I told my husband that I don't mind him talking to his ex-girlfriend, but recently I found he created a second facebook account and his EX is his only "friend". Why would he hide this from me? Should I be concerned when I go away next weekend without him?
2007-12-07 14:25:37 · 13 answers · asked by Cassandra C 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was on his computer and went to log into Facebook and I saw an alternate email address saved, so I did a search in facebook and saw his alternate account.
2007-12-07 14:34:51 · update #1
Have you confronted him with this? If not, then do it right away. You did not mess up and have nothing to worry about.
Then separate yourself from this lousy, no good, cheating person. And do it quickly.
Do not make the same mistake I made 9 months ago when my wife did something something similar. We decided we should work through it. And now I am miserable everyday because of it.
Get out of this relation while you can!
2007-12-07 14:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Pale Moonlight 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he needs to fess up to me! I've had a similiar situation, my now exboyfriend has had a 360 and myspace accts and i'm certain there are others...he won't invite me!!! the myspace is private!!! and knowing him, he is on msn messenger and aim and probably a few others...but I knew over 2 years ago he was a pathogical liar, I just didn't know how far he would go. I finally put my foot down until he fesses up about EVERYTHING from over the past year and I want to hear him tell whomever the women are who are calling that he will no longer be in communication with them. But I already know that won't happen because the other women don't know about me either. So he's stuck!!! He yells at me and tells me it was his sister, blah blah, and so on and so forth...get real! Make him fess up now b4 you go away and if u do not have children, I would buy an emergency ticket and have him go with you..if you can, log onto his acct and talk with her as if it were him...see what transpires....that's evidence enough for me!
good luck
and i'm sorry...
2007-12-07 14:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by ~BluemoonAngel~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Log on to face book and add his other account as a friend. Also add his ex and any other women from his 'real' account. I hear many couples on that website do that automatically. That should give him the message. (and her too)
2007-12-07 14:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Frosty-pants 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what to tell you but I would like to know how you found the second facebook account.
Thanks for answering me I wish I could get ya some points for it.
2007-12-07 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the other answers and unless there are children involved there is no reason for him to be talking to his ex, you know the answer to this and don't have sex with this man again unless you are using condoms, spermicide with nonoxal 9 and get yourself tested for aids and all other stds., tell him to knock it off and that a person with nothing to hide, hides nothing, and if he can't live by that you need to get out
2007-12-07 14:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dale T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can understand where you're coming from. i just found out that my husband has been messaging a woman on the computer for about 6 months now. he even wrote how he was leaving me for her. i would be VERY worried about him being anywhere without you. i am even considering leaving mine.
2007-12-07 14:35:40 · answer #6 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are a lot nicer than I would be. He should not hide that from you- something is going on!
2007-12-07 15:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it could be that your dude still has a crush on his ex, but it doesn`t mean he is boning her
2007-12-07 14:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by David P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be worried if he is doing nothing there is no reason to hide it!!
2007-12-07 14:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Proud to Be Mommy!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't Facebook for high school kids?
2007-12-07 14:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋