I’m in the mood to celebrate relationships and to promote the positive side of unions. Tell YA the best thing about your significant other, and how long you’ve been together/married.
2007-12-07 07:24:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best thing I have ever done in my life is have a child with my wife. She is a great mother.
It is interesting for me to realize that the best thing I have ever done in my life took her to do it with me.
Take care, God bless.
2007-12-07 07:28:43 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
We've been together 3 years. It just worked from the start. Had one date and he never left. It's still like the date that never ended. I love that we have a partnership. There is no men and women jobs. I can have the worst day ever at work and not tell him and come home to a home cooked meal, the housework done and washing on. All i have to do is sit and relax. It's just all the little things like brushing my hand when we pass each other. A nice comment about how i look when we go out. That he's my best friend. A few weeks ago his friend was going out to watch Scotland game and asked me if i wanted to go. At no time did my partner have a problem with this and he told me have a great time. Me and his friend got very drunk and had a ball. Everyone thought this was strange but it was like going out with one of my girl friends. I love that we can have our own friends but still have just a good time with each others friends or on our own. With other guys i've had relationships with i always felt like we had separate lives.
2007-12-07 17:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderella 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We have only been together for 8 months, but that is not our fault :P
The best thing about my SO is his child, which is cuddling in my womb right now. I am loving every minute of it. He also has the greatest sense of humor. He hates fighting, so will always try to find the best in any situation. As an example, he is never angry if I am late, he says we already lost precious minutes, why waste more time being angry when we can just forget I was late, and be happy we are together? I love his attitude.
2007-12-07 17:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A and I have been together almost 6 years. One of the most positive thing in our relationship is that even though we are both flawed, our flaws to not trigger the other. My second wife saw my flexibility and willingness to compromise as a sign of weakness. She used it to get what she wanted and then disrespected me for it. .
A has been very different. After living with an inflexible husband who often disrespected her (she was a stay-at-home homeschooling mom) for 17 years, she welcomed my respect, flexibility and willingness to honor her. When we do have miscommunication or a difference of opinion, neither one of us are willing to sacrifice "US" for the sake of "being right." To us, that's not winning--we both lose in such a case. We try to work it out the best we can.
Her love comes through very clearly. Especially considering I have another SO now.
G and A actually met before G and I did. As the attraction between G and I has been building, A has been there being supportive, being so very happy for me. The first intimate act between G and I (about 4 months ago) was when she was in pain with sciatica and doped out on pain meds. I spent an hour and a half at a pool party, holding her afloat so that she could sleep and rest. A will sometimes worry that I'll somehow find G "better" and our relationship will suffer, then she'll remember who I am and will realize that we wouldn't let that happen--I don't dismiss her fears, I sit and listen and helper to know her heart, to know my heart.
I am very blessed. Both A and G show me such love. They both see my strengths and are not hesitant in telling me. They don't care if I'm not making a million dollars, they see and love me for who I am rather than who I am not.
As polyamorous people we may not have conventional relationships (both A and G have others they love in addition to me), but our lives are filled with love.
Thank you for this question.
2007-12-07 15:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by Donald J 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Been togeather for 4 years.. married for almost 2 months...hes currently deployed but.... I love how safe makes me feel and how affectionate he is. He does everything he can to make sure Im well taken care of while he's gone and I do the same when he's home. We have a mutaul understanding of each other that I dont have with anyone else and he keeps me on my toes so things never get old.
2007-12-07 15:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow, where to start. you caught me at a good time - yesterday was our 5 year anniversary and tonight is our special anniversary date, so i'm in a reflective mood about my relationship. we've been married since june, but 5 years together is a long time.
the best thing about our relationship is that it keeps getting better. we haven't grown tired of each other; instead, i feel like we grow closer and happier every day. he makes me want to be a better person and make better decisions (not really my strong suit in the past), and he's so supportive of my dreams, passions and ambitions. i love having a partner in life who i can disagree with, act silly with and make decisions with. he's the best thing that's happened to me.
2007-12-07 16:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by hh 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been together 9 years.
He's gentle, compassionate, has a razor sharp mind, playful, fiercely loyal, a bit goofy, a great cook, and though he deplores violence, will defend me like a raging grizzly bear at the drop of a hat.
But what I love about him most is how he can make me smile and laugh, no matter how dark of a mood I am in.
2007-12-07 15:38:52 · answer #7 · answered by tiny Valkyrie 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Been together 6yrs this coming April.
Rick, is the next best thing to happen to me right after our lil 11mo boy. He has made me a better woman. He is a hard worker, sweet, compassionate, tender, thoughtful, loving, strong, smart, responsible man/father!!! I am thankful that we crossed paths. I wish I could show him and tell him how thankful I really am often.
I couldn't have been blessed with a better man/faher!!!!
2007-12-07 16:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by 90304 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yay!
We've been together just over 2 years, married for 4 months now. The things I love best about him is his patience, his sharp wit, and his willingness to give me my personal time and space without feeling neglected or lonely. We are great together... but also manage to hold on to our individuality, which I think is very important.
2007-12-07 15:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Been together 3 yrs. He is the first guy I have ever been with that actually talked a problem out rather than screamed about everything I was doing wrong.
2007-12-07 15:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by natasha 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The best thing about my wife is that she is so many things to me. She is love, honesty and naughty. She is the reason I am a better man today. She walks beside me not behind me. She smiles and my grey turns to white, my darkness turns to light. She cares so deeply for others and she lives simply.
17 years of bliss and counting. Yoda out
2007-12-07 15:30:51 · answer #11 · answered by Yoda 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋