Marriage & Divorce - 7 December 2007

me and my wife getting divorce, but 2 months ago she already introduce her boyfriend to our daughter, also she told our daughter that she has brothers means that the boyfriend childrens are her brothers. My wife plan to bring her boyfriend to our daughters school special events, like sports, musicals, field trips, etc. Now my question is how can I deal with this?, my daughter its getting very confused about it, some times she have hard time to sleep, she start having problems at school, and she cries a lot for me, she only 6 years old. Our divorce its not final, maybe 2 more months or so. Please I need your advise.

2007-12-07 08:17:19 · 15 answers · asked by Antonio G 1

I know it's a dumb question, but I don't know the legal ramifications of a legal separation.

2007-12-07 08:17:03 · 7 answers · asked by Steve H 4

He wants it morning and night and won't leave me alone to let me sleep or take care of our 2 children and his 10 yr. old from previous marriage.

2007-12-07 08:12:22 · 30 answers · asked by madame butterfly 2

I have a good female friend, we're both married with kids and I'm attracted to her. I don't know for sure, but I think she's attracted to me. I don't want to screw up my marriage, I love my wife, but if something ever happens to her I've been wondering if I could have a chance with my friend - even if we're in our 70s. Am I crossing some wierd line if I want to make a deal with her that no matter how old we get if we are ever single at the same time, we try a relationship?

2007-12-07 08:12:20 · 12 answers · asked by Just a Guy 1

2007-12-07 08:05:13 · 28 answers · asked by littlebitofluv 1

he is very nice man though

2007-12-07 07:57:38 · 36 answers · asked by dream catcher 3

Hubby is not to financially brite, If some calls and say a bill needs to be paid he will just pay it with no questions asked, Not knowing if I already paid it meaning mailed it. or it is an error, He keeps track of nothing Mortage, insurance, car notes. utilities etc...But the latest gadget that comes out he knows all about it! he 's in the Military, he is buying crap that is not really needed and not communicating with me,when he make these purchase, SO there were a few time he has overdrawn out acct and I would have transfer money into from the saving to cover the cost. I pay bills before I do anything, he may not...How do I tell him that I no longer want my income in the same account with his? And just in case your wondering I make more than he does. And I have 2 kids with me and he has two kids with their baby mama! I just need to figure out how to tellhim with out hurting his feelings....I just cannot do it anymore....

2007-12-07 07:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by sa 1

Okay.So Ive been married for over a year now in November. Last year for Christmas my spouse and I didnt handle the situation very well.For us hispanics the 24th is sacred as well as the 31st.It's FAMILY time. He went to his mom's and I went to mine.How do I tell him nicely, that this year i would lilke for us BOTH to go to my mom's, & next year we'll go to his ? :(

2007-12-07 07:49:58 · 21 answers · asked by woop dee doo 2

It's sad that I can actualy count on one hand the ammount of times my wife and I have had sex in the past 3 months. Granted there is alot of pressure and stress on her and I right now, but still. 2 times in 3 months? What's going on?

I am told by her that I am the perfect husbacnd, I help out, she asks I do, we spend time togetehr, our relationship is great! But now it's getting to the point where I do not even want to touch her, or kiss her goodnight in fear of a fight. If I bring up the subject of sex or try to come on to her, I get the cold shoulder or the "is sex all you care about?" question. (answer is No by the way) She just doesn't understand that I enjoy the intamacy and want to pass on my affection to her in that way.

Talking to her doesn not help, she doesn't listen and just gets angry

2007-12-07 07:49:05 · 29 answers · asked by Frustrated Hubby 1

What does it mean when this girl I called a b*tch and slapped her in the face said she was going to "kick me where it counts"?

The reason I did it is because she was being an idiot, plus she is just a weak girl

2007-12-07 07:42:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why should we give fathers props when they take care of their of their kids, isnt it their job?

2007-12-07 07:39:49 · 17 answers · asked by tHeTrUtHhUrTs!!! 2

2007-12-07 07:38:35 · 26 answers · asked by donmwm4u 1

If a married man is not with you for sex, why is he their-mine was 54 and a alcoholic,and high b/p had to take viargra to have sex, and he only want to do it like 2 a month were I was willing to do it everynight or at least 3 times a week, he swore he loved me and enjoyed being with me but yet never got his divorce. I just dont understand, he gave me no money and I gave him none- he had his obligations and I had mine, Did he truly love me??

2007-12-07 07:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by streaker77777 2

Married for 7 years and 2 kids..our relationship went down last april, gave it other try.....no improvement since..met new woman..she wants me..but wife pissed and want try again..What should I do?

2007-12-07 07:32:38 · 16 answers · asked by Angelboy00 1

ok this is abit complicated, my partne had a break down aand disapeared for a few weeks, hes back now and is signed of work with depression, and the health people involved thinks he will be of for a while, soon he is going to ssp which is only 72 pound a week, his wage was £1700 plus he had been doing over time, i dont work as we have a baby together. we cantr afford out rent or bills with just ssp

2007-12-07 07:30:44 · 2 answers · asked by invigeration69 3

ok i went on my lap top and saw all these different porn sights that my husband went on. he said his friend told him to ck it out. i'm grossed out and mad should i be? what does this mean...

2007-12-07 07:30:11 · 32 answers · asked by chocolate 1

Today is friday. We haven't had sex since LAST friday. It's been a whole week. I am beginning to wonder if he is cheating on me? When we do have sex, I am always the one to initiate it. I always want sex... several times a day would be fine with me! :) We've been married 12 years, but we're both still young. ( I'm 28 and he's 30.) Do you think that he is sleeping with someone else or maybe I just don't turn him on anymore? Just looking for some opinions/advice. Thanks.

2007-12-07 07:29:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

A month ago I received papers from my ex-husband to modify parenting time. A couple days ago I received a court order stating due to my failure to appear, I admitted the allegations, and that the relief requested in the sworn affidavites would be granted. When I received the motion, the pages skip from pg 1 to pg 3, the first page being point 1 what was already ordered and point 2 that the current arrangement isn't in the best interest of the child. Page three is my ex-husbands signature swearing that the facts included are true. That being said..I never requested relief from anybody and I don't even know what it is i supposedly asked for. Because of this i now have my time with my son changed from Sunday thru Thursday to everyother weekend starting in Jan. i'm currently unemployed with 2 other children and don't have an attorney like my ex and can't afford to get one. Is there even anything I can do to change things so that i have more time with my son since i NEVER asked for relief?

2007-12-07 07:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I’m in the mood to celebrate relationships and to promote the positive side of unions. Tell YA the best thing about your significant other, and how long you’ve been together/married.

2007-12-07 07:24:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 30 yrs old. My ex-boyf broke up with me a few months ago. The break up was very hard for me. He broke up due to long-distance. I was very hurt about the break up as I really loved him and still do now. He has always called me back after the break up and we even met a couple of times. But he doesn't want to let go. About a month ago, he called me and said he needs to see me. This was shortly after I told him that I am going travelling for a couple of months. He says he is too scared to loose me but he is not ready to come back to me. I was quite upset to see him leaving so I told him we must go separate ways and have no contact. He was upset but he said he has to accept it. But he called me last week saying he can't forget me and he thinks of me. But he then said he can't be with me now as I am going away to travel. He wants to meet when I come back from my travels. What should I do? I love him and he says he does too but I am so confused. I want to be with him but he says not now

2007-12-07 07:24:31 · 15 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

we have been going out for half a year, we love each other. Im 28, he is 35.
I recently found out Im pregnant by accident, he said he will be supportive to whatever decision I make, and within time, he showed more that he wants to keep the baby. And he wants me to move in with him to try out the relationship. He said we should try to start to have a life together, he also said the relationship may fail. He is currently hunting for car for me and doing other preparation. but he didnt talk about marriage.
Im irritated, bcos I dont think its the right time to "try out" the relationship by living together, we should either get married if he wants to keep the baby or not get married and not having a baby. The "move in" thing shows he is very uncertain about the marriage and I probabely shouldnt count on him marrying me.
Im in America alone under lots of pressure for my PhD study, thats why Im not gonna have the baby alone, and adoption is not for me either.
should I do what he sugges

2007-12-07 07:18:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

help needed. i have been married for 10 yrs and these last 2 yrs of marrage have been hell. just moved into a house (over the summer) and i have fallen in love with my landlord. I day dream about him all day, i feel like I'm 15 yrs old. Can not say if the feeling is mutual but it scares me because i never felt like this b4 not even for my husband. What should I do??

2007-12-07 07:17:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

After dating my b/f of seven years I found out after two years that he was a convicted felon (drug possession w/ intent to deliver). I decieded to stay w/ him at that time and we now have a three year old child together ( I have two children from a previous reltionship). "Bob" works for a mom and pop food place at 11 dollars an hr, w. no benefits and this is as far as this job is going. I on the other having been a single parent am working hard at making life comfy for myself as I have returned to college and plan to go as far as I can to self suffient. I know Bob makes little money and he does have some faults but not unlike anyone else. However I cannot shake the feeling of being "Bob's meal ticket. Bob is limited in life. After seven years, I called it quits and put Bob out so that I can find a man w/ freedom and earning potieintial who can contribute evenly. It is hard on the family to have him gone, but I want the best things for my family. Am I being selfish?

2007-12-07 07:15:49 · 12 answers · asked by nene 3

who you met just now, suddenly asked you to marry her? Marry on the spot, that is.

2007-12-07 07:14:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should i propose to my boyf? I know he loves me and would say yes so wanted to do it on Valentines day but really unsure on how the male mind works!! We've been together for 2 years and both spoke of marriage, he asks me jokingly every day!!! Also I'd like to do it in private but unsure what to present him with, cant exactly give him a solitaire ring, its a bit girlie!! Please be honest, thanks in advance x

2007-12-07 07:13:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex have been married for about 2 yrs we been seperated for about 1 1/2 we got married in california.i also purchased a home when we got seperated ,, she is now living with her girlfriend we are all good friends now and we both agree on the divorse my question is this what forms do i need and how do i go about doing this my friend told me i need the form 100 and form 150 something like that anyone els no anything about this i need help i want to get divorce soon and easy we both agree and that should make it easy and she want nothing i own

2007-12-07 07:09:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I obviously had to quit drinking, smoking, etc. right away. He is supportive and also quit for the most part, which has helped a lot. I think as the father of this baby, it's only right. But.. because I'm pg, I'm not having a bachelorette party or going out... and his friends want to take him out tomorrow night to get wasted, bar hop, etc. He's going, and he's going to be drinking alot. I'm so upset, but I don't want to be. How can i get over this??

2007-12-07 07:06:23 · 24 answers · asked by dylans going2b a big brother! :) 5

Mine was to get married so soon! Sex was in my mind at the time and my family were so strict at the time! lol

2007-12-07 07:06:06 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am writing a collection of erotic stories. I am thinking of presenting them as a single mother fbi agent (or some other officer) is investigating, that way I can tell past events as she finds out details, etc. Over the course of the book I intend for the agent to fall prey to her own dark desires that she doesn't realize she has. I'd like to involve propaganda/brainwashing in the main reasoning for the town to have given up taboos (open marriage, inc, besti, young, etc)

Anyone have suggestions as to a convincing argument for giving into taboos and/or allowing yourself to be used by others (even if the logic might be slightly flawed)?

In particular I'd love it if you could provide quotes from the bible or from famous philosophers that could be twisted. Especially as it relates to the above taboos.

p.s. I am willing to write you, spouse or family into the story if you are interested. - also am willing to take scene suggestions

2007-12-07 07:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

we are running out of things to do and we dont sleep together so any suggestions?????

2007-12-07 06:59:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous