling each other darling, etc... (got to know all these from peeping into her MSN history)

i wonder if they have been doing intimate activities>???

1)can my case be define as her committing adultery or infidelity?
2)what are the chances i need to give her maintenance fees?
3)im not filing for divorce but she is... not sure whether she will apply for the maintenance fee..
4)my marriage is on 24 april 2006, i know we cant get the divorce within 3 years....
what should i do? she has been kicked out by her family for doin this, we have been living separately since nov 23rd 2007

2007-12-07 20:13:38 · 8 answers · asked by yennie 2

I am an army spouse. and my husband doesnt talk money at all with me. I am a responsible , TRUSTWORTHY person. since he has been in the service he sets aside a small percentage of money to place in the joint account, but its hardly enough to cover the bills.. he is always going out with his friends spending money, and i am stuck at home trying to save money by not always going out, and using coupons or not buying things when i dont have to. i am so much more conservitive then he is.. and i dont waste anything.. my hubby is the complete opposite, when it comes to sharing he is horrible with it. matter of fact he uses things like money grows on trees and throws things out before they are even gone.

2007-12-07 19:58:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 19:58:05 · 24 answers · asked by 33 1

2007-12-07 19:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My date is married n he has three children.He is a superb nice man.I know he likes n loves me so much and at the same time,he had never ever say bad things about his wife yet he loves her so much n appreciate her for supporting him in their 17years of marriage.
At the same time,he gave me everything that i need and always makes me happy.He take care of me as much as how he care for his family.I have a very2 good relationship with his family and honestly i love them as if they're mine.
The problem is that,I dont want to continue cheating his wife. If one day she found out the truth,I am very sure that she will be hurt badly.I love this man whole-heartedly but I dont wanna hurt his wife and his three beautiful children. Please give me ur opinion on what I should do and how am I to face if u think the best way to solve this is,walk away.
Thank you.

2007-12-07 19:47:25 · 17 answers · asked by keen 2

It seems to me that if I was married and there was sexual problems, I would try to figure out the cause. Perhaps she had someone close die. Or maybe she is experiencing an emotional crises. Maybe job stress.

All I know is that she is the woman I married and I love her just as much as she loves me. So why should sex problems cause me to leave her? It won't, because we will find a way to work things out because we love each other. Love each other enough to get married and spend the rest of our life together.

I just don't see why sex is so important that it warrants a divorce for some people when it gets slightly stale. I mean, I think it's unrealistic to have wild,fantastic sex 24/7/365. I think people have unrealistic expectations of sex and place it way too highly compared to the meanings of a true, loving, and unconditional relationship.

2007-12-07 19:47:18 · 20 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

Married. I feel almost the same feelings for both . Am I crazy?

2007-12-07 19:35:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 19:07:03 · 19 answers · asked by simsim 2

I love my 6 year old daughter and refuse to become a weekend dad. How do I remain sane without any intimacy in my life?

2007-12-07 18:59:56 · 16 answers · asked by Dutch 1

my wife does very well in college, but lacks common sense. the problem is that when sombody states a fact or mentions "the cat might have worms", without considering the possibilities she denies it. she does this several times a day with whatever people say. the big problem is she is proven wrong for almost everything she says but will never admit that she was wrong. she simply makes up some excuse on how somthing was worded and continues on. she has few friends and this know it all attitude is wearing on me. i dont know what to do. i tried talking with her about it and she got pissed and wouldnt talk anymore. im desperate for any advice or ideas... thanks

2007-12-07 18:35:45 · 15 answers · asked by danrmar29 2

2007-12-07 18:29:29 · 15 answers · asked by amykayizhott 1

2007-12-07 18:15:31 · 13 answers · asked by Becca 2

2007-12-07 18:06:16 · 29 answers · asked by jada3315 1

I am a widow, I am pretty good looking with two kids around my late thirties.Ive been dating this guy since the past 9 years now, not at one time did he introduce me to his friends let alone his people ( I can understand they will not accept) as he is not married. I really love him a lot and am still waiting for him to at least say something like he is going to be with me for the rest of my life. Is this right for me to stay and wait like this at least for him to meet my son or friends. We meet and have great times together but all this is in utter secrecy, what is the end to this.

2007-12-07 17:52:46 · 23 answers · asked by Lilo 1

He's made it painfully clear that he is never going to change (he's lazy around the house, though he works hard at work, he doesn't talk to me, he tells me to hush all the time when I try to talk to him, he tells me my interests are stupid, talks bad about my family, doesn't play with our one year old son much, never takes us anywhere, never wants to spend time alone, never has sex with me, never hugs/kisses me unless he's leaving for work, gets mad if I call his cell..) BUT, he works, pays the bills, allows me to be a stay at home mom for our son, and doesn't cheat. He comes home straight after work, and doesn't run around. So, my question is.. how can I be the person he wants me to be? I'm opinionated, open minded, believe that men and women are equal, demanding when it comes to our son and what a husband SHOULD do.. BUT all it does is cause us to fight. I can't take it anymore, but divorce isn't an option. My dad left my sister and I when I was three and I've always wondered why.

2007-12-07 17:27:39 · 23 answers · asked by ... 1

This question is only for married and live-in couples.

2007-12-07 17:27:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 17:13:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 17:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to hear your opion . on this married woman . with kids. a man. and how sorry she is. i was not at fault on her comming on to me . but things happened with this trailer park tras yes it happened right in her home and in her man.s bed was where we did it my buddy watched for uus both while it happened then it was his turn i watched for him as well isnnt she sicking as a woman. doing this with us both . this trailer park trash was.in her.40.s we was in our teen.s dont that make her trash. toward being a woman. wife. and mom .

2007-12-07 17:08:19 · 12 answers · asked by matthew v 3

2007-12-07 17:05:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

that your ex has to respond to your communications? My girlfriend and her husband have it written that they must respond to e-mails within 24 hours? I just wondered if this is common? Mine owes me money for his share of medical bills for our son-yet he ignores any e-mails or phone messages. (this is only the second time in 4 years I have asked for money). it's not a large enough sum to warrant legal measures, but it is close to Christmas and he definitely has the money so that is not the issue. Sorry to vent.

2007-12-07 17:05:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Tell me what are some things to look out in a girl to tell if she will be a good, lasting wife?

2007-12-07 17:04:11 · 6 answers · asked by YucaKacamata 1

I was thinking of a jacket, because she can use one, but at the same time I want to get her jewlery.

2007-12-07 17:01:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-07 16:59:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been together for 4 years and married for two. we have two adorable kids together. i'm a stay at home mom and my husband works. he expects me to cook, clean, watch our kids and do everything. he comes home and plays on the computer and his xbox360. i asked him to spend one hour a day with us and it lasted for one week. i stopped asking how his day was and how i feel. he doesn't like it. his aunt and dad doesn't like me cause we're from different cultures and he always says he dissapointed his dad cause he didn't marry someone from his ethnicity. i bottle up all my feeling and i feel so alone. he doesn't want to go to counseling. he plans things with his friends and brother but not his us. i tried cuddling and he was like can't i just stay here w/o u doin that. if the roads are slippery and i tell him to be careful he's like stop that. i'm not a kid anymore stop caring about me. i know for a fact that he's not cheating. i don't get it? i'm so sad.

2007-12-07 16:53:01 · 16 answers · asked by cindi_chean 2

Not right this second but this month. Men probalby cheat with more different people in the long run, but I believe most men think about cheating but really don't get the right oppurtunity or just don't have the time and energy to chase a woman. Woman get a lot more opps and are often lonely. So I believe Women cheat the most in a Relationship. They just keep it quite. I have had a lot of married women flirt with me or even straight out showed they wanted to. I refuse but damn, some women these days are aggressive and selfish. I work with mostly women and they check out a lot of guys and wish they would be hit on, even if they are married.

2007-12-07 16:50:46 · 5 answers · asked by fastfreedombailbonds 4

I have a "friend" who is very manipulative, I know they have alot of stress right now, but they have always been like this.I cant just quit being their friend, I am the only one theyve got, but I just dont know how to handle them anymore.

2007-12-07 16:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous