for oral and things of that nature.
it feels like i'm doing everything( about 95% of the time he gets it and i don't )
i've asked him and he"forgets"
or he leads into something else
or he just finishes before i get a chance to.
it's not fair !!!
LoL
2007-12-07 13:37:04 · 14 answers · asked by Lili 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your man is missing the best part! I would give a woman oral pleasure a 1000 times before I would ever want some in return. Making her have the big O like that is the best!
Maybe you need to leave a treasure map for him to hunt out this hidden treasure he has been missing. The treasure he will find is the best kind.
2007-12-07 13:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by Pale Moonlight 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to start playing with yourself when he thinks it is time to get things started let him know that he can join in but let him know you are in charge and he does what you say. About 98% of the time the guys get even more turned on and will like the new bossier you.
2007-12-07 21:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Jami T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time he's layin down watchin tv, catch him off guard, jump on him and put your azz in his face & start grindin "it" into his mouth. He'll be so surprised & turned on by your control of the situation---you'll get what you've been missing! Oh, and while you're there, that's a good way to "speak into the microphone".
2007-12-08 04:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by marcavelli0569 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I love to give oral and I ALWAYS give before i even think about getting my own pleasure. When I give my wife a couple or 3 big O's then when it's my turn, I get to have my way with her.
2007-12-07 21:53:00 · answer #4 · answered by jeff b 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Make him go first!! Also, It's a trick I use to prevent my friends from always stealing my lighter (unintentionally or not). I always make sure they light their smoke first, so that I always end up with the lighter and don't forget to ask for it back! Sorry for the side-track!!
2007-12-07 21:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try what I have called "playing".... in other words.. you become hot... really hot .. and really into him....
Then, you take control... kiss him lightly... then pull back... kiss him harder, rub your body into him... then pull back... put his hands where you want them.... let him touch you a little... then kiss him deeply and with desire, while pulling his hands away.... get the idea.... don't let him go where you don't want him to.. in other words, when he tries to do something for himself... smile mischieviously.. say... uh, uh... (that no sound..) seductively... kiss him harder or touch him.. and then redirect his attention where you want it to be.. the key is to let him know that you want him badly... that he's not being rejected.. that you are thoroughly enjoying his touch and want more of him... think "positive reinforcement..."
2007-12-07 21:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by Wildflower 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Next time bite his d!ck until he understands where you're coming from. Or in this case not coming! You should always come first. No cliche intended.
2007-12-07 21:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Poppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him start on you first, for my girlfriend i always return the favor or i just start on her, its a give take kinda deal
2007-12-07 21:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by boss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh I thought you meant to cook and do the dishes every now and then.
2007-12-07 22:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by triminman 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish.
time to upgrade.
Im full service.
its only fair
I will lubricate you and rotate your hips for free with every orgasm.
2007-12-07 21:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by N 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋