Married for 7 years and 2 kids..our relationship went down last april, gave it other try.....no improvement since..met new woman..she wants me..but wife pissed and want try again..What should I do?
2007-12-07 07:32:38 · 16 answers · asked by Angelboy00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is truly in your heart? Do you still love your wife? Have you and your wife sat down and talked about your relationship, where it's going and how to improve it? No arguing, no yelling, just talking and listening. I would suggest you try this before you make any other decisions.
2007-12-07 07:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave your wife. You've obviosly tried again and it didn't work. Things most likely won't get any better the third time. It's easier said than done when people say "stay for the kids sake". If the parents are that miserable, the kids know and it will not be better for them. I tried to stay together for the kids sake for over 10 years. Things are much worse now and it's hurting them even more. Some things just don't work out no matter how hard you try. You've met someone now who probably makes you feel good. Something your wife probably hasn't done in a while. It may or may not work out between the new woman, but it is time to move on.
Good luck!
2007-12-07 15:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NEVER a good idea to leave someone for someone else. Take care of things with your wife first. This means you either fix it or end it. Basically, you need the gonads to make a decision. IF, and only if, you decide to leave your wife and after you have done so, then it is appropriate for you to find another relationship. Have some integrity man.
2007-12-07 15:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should think about yourself for a second.
if you get your head out of this and just ask yourself whats best for you, you should get an answer. and i would go with that.
i know you have to children, but coming from a broken home, they tried 2 time, i would say dont if you are not commited. and if you feel yourself feeling for another woman, then there is something missing in your relationship that only another woman can give to you, also you might check and see if this other woman is right for you or if it is just a way to get out of the relationship and still have someone there for you...
if thats true i would get out of the relationship status for awhile, and find things that make you happy, and complete, without a woman.
i hope this works out for you..
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2007-12-07 15:40:50 · answer #4 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's primarily up to you, because you only know if you can take staying together with your wife, but if you are going to move on do it the right way. Get a divorce then move on to the other woman.
2007-12-07 15:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run far and fast away from the other woman lest you commit adultery. You must honor your wedding vows. Do what ever you have to, to make your marriage better. It is until death do us part remember?
2007-12-07 15:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships that start with infidelity usually end with it...if they'll do it with you, they'll do it TO you. My advice is to try to work it out with your wife....you did make a commitment with her, after all.
2007-12-07 15:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it another shot for the sake of your kids, if that doesn't work you can always find another woman.
2007-12-07 15:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by dentistry911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to work it out.
2007-12-07 15:40:52 · answer #9 · answered by Riley's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back, you tried it twice and it didn't work so move on.
2007-12-07 15:41:13 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋