consider this.. a woman, married, knows that i want her only for lustful intentions, still insists on me going to a club with her. when i meet her. she flirts with me hard. rubs my legs, plays with my hair.. but she didnt wanna come home with me. she said that would be for the 2nd or 3rd time we hang out.. why is she doing this? and is it wrong for me to continue to hang out with her. frankly i thought it was digusting.. but of course me being a single person, i went along with it. she does have a friend.. that is married.. and has a little "boy toy" her self.. please give me some insight...
2007-12-08 21:26:19 · 14 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All I can say is stay away from this one. This is what I like to call a Psyco hosebeast!!!
2007-12-08 22:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if you are nsa, its still good to know a lil about the person before you sleep with them. Maybe she just wants to know you a lil better.
As for if its wrong, in my opnion, if she is doing this behind her husband's back, then yes. If he knows and approves, then no. As far as for yourself, ask what are the chances you would actually become friends with her? Nsa gets complicated when become friends. Are you gonna meet hubby and be friends with him? Just think about why you are doing and what you are doing. Think long. How would you feel you were the married woman, and if you were hubby. At the end of all this thinking you will have come to your own conclusion
2007-12-08 21:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you answered your own question, (frankly I thought it was disgusting) ? Then leave it alone & look for someone single, she's married & therefore off limits. Lust after a single woman, alot safer for you in the long run. Lust after a married woman & you are asking for trouble.
2007-12-08 22:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the woman is a whore and has deep problems. Why in the world would you want to get mixed up with all those problems? What if her husband some how catches you two and flips out? Just because you are single doesn't mean you have to sink so low and be with a cheating whore. I'm sure you can find someone who is single to sleep with.
2007-12-08 21:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL.... she's playing with you!!!!! Women do that for attention more then for the sex. They just want men to want them and sees if, she can get them!!!! The ones that play hard to get ... she will try for the most. It is her desire to be desireable ... maybe not just for the sex....... only when she wants the sex.... then she comes over! She really believes this is what men look for in a women ... the naughty girl image! I would find out about her if I was you. Find out if she pratices safe sex for one thing. You know what i am saying!
Alot of nasty deases are out there. If she kisses everyone on the mouth ... are you interested kisses after alot of others?
Does she keep clean? Important things to know!
2007-12-08 21:37:35 · answer #5 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is enjoying tormenting you. This gal is using sex as a power tool over men, and sounds quite successful. You only win if you stop playing her game. Find yourself a single girl who just wants a friend with benefits, where you're on equal footing. Leave married women (slutty and otherwise) alone.
2007-12-08 21:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by ScienceMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you messing around with a married woman...she is going to toy with you, get the attention she wants and leave you frustrated confused and probably hard on for her.
cut the ties, be a man not a boy toy
2007-12-08 21:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by oregonmadisons 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you already know the answer to this question. She is just using you. It sounds to me like she has some Major problems and unless you want to get caught up in her Drama, I would bail out now.
2007-12-08 21:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes playin u!! She wants to see if you come back for more. Dont do it! She has a bf, leave her to play her stupid games with some1 else coz if u get caught by her bf u will take all the flack for this.
2007-12-08 21:30:01 · answer #9 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are MESSING with forbidden fruit. Now you know that is wrong, WHY WOULD YOU EVEN BOTHER dealing with her? You are single and there are lots of single women out there, why don't you hook up with them? Or is it that you like women with BAGGAGE, women that are taken?
2007-12-08 21:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋