Marriage & Divorce - 7 December 2007

Okay, obviously I mean "fixed" or "snipped". We have ENOUGH pro-creaters in this world. We are becoming over populated as it is. I think that all men should dispence their sperm into a bank, for when they are ready to create a child. As many samples as they want to give. And then get fixed. This would fixed all unplanned pregnancies and over populated people problems. Why not fix where the problem begins? Sure, you can get angry and are all "prideful" about your little smelly berries, but really......this would fix so many problems..haha..

2007-12-07 15:15:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

looking for opinions

2007-12-07 15:12:45 · 34 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

HELLO This is new for me! I and my husband been married for seven years now. I say around the second or third year of marriage it started to take a turn. Don't get me wrong he great with the kids, he a great provider, however the communication and relationship that we have are not the same. We barely talk and when we do it is when we are apart. Sex is minimum. I have grown tired of that. I am not an unattractive female I'm sure I wouldn't have a problem finding a man but that is not the point. I'm trying to save my marriage we have went to dozens of counseling. None has worked we even separated for a couple of months and got back together to try at again however we ended up back in the same boat. I am tired of being in the same household with my husband and feel that he is not there I am tired of going through of not having sex for six mo. almost two yrs once. He stated he would rather leave because he feel he doesn't need to change. Im tired of doing all the sacrificing.

2007-12-07 15:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Lena! 2

their 7th grade sweetheart? just seeing if its possible.... curious;]

2007-12-07 15:06:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 11 years. The past few years hasnt been very good. We argue all the time, we cant get along at all. He pays no attention to me. He works all the time and when he is home, hes either sleeping or watching tv. I feel like I come in second next to his job. We never have anything to talk about with each other. He use to kiss me goodbye when leaving for work, now he just rushes out the door, without even a bye. I feel like hes a stranger to me. I miss what we use to have, I feel like he doesnt even love or like me anymore. Ive asked him to help me work this out, but he wont. I guess what Im asking, is this something every couple that has been together for a long time goes through? Is it that we are bored of each other? To be married, I sure do feel lonely......

2007-12-07 15:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by Care2much 1

A single man/woman who knows that your married is checking you out.What would you do?Do you think its alright to smile and wink at them as long as it didnt go past that or would you ignore them because you would consider flirting as a form of cheating on your spouse?

2007-12-07 14:55:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's a sleep and I'm in need of love ,

2007-12-07 14:55:22 · 23 answers · asked by Angel L 3

I no longer can have any children. I am not ' fixed '. I am 40 yrs old. He is 42. He decided to get ' fixed '.
Why do you suppose after 19 yrs of marriage and the fact that I can no longer have kids, would he decide to get ' fixed ' ?

Please leave only decent comments. He's not messing around.

2007-12-07 14:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by simpleminded 5

my brother and sister in law got engaged when they only knew each other for only 4 months and married 6 months after that. they been married now for 1 1/2.shes only 22 and my brother is 21. do you think theys are going to last???they have their ups and downs but they love each other.???please answer..

2007-12-07 14:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was working on a school project with a girl and she screwed up and made us fail so I said she was a F*cking idiot and slapped her in the face. She started crying and said she was goign to "kick me where it counts" what does that mean?

The girl is such a little b*tch and she thinks she can hurt me. HAHA, she is like 5'2 and i'm like 5'11. I thinks its hilariouss how girls think they can hurt me when i'm 100X stronger and tougher than them

2007-12-07 14:34:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my husband that I don't mind him talking to his ex-girlfriend, but recently I found he created a second facebook account and his EX is his only "friend". Why would he hide this from me? Should I be concerned when I go away next weekend without him?

2007-12-07 14:25:37 · 13 answers · asked by Cassandra C 4

Here are the possible answers:

1 - Nobody is at fault. I disagree because the receiver chose to be offended before understanding what was said; therefore, it is their responsibility to apologize once it has been clarified.

2 - The giver is at fault. They should have been more clear, right? I also disagree here. Why should I have to walk on eggshells all my days? Everything I said would have to pass through a lawyer before I said it!

3 - The receiver is at fault. The moment something seemed offensive, they should have asked for clarification before getting emotional about it. This is the answer with which I side, unless you can present a better case. I'm open for suggestions.

4 - Both are at fault. I also disagree here. If I say something that had no negative meaning and it was taken the wrong way, why should I have to apologize for it?

I think relationships can work out better if we can identify where the root of the problem is, the receiver's *choice* to get offended.

2007-12-07 14:17:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Other than the obvious physical traits..

2007-12-07 14:09:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband recently got his car towed from my housing complex we are separated my name is the only one on the lease. anyway it cost him more than a hundred dollars to get it out tow shop which he didnt have therefore i signed an agreement which said he can pay in two weeks since he didnt have the money then and if they dont get their money in 2 weeks im responsible for paying, he swore up and down he would pay for it then but now that it is due he has nothing and he is constantly telling me everyday i will give it to u tomorrow and everyday its a new excuse i told him they will raise my rent if i dont pay and he still wont pay why is he doing this knowing we have kids and i cant afford this extra bill what can i do to get my money ?

2007-12-07 14:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3

We have been married for 5 1/2 years. We have a beautiful 2 year old son together. I come from a very religious family who frowns on divorce. I would like to make the marriage work for my son's sake. My husband yells at me for every little thing. If I am not doing something fast enough for him he yells at me. If I say something wrong by accident he talks to me in a mean voice and insults me. He has been physically abusive to me in the past. He has shoved me, hit me, punched me, put his hands around my neck, twisted my arms and thrown me down. He hasn't beaten me though. He has never done all of these things at the same time and I have not suffered any bruises. He hasn't done anything physically abusive to me in about a year now. He continues to be verbally abusive to me though. He cusses a lot and insults me. I can't talk to him about concerns without him getting mad at me. My husband has said he would change, but has yet to do it. What should I do? I don't yell or cuss at him.

2007-12-07 13:55:35 · 34 answers · asked by flirl1027 2

2007-12-07 13:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been together for 4 years..living together for 2...I am ready to move to the next step and have told him this..I am 35,divorced, have 3 kids(he has none and knows I cannot have anymore). I am a professional nurse..own my own home and am financially responsible. He is great with my kids.. I have heard many times from him that "we will get married someday"..I want an engagement ring..Want some kind of definate commitment from him..He was engaged before,and owned a house with his ex, but she cheated on him and they broke up(she got the house). I can understand him being afraid..but I have been loyal, loving and supportive of him..How can I get "the ring" that I want so bad?? He does not like to even talk about it..All I get is we will get married someday-someday I will get you a ring...I cannot wait forever..What should I do??

2007-12-07 13:47:05 · 9 answers · asked by k 1

u cant go anywhere with out him or watch tv or even play cards has a mental problem

2007-12-07 13:42:58 · 9 answers · asked by shaquena w 1

What are your thoughts on attraction? Is it purely physical at the beginning. Do you have to begin with attraction or can it be developed over time? I think emotional and spiritual attraction keep us in love and is what makes strong relationships. Appreciating how lucky I am to have my spouse makes me think of her as sexier? What is it that attracts you to your spouse besides physical appearance? Also Why dose attraction sometimes fade? What makes it fade? Lastly, what prevents it from fading?

Sorry for so many ?'s

2007-12-07 13:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my sister gave me 20 buck today for doping her chores twice(cleaning the kitchen) for some odd reason i dont want to blow it.i now its only 20 dollars but i what do you think i should do with it???????

2007-12-07 13:38:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

(I know an older out-going woman who loves to dance & her husband refuses to-even when they went on cruizes! (what would you do?)
-are there other things you love to do but they refuse?

2007-12-07 13:37:32 · 6 answers · asked by strange-artist 7

for oral and things of that nature.
it feels like i'm doing everything( about 95% of the time he gets it and i don't )
i've asked him and he"forgets"
or he leads into something else
or he just finishes before i get a chance to.
it's not fair !!!
LoL

2007-12-07 13:37:04 · 14 answers · asked by Lili 3

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-07 13:33:38 · 6 answers · asked by Danielle K 1

why do i always get so mad becouse my house cannot look nice and clean everytime i come home from work i always have to pick up after my husband and its gets me mad sometimes why i dont understand

2007-12-07 13:27:19 · 10 answers · asked by rockmusicdance 1

Would you take a bullet for your husband/wife or your child.

2007-12-07 13:27:11 · 25 answers · asked by SpoiledPrincess 2

now i know your dad most probably did not tell your mom, and its a question we men constantly battle.. so let me know.. tell her or not.. you know.. approximate the amount...or keep evading the questions...

and yeah ladies, she doesn't check yahoo answers..

2007-12-07 13:15:20 · 11 answers · asked by D *)sukky 3

Woman getting ready for bed looks in the mirror, fondles her breasts and says to her husband, 'Our new neighbours reckon I've got the breasts of a teenager', 'huh' replied the husband, 'I bet they didn't say anything about your fifty year old tw-t', 'oh no' she replied, 'they never mentioned you'.

2007-12-07 12:54:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 24 years old......I look at eveyone in my generation 90 percents of my friends family have all ended in divorce.........yet their parents parents on both sides have stuck it out 50 years plus......did hippie love or the cocaine seventies total f them up......I know our society plays a big role in divorce rate but the real question is what do you think this generation will take from it.....will we go back to thetraditional ways......or will continue to run the church, family values, and love into the ground?

2007-12-07 12:54:01 · 11 answers · asked by Nick20 1

I'm 28 and my boyfriend is 24. In the beginning, he talked about getting married and we are very much in love. We lived together for like 4 months and I moved back in with my parents because he really wasn't ready for me to move in since we both hadn't been in a serious relationship for like 4-5 years (I have been divorced) and he had never lived with a girlfriend before... but since I moved out we've become a lot closer and our relationship is a lot stronger. I know he's the one I want forever.

We have been together 8 months and I REALLY want a ring. Just a promise ring... I'm not talking like getting married tomorrow. It's just that a ring is the ultimate symbol of commitment.. and plus, that means he's serious. He's already taking me to meet his mom next year. How would I let him know that I really want that commitment? I'm not getting any younger, I want kids and a family eventually and I really wanna know if he's serious about our future or not.

2007-12-07 12:51:22 · 13 answers · asked by oOMissMoonOo 2

2007-12-07 12:44:25 · 10 answers · asked by jeff b 4