is in prescool.i am looking for something fulltime when she starts school next year.the kids love their home but i hate living like this i tell him why dont we look for other people he says he doesnt want anyone else,but he doesnt want me either.hello
2007-12-07 22:33:09 · 10 answers · asked by shellya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Life is difficult, and even the rich die alone and afraid. Grow stronger. Read your bible, go to church, try to be the best mom and friend you can be. Everyone needs your love, even if you don't feel like loving. Get strong, and the problems will seem small, or you will find your own answers.
2007-12-08 00:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Calvin James Hammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work out something with the preschool* give them a heads up and maybe they can defer childcare costs for a month, and you pay it back when you get outta there
Just leave while hes gone to avoid confrontation and while kids are at school, have a custody scenario worked out in your head. can u agree to something or is ti better handled in courts.
do you trust him with your children?
how will he react?
are you in any emotional or physical danger?
Go to a church and see what services they provide. more times than not, they can find you a place to stay with a church member, sometimes a little older so maybe you can work and contribute there. and volunteer. or find a place called AWARE OR SAFV Shelter. make an appt at a hospital if you need to be sneaky and then talk to the Social Services dept. they have all that info about housing food stamps emergency funds. etc...good luck
2007-12-08 06:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he wants you, why else would he say he doesn't want to look for someone else.. He has you right where he wants you!! He has gotten so comfortable and settled in his own lifestyle that he is taking you for granted but continues I am sure to make you believe he loves you.
There are many services out there that will help you.. even with a job so either get busy making calls or spend your life unhappily with this guy until all the kids are out of the house.
2007-12-08 06:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sugarplum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...shitty situation. The only way you can get away is to file for divorce and get him to pay child support, or split custody. You would have more time to work if he had the kids part time.
2007-12-08 06:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Carolyn H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That leaves one or two other dads unaccounted for. What happened when you were with them?
Do you see a pattern here?
The Rat
2007-12-08 06:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's abusive in any way, LEAVE. If not, you can maybe stick it out until you can work full time and affords to move out.
2007-12-08 14:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by christina30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has problems. Maybe you should try finding someone else and let him be the one sitting around, why should you be miserable. seems like he just wants to keep you from your happiness.....
2007-12-08 13:34:09 · answer #7 · answered by 1 UnIqUe InDiViDuAl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop allowing him to treat you like he's your boss that you need to report in to.
2007-12-08 07:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats your question??? if you want to know where to go try the blue pages of your phone book for womens services
2007-12-08 06:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Shopaholic Chick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should get out, it's not worth it if you're not happy. It will be better for your kids to see you happy.
2007-12-08 06:35:45 · answer #10 · answered by misty_dawn1100 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋