ok i went on my lap top and saw all these different porn sights that my husband went on. he said his friend told him to ck it out. i'm grossed out and mad should i be? what does this mean...
2007-12-07 07:30:11 · 32 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok people i didn't write about my life story you don't know me or my sex life keep your nasty remarks to your self. to those of you with brains thank you...
2007-12-07 08:30:07 · update #1
I can't believe the responses here!!! when a woman is hurt by her husband watching porn...most of the responses are in defense of men watching porn...that is is "normal" and "all men watch it"...TOTAL BULLCHIT!!.....
Just awhile ago...A woman said that her husband caught her watching porn and was upset....Not near as many people were as quick to defend her watching porn....and that it isn't "normal" for women to watch porn....
If you are uncomfortable with it....he should respect your feelings.....To hell with those that say...watch it with him.....if you aren't interested in the filth...you aren't interested!!!
Godless Am...There is huge difference between romance novels and porn....The keyword is ROMANCE....porn it just hard core f*cking.....
2007-12-07 07:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-07-27 05:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by Douglas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is coming home to you every night. He's not cheating on you or anything. So what does him looking at a little porn really harm? It's not like his secretary sent him naked pictures of herself. It's just some fantasy girl he will never meet. Cut him some slack. He could be doing things a lot worse.
2007-12-07 11:36:43 · answer #3 · answered by Leroy J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its no longer frowned upon interior the actual Male international all my acquaintances have or had porn in some unspecified time interior the destiny and there is no longer something incorrect with gazing by ability of your self its greater valuable than understanding and grabbing some ailment infested human beings to have a loopy orgy with you lol plus there no longer something incorrect with lighting fixtures some candles and having some intimate time with your self = )
2016-11-14 00:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner watches porn. Sometimes we watch it together. Try it with him. You may not like it but it is something that he obviously likes. I asked my partner ones what it was with porn, he told me that it has nothing to do with the women it just that most men are all visual. If i was you i would get an outfit like in one of the sites he visits and bring porn home. Its like when men relieve themselves. It doesn't mean that your not doing your job or that he doesn't fancy you its just human nature.
2007-12-07 09:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything unless he's chatting or e-mailing women online. In most cases, guys just like to look at porn and nothing else is going on. Talk to him about it. Try not to be too mad at him if all he's doing is looking at naked pictures.
2007-12-07 08:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Most men are visually stimulated. My wife doesn't particularly care for porn and when we were younger she would literally fall asleep while I watched them... and honestly, after a while I got the point that it was really boring for her...lol...
I think you need to be concerned, voice your concern but don't judge him...allow him the freedom to make his own decision
2007-12-07 08:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should be mad. Porn watching is infidelity. Give him the choice of porn or you. If he chooses you then no more porn. If he says all men look at it, tell him that doesn't make it right and you won't put up with him looking at other naked women. You got angry for a good reason. He is only to view you with no clothes, because he is a married man. Stand up for yourself and demand respect. That's the only way you will get it.
Porn is the sin of lust and it opens the door for cheating and lusting after other women. It is addictive and can ruin your marriage if you let it continue.
2007-12-07 07:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 4⤊ 4⤋
It means he likes to look at porn. It has nothing to do with you. It's just a visual. Ask him to try some of the stuff on you. You may like what he learned
2007-12-07 07:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by natasha 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I cant believe the answers on here....and you wonder why divorce is so high...
For a husband to watch porn is ADULTERY. If you live by secular standards then they are going to tell you 'aw just let him watch it....its Harmless'. Harmless my ***.
My husband and I guard our marriage. We reserve our eyes for each other. My lust is for him only and his for ME only. I dont want him getting aroused by the sight of some other woman and he dang sure doesnt want me getting off at the sight of another man.
I encourage you to re-evaluate (if you are Christians) what the commitment of marriage entails. Everything is okey dokey to the world....God says different.
2007-12-07 07:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋