A single man/woman who knows that your married is checking you out.What would you do?Do you think its alright to smile and wink at them as long as it didnt go past that or would you ignore them because you would consider flirting as a form of cheating on your spouse?
2007-12-07 14:55:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We all need to be reminded that we are attractive. Boost your own ego, so to speak. Just a look or wink even a long strong stare doesn't bother me. At the end of the day is what matters and TRUST is a important foundation.
2007-12-07 15:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Buster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be polite and then go on my way. My husband does the same. He's nice and speaks to whoever speaks to him..but he shows that he clearly is uninterested. A person who loves their spouse knows what is flirting and what is not, and knows how to be polite without giving anyone any signals otherwise. How do you know if the other person that you smile and wink at will be able to tell you are just being nice?? Better safe than sorry.
2007-12-07 15:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I being a happily married man would ignore a
woman, single or married that might be trying
to get my attention for one reason or another,
and since I am not ugly I have had passes and
women trying to get my attention, but if she
approaches me I let her know right away that
I am occupied as I already have a wife, but
that rarely has to be done as my wife is with me
whenever I go out, as after all married for 20yrs
I would not have it any other way. To each their
own but the above is what I would do if
approached or given a glance.
2007-12-07 15:15:41 · answer #3 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is when one of the spouses does or says or represents them selves in a way that the other spouse will be offended by. my advice is focus on your marriage it wont resolve any thing at home if you cheat and you represent your wife at all times and you dont need another woman telling you that your good looking im sure you know this but sounds like to me you and your wife need to but the spice back in the marriage talk to your wife abt being spontaneous. but dont cheat there are too many cons rather than pros to doing this. dont flirt with her. Dont tell your wife abt this chick just dnt proceed with the other girl its a test so dont do it. marriage is sacret and if your wife cheated on you how would you feel?
2007-12-07 15:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can smile. You smile at strangers but don't flirt. What if your spouse found out? Would he think it was "just flirting" and it was OK? I really doubt it. If it was him instead of you, how would YOU feel about it.Maybe it isn't technically a form of cheating but it is a step in that direction.Not worth it.
2007-12-07 15:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ava 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let men know right up front that I'm married. I don't flirt or wink ever. I love my husband.
2007-12-07 15:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by chocolatelovely2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look as long as you don't touch. I am not dead. There is NOTHING wrong with looking, I am not talking gawking. I know there are a bunch on here that will consider looking cheating, but give me a break. When you see someone attractive, how can you NOT look. Nobody is acting on it.
2007-12-07 15:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont consider it cheating, but it could give them the wrong idea. Your intentions could be completely innocent, but you never know what he/she is thinking.
EX: My dad had a lady friend that he worked with that was always asking him to do favors for him. (fix appliances, mechanical etc..) He had no feelings for her, but she ending up stalking the family like the damn fatal attraction.
My dad never had sexual relations with her, but she still felt that they had a connection. If you are happily married, I suggest not doing anything that could jeopardize it.
Good luck.
2007-12-07 15:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by **Lynn** 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't encourage it. A married person lusting( if they are checking you out they are) after another person has already committed adultery in their heart ( if you believe the bible, Mat. 5:28). If you believe the 10 commandments, then encouraging that behavior is encouraging violation of the 14th commandment. If you don't worry about Gods word, go ahead and encourage ti.
2007-12-07 15:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wink, it's a compliment to know your still attractive to the opposite sex. just b/c you're married doesn't mean you don't exist to anyone but your spouse.
My husband tells me how he gets hit on once in a while, I think it's cute, because I know he's all mine.
:)
2007-12-07 15:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by Jaime S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋