he dont do things he should do after the last post ,he dont kiss me 0r hugg me the way a husband should when i try to kiss on him or make love he tells me to stop that it really hurts me a lot he dont give me money at all just the other day the phone company cut my phone off cause he was to pay it and never did and my lights,its so hard on me and he see this.the judge has given me my grand kids they are 4,2,1 and my 15 and 19 is hoem with me still i am trying to do a lot and he dont help i have told him to move but the fla law you cant make him get out unless he beats you and he not doin that to me ,maybe someone has some infor to offer me to help me out in my time of stress
2007-12-11 12:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-12-11 13:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you refer to him as a husband, he is not. Seek some legal advice. So get rid of him. It may help if the older ones get jobs, even small part time ones. Get support from the state or parents for the little ones if possible. Or if you can work, maybe the older ones could help do the babysitting. Divorce the guy and get some support for the kids, he must have agreed to take them in as well. Do not leave the home, that is what he is hoping you'll do, it could cause you major problems legally, and you'd be screwed for housing untill all was settled in court.
2007-12-11 21:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by ferochira 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are that old and you haven't learned the facts of life:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage ruins relationships(moving in is the same)
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
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2007-12-11 21:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a awful situation. Sounds like he might be taking you for granted by not showing you affection and helping out financially. Maybe you could move in with a family member to help get you back on your feet or contact social services and see what kind of assistance you might be entitled to. You sound overwhelmed an desperate and I feel for ya! Good luck!
2007-12-11 21:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by Lv Dr. 4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a lawyer and then he'll have to get out by that law I'm sure.I'm sure you could also go stay with family or friends too?!The Dept. of Job and Family services can help you until you get on your feet too.Take care of this immediately for everyones sake.I wish you luck:)
2007-12-11 21:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by superstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear broken and beautiful,
I have read all your entry's on this matter. You have had allot advice given to you. You know the answer to all you have asked. You have to see it,before it will come.Have a little faith.
Be thankful first,It could be even worse. But all in all it is your choice to make. Good luck.
2007-12-12 13:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by shadow of life. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's not happy and he could possibly be cheating. but if he doesn't want to move why don't you file for a divorce and get spouse support.
2007-12-11 21:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making excuses..... if you don't want to be with him you do not have to be with him...
lookis like you have taken a lot onto your plate with all the grand kids... get some child support for them.
tell honey bunch to go and to start paying child support for those children too!!!
you need a job not more kids!!!
2007-12-11 21:00:29 · answer #8 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you need to move...if he won't!
Stop feeling sorry for yourself! We often want to blame others when things aren't going the way we want them. We must learn to take accountability for our actions by allowing ourselves to be treated badly by others.
2007-12-11 21:01:30 · answer #9 · answered by Haley K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read your last post.. that is one who is fixing to leave you.. and you know what you would be better off with out him.. I do think if you filed for divorce than you could kick him out.. check around with different lawyers..
2007-12-11 21:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋