Marriage & Divorce - 7 December 2007

if you are talking with a man online in yahoo messenger with a webcam and on myspace for 2 months everyday for a long time and you fall in love with him and he falls in love with you but you have a boyfriend who is the father of your child and you live with him but you no longer have feelings for him and you are not happy with him and you do not like the way he treats u but the man u talk with online treats u better and does love u for u . how would i end the relationship with my childs father to be with my new lover and how would i go about it if i live with my childs father

2007-12-07 12:30:32 · 21 answers · asked by i am kool 1

For example, my family comes from Singapore. Over there, most of the people (including my family) are wealthy and well off. Women could easily lead independent lives and raise family members on their own. Abuse of women is not tolerated at all. Women are treated as equals as men. There is no religious stigma associated with divorce. People there are not any more moral than the ones in America.

So my question is, why is the divorce rate higher in America than in places like Singapore? Or China, Japan, India, and just about every country in South America?

2007-12-07 12:25:48 · 17 answers · asked by banananutmeg1 1

how would you get this man to be honest with himself about the reality of his marriage and the blatant contradiction of his words and beliefs

2007-12-07 12:20:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

should u stay in a relationship with your child;s father if u are not happy or in love with him and how do you end the relationship if you both live together

2007-12-07 12:18:42 · 14 answers · asked by i am kool 1

Ok so here is the deal. I'm married and I have 3 children. They are not my husbands children. He and I fully agree on how to discipline the kids in our home but my youngest daughters father disagrees he says that it is against the law for my husband to do so. I have looked around and I have not found anything that has said such a thing. Is this true? It is putting a real strain on things in our home because we would never do anything to hurt the children but its to the point where we are more watchful of what we say and do and the result of that is the children run all over us. Is there somewhere that I can get this law if it does exsist? Any advice would help. Thanks

2007-12-07 12:15:01 · 18 answers · asked by baby girl 2

she is 26...when we were dating she told me 26 guys and i thought that was a lot but today she told me the number is more like 60...i am 29 and i have only been with her. we have been together for four years.

2007-12-07 12:08:34 · 38 answers · asked by Marty the One Man Party 1

I am a recovering alcoholic. I lost custody of my 13 year old daughter to her father when she was 3, but have had visitations since. I got sober a year ago and am doing much better, but I am a single mom to a 10 year old also, and don't have very much money. My ex husband does not ask for child support so I don't pay it. My issue is this. My daughter wants a christmas present that cost 150.00 dollars. I can get this for her but then I will be behind. She gets mad if I tell her I might have to get her something less expensive. Every night when we talk on the phone she says "Mom, are you gonna be able to get me what I want or not?" I'm not sure what to do. Should I get it for her and suffer, or get her something less expensive and deal with her anger. Help!!!

2007-12-07 12:07:08 · 42 answers · asked by chay e 2

2007-12-07 11:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by Twinkle 2

2007-12-07 11:44:39 · 65 answers · asked by shellya 2

2007-12-07 11:39:47 · 24 answers · asked by jennyrogo 1

Your smile and face was so beautiful
Your heart was so ICE cold
I thought you made me happy
With all the lies you told

Are you ever going to get out of my head?
Maybe with time
Your love should come with a caution tag
Your love is such a crime

It feels like you left me so long ago
the months seems like years
I am so sick of this heartache
I am so sick of drowning in these tears

I pray often to God to bring me death in this life
I know if you ever heard me say that you would smile
God I cant believe I married you
I cannot believe you were my wife.

I have had so many sleepless nights
And all the tears I have cried
I bet you have not shed one tear for me
Because first you have to have a heart inside

I have never so much
LOVED and HATED
I hate to look at myself sometimes
Because I hate to see what you have created

Sometimes I feel so sorry for you
And all the guys after me
Sometimes I feel like putting a bullet in both out heads
To end the misery

2007-12-07 11:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 30 yrs old. My ex-boyf broke up with me months ago. The break up was very hard for me. He broke up due to long-distance. I was very hurt about the break up as I really loved him and still do now. He has always called me back after the break up and we even met a couple of times. But he doesn't want to let go. About a month ago, he called me that he needs to see me. This was shortly after I told him that I am going travelling for a couple of months. He says he is too scared to loose me but he is not ready to come back to me. I was quite upset to see him leaving so I told him we must go separate ways and have no contact. He was upset but he said he has to accept it. But he called me last week saying he can't forget me and he thinks of me. But he then said he can't be with me now as I am going away to travel. He wants to meet when I come back from my travels. love him and he says he does too but I am so confused. I want to be with him but he says not now maybe later we can talk.

2007-12-07 11:17:31 · 13 answers · asked by violet b 1

my emotions and longing for intimacy r so strong i cannot help it we are both remaining abstinent sexually until after marriage but relieve ourselves by talking/fantasy..and cybering is that wrong???

2007-12-07 11:12:12 · 17 answers · asked by Reta 1

What would do if your husband didn't want to buy you gifts on his own and made you come with him. Also, I have to invite myselft on this adventure, since he never offers. He doesn't do it for holidays either unless I take him to the store, pick it out and then remind him to wrap it. He also has a thing about buying gifts. If I buy him a gift, he refuses to use it because he has already told me that he doesn't want it.

2007-12-07 11:10:41 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel P 1

The situation : I am a Step-father of a 5 yr old boy. My wife was not married to the father of the child and left him (with her son living with her) when the child was 1yr old. I met my wife just after she left the father of the child and have been with her and the child ever since. The father has threatened to take us to court to take full custody of his son. (we have a joint custody agreement now where the father sees his son every Wed. and every other weekend). The father has been complaining that he is going to take us to court for the last 2-3yrs (for what reasons he wont tell us). The father is never on time (30-40minutes late most time) to pickup/drop off his son with no phone calls letting us know. I was 1hr late dropping him off today(my step son was on the toilet, and then we were held back by a train). He was really pissed and and is filing papers on Monday. What would he have have to do to win full custody(he has a good lawyer) and do you think he would win?

2007-12-07 11:06:47 · 13 answers · asked by webnerd 2

My husband doesn't work and I am working full-time. We don't have enough money to go out and we are 8,000 dollars in debt. He hasn't worked in 2 years and seems to not mind a bit. I told him it was okay, since he helps me at home with my 2nd job. If I ask him to work, he will tell me that he is going to wash dishes and doesn't know how long he will last before he drops dead. He may or may not get a job and if so, may be very miserable. Is my marriage worth saving. I have a son who is 10 years old and I hate to hurt him. He is not his biologicle father and isn't too attached, but has disabilities. I also take care of my mom. I need his help around the house and taking my son to school. Also, I am persuing a new career and studying at a university. Any ideas?

2007-12-07 11:05:13 · 33 answers · asked by Rachel P 1

I was working on a school project with a girl and she screwed up and made us fail so I said she was a F*cking idiot and slapped her in the face. She started crying and said she was goign to "kick me where it counts" what does that mean?

2007-12-07 11:02:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Real quick....what can I tell my wife tonight that will get me in?

2007-12-07 10:59:18 · 31 answers · asked by SmoothD 3

Even in marriage. Neither spouse has COMPETE ACCESS to the other person's Money or Sex WITHOUT that person's permission.

Spouse A and Spouse B choose where they deposit their pay check and how much to put in a joint account or not.

Spouse A and Spouse B choose if they will allow the other access to their money.

Spouse A and Spouse B choose if they will allow the other access to their sex.

It seems to me that Sex and Money are very similiar.

So why is everyone say a spouse can with hold Sex, but not Money?

2007-12-07 10:33:01 · 10 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

A ex-flame of mind (re-boyfriend to be) are getting back together he says hes in the army reserve. Its not that i dont believe i had seen his picture and all that junk but some of the things he tells me i dont think is true. Such as: someone calling him really early in the morning and him having to leave for chicago? also that he was in iraq. Can he even be in iraq he is in the reserve and just start this junk at the beggining of the year. Would someone please just tell me a little about the army and the reserve. How does it work and what my ex-flame has to do?? please and thank you

2007-12-07 10:28:22 · 8 answers · asked by babygrl7950 1

she goes out every night and guys buy her drinks, she isn't home half of the time, but she's not cheating...i gave her permission to do what the f she wants. we aren't in love, we don't have sex, is there any reason to stay married? i've done everything for her and nothing is enough...cars, making her dinner....and when we do have sex, we have problems. we're really good friends, but it seems like that's all we really are. there is no chemistry. we've been together almost four years...i'm 29, she's 26 and she's my first everything. is it too late to move on and start our lives over?

2007-12-07 10:25:48 · 53 answers · asked by Marty the One Man Party 1

would say this a lack of trust?

two people are married they have their own individual financial business as well as jointly. if the wife is trying to handle her own business and dosen't share it with her husband. is that wrong? is that saying that she does not trust her husband?

2007-12-07 09:58:09 · 19 answers · asked by justme4now 2

Was it with your spouse? Or with someone else?

And where did it take place?

2007-12-07 09:54:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

To get married at... or how long do you think you need to be with someone before you pop the question!

2007-12-07 09:50:32 · 17 answers · asked by shortchick33 2

I am totally unhappy lately, so you think this will age me? I feel like I look like I aged a bunch in 6 months. im only 30

2007-12-07 09:48:59 · 9 answers · asked by holiday♥ 4

I am healthy, married and a little bit worried about how to spend my time alone in the house while my wife is still working another 10 years.

2007-12-07 09:48:38 · 68 answers · asked by Mr Innocent 2

A friend sent out wedding invites a couple months ago...well most of her guests declined the invite. She is getting married at the end of December in Michigan. Most of her invites were to people living in Texas, New Mexico & Arizona...so they'd have to travel quite a distance not to mention what the road conditions could be like up North. Well she's has been calling and asking "are you sure you can't come" I've told her nicely several times I just can't afford it this time of year, plus I cannot take additional time off from work...since we recieve a week off for Christmas paid...(Dec 21-27, & if you don't work the week after you loose your holiday pay. I can't afford that) Plus I told her that the weather is already pretty yucky up there...what if I get caught in a blizard. If it were closer or at any other time of the year I'd be happy to go. She's been calling lots of us...how do I tell her nicely without hurting her feelings?

2007-12-07 09:46:26 · 7 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1

If a spouse doesn't want to have sex is it okay to not want to give them access to all your income?

You each would still contribute each of your FAIR share for the bills and expenses, but keep the rest to yourself.

Would this sort of self behaviour on both side make the other person value their spouse any more or less?

So which is more wrong?
With holding Sex or Money?

2007-12-07 09:39:12 · 10 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I,ve been paying child support for years and they keep going up on the payments. I am a married man and I have lots of bills. They just recently increase my payments from 275 to 395 . I can't even afford to pay my rent or my bills my wife is a part time worker. My ex recently got married in 2007 or 2006 .
I need help because Its hard for me and my wife to pay our bills.

2007-12-07 09:35:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you think marriage is important and essential to raising a child?

2007-12-07 09:34:56 · 19 answers · asked by CK 4