Marriage & Divorce - 8 December 2007

Married to my wife was the best choice ever in my life. Her Birthday is coming up and i was wondering what would be a good presant to give her?

2007-12-08 05:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by dli 2

Its four months that Im married now, two months after the wedding hubby got back to his home country. cuz me and husband live in different countries, he'll stay there until his papre works are done in the immigration service. what worries me is that though we're far he never talks of sex, lacking it, missing it, remembering it...absolutely nothing, am I right to worry?

2007-12-08 05:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife borowing money to support her sun (he is 28 and does not like to work living with us ) we bought a hause joint tenancy.every time i complain she sayes she will divorce me.
are they going to cofiscate my own asset if she cant pay her debt or i am save?

2007-12-08 05:17:55 · 11 answers · asked by spicy 2

Long story short, one of my husbands close friends told us that my cousin"Joe" said nasty lies about my husband and I. I know Joe said it because he said details that would apply. Such as when we lived with Joe for 3 weeks we did not pay him (lie). Joe said that my husband and I are irresponsible which is another lie and so on. Lie after lie. He is a cocaine addict and talks about everyone and tonight he is having a party for his mom at his house. We do not want to attend because I don't appreciate his lies. I want to confront him so bad but I gave my husband my word that I would not. What should I do about the party and the confrontation. This is really bothering us. I hate being around liars and back stabbers. All my hubby ever did for him wqas get him a job, lend him money etc. and this is the appreciation that we get.

2007-12-08 05:16:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i find if a person is married...he is saying he is not but i really think he is...

thanks

he lives in california and not sure if their are websites for this info

2007-12-08 05:13:26 · 6 answers · asked by Suzanne P 1

All my family lives in texas and my husband had us (me and our son) move to virginia(where we have no family or friends) we have been here for 2 years (we are going to have anouther boy in 4 weeks, and now my sister (who is my best friend) says she might move up here to live(with her 9 yr son) but she would live with us and we are barly making it. but i miss her so much !!!
but my husband says its wrong to push her to leave my other sister(her twin) and other family just to be with us. that if i giult her into it and she's not happy she will hold it aginst me. but im having a baby none of my family will meet . i havent seen them in 2 years (no money to visit)
I think the jobs are better for her here and i stay home with my kids so i can watch her boy (wich i have helped raise) too.
Is it wrong to try to move her up here?

2007-12-08 05:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by jessica l 2

My wife just told me she is pregnant, we are fairly young and already have one kid. I'm not ready for another one. I know for a fact that she has already had 2 abortions so i don't see what the big deal is. She is a stay at home mom and I am the sole provider of our family. I am very stressed out as it is and I don't know how to tell her that I can't take any more right now. I feel like we should wait. We always decided that we wanted to wait until our 1st child was 2, and he's not yet, but the BC pill was making her sick, so she stopped taking it. I don't get why shes trying to change the plans that we made just because she happens to be pregnant now. Am I wrong, Is she? How do I tell her that I love her and our child, but that I'm just not ready.

2007-12-08 05:00:12 · 18 answers · asked by james 1

i need help! i have 2 kids. my husband left me 1 year ago and now i hve no money! i havent been paying my bills and the electric company will be shutting it off soon. my mother wont let me stay with her because she has no room in her house. My kids are 10 and 7. i really need help. i will not be homeless and live on the streets!! i dont know what to do!! please help me!!

2007-12-08 04:57:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 04:52:28 · 17 answers · asked by kittens 3

I'm in the process of a divorce and have two little boys, ages four and six. He's got a girlfriend, and I HATE that I was replaced so soon after he moved out (ten days after he moved out, she slept over). We have split custody (a 4-day rotation).

I KNOW it's a bad idea for me to get into a relationship at this point. I still care about him and the divorce isn't final yet. I don't need to get attached to anyone right now, and I REALLY dont' think our kids should be getting attached to anyone else right now.

But on my four days off, I pretty much just go to work, come home and do nothing all night. A guy friend asked me out, and I told him I'd think about it. I know I don't need a serious or sexual relationship right now, and it would not be something I would let my kids know about, much less bring around them. Would it be just as bad an idea for me to go out on a date as it would for me to get into an ill-advised relationship at this point?

2007-12-08 04:47:11 · 20 answers · asked by CrazyChick 7

My husband and I are deploying to Iraq in six days. So he wanted to go to a bachelor party tonight with one of our friends who we won't see for a year or so. Our friend said there would be beer pong at the barracks on base for this guy's bachelor party (three hours from where we live). Our friend who my husband wants to spend time with is getting married in two weeks. The last words out of his mouth when they left to make the trip this morning was "Come on! Let's get on the road so I can get back and get laid!" There is a new girl in his company who he's been cheating on his fiance with. His fiance is also our friend. She lives over nine hours away, and has no idea what he's doing with this other girl. After he metioned sleeping with this other chick, he mentioned how they were going to the strip club tonight. My husband knows that I see porn and strip clubs as disrespectful to me and all women. I have made my point very clear from the beginning...

2007-12-08 04:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was told I had cancer about 2 years ago.
My husband left me because he said I was going to die anyway and he wanted to find someone new.
Well my surgery went very well and I am healthy again.
My husband now wants me back, I took vows and I am very serious about them but all my friends and family say not to go back.
Deep down I know I dont want him back but I still love him and we share our daughter.
Its just very confusing.
So one more chance for him or nothing anymore?
Would the best thing be for me to just move on?
Any advice? Thanks

2007-12-08 04:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by nuvision93952 2

just curious.

Been hunting when it was -34 out. Just curious on the creative ways one could stay warm.

some ideas could actually make a marriage better, LOL

2007-12-08 04:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a married woman has a very close guy friend who she knows fancies her is it acceptable for her to engage in teasing and light playfighting (gentle punching, poking, chasing, tickling, etc) with him? Is she sending the wrong signal? Does it make a difference if they're alone?

2007-12-08 04:30:49 · 14 answers · asked by SITSC 1

I am currently living with my girlfriend. We've been together for quite a while, and I feel like I am getting the short end of the stick so to speak.

I work full time during the day and go to school in the early morning and some nights. I study when I can, but I still make time for her and I to go out and just have fun at least a time or two a week. She doesn't work, because she stays home and takes care of her 18 month old and I am fine with that.

However, am I being unreasonable to ask that the house be kept at least somewhat clean and that we don't have dishes rotting in the sink despite the fact that we have a dishwashing machine? Particularly if she doesn't work?

The place is a disaster area whenever I get home, and I eventually end up cleaning up because it becomes impossible not to step on or kick something when walking through the house. I do my own laundry because if I don't it doesn't get done and I take out the trash as well as care for the yard...

Am I being a jerk?

2007-12-08 04:29:55 · 22 answers · asked by Doogin 3

lets say you were with somebody whom treated you sooooo good. You had the best relationship but the sex wasn't always spectacular. Would you cheat?

I am asking because my hubby and I have a wonderful relationship and a very active sex life. (almost daily... sometimes more!) Some nights its really hot and I KNOW he was loving it and others... its just "eh". I mean, there is only so much you can do and if you do the same thing EVERYDAY, wont he get sick of it? I want to wow him on occasion, not the same routine everyday kind of thing

2007-12-08 04:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by blah 3

There was that woman, he married that man; and he never wanted sex, ever. Whenever she asked him, he refused. She cajoled, complained; all in vain. At last she ran away with a younger man. Her husband is now running around, telling how bad his wife was, why?

2007-12-08 04:12:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister was cheated on by her husband after 22 years of marriage and four children. Her husband had a one night stand and begged for forgiveness. She granted the forgiveness and then tried to stay in the marriage. She proceeded to sleep with several different men, bought some boobs, belly button piercing - every stereotypical thing you can imagine. Then, she started up with a guy who has been in a relationship with the same girl for over ten years. He is not married but lives with this girl. My sister is his woman on the side and she is convinced that he loves her deeply and really wants her but just can't leave the girlfriend. I am sick over this. The sister I used to look up to and admire has turned into a mess. Worse yet, we live in a small town and she is sleeping with the town cop so everyone knows her business. My brother in law has since filed for divorce because he couldn't take what little my sister was giving him and she was just using him for his money at the....

2007-12-08 04:01:09 · 33 answers · asked by Love Life 2

What do you expect to hear? Would be honest and comfortable to talk to her. If you did, were you satisfied to have heard the "truth" from her instead of lies back and forth from your husband? How did you respond, did you hate her guts and cursed her out?

2007-12-08 03:48:00 · 14 answers · asked by ladida 3

2007-12-08 03:45:50 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 03:45:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

After a fight things get better for a few days then the s*** hits the fan again. The fights are usually over his imaturaty. The main thing keeping me right now is my step-son. He CANNOT go back into the environment he was in before we got married.

2007-12-08 03:44:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

and thought it would be funny! Unfortunately I arrived home with 2 of my girlfriends. They fell over laughing and he was really embarrased! He was even wearing my bra, stockings and ruffled panties!
My girlfriends think this is going to far, what do you think?

2007-12-08 03:35:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I just had a big fight he said he couldn't take it anymore and packed all his stuff and left. We fight all the time and he has left before for days and come back but this time I hurt him bad & unless I beg and beg him I know he will not come back. I know I need therepy my husband has been thru hell with me I'm a selfish and controling woman. He is so good to me. I just can't control my temper and I verbally & physically abuse him all the time. I decided not to tell him to come home this time I love him very much & the best thing to do right now is to just let him go and get me some help as much as it's going to hurt & I might even lose him. I know I have to change myself. Now my husband has been waiting for his business to start and he has absolutely no money right now. His car insurance is under my name and I'm paying for it but if I don't plan on being back with him should I cancel it ? or keep it in my name for a while. I don't want him to think I don't care

2007-12-08 03:26:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why diana did not sacrifice her life to thier children.
she done adultery so many times.If she have patiens then her marriage life will be good but she never did it .she have so many sexual parners.she lived sinful life during her last five years.
tell me u r views on my question

2007-12-08 03:14:31 · 3 answers · asked by praveen 1

sometimes we hear about pratonic love..... what is it really?

2007-12-08 03:13:32 · 3 answers · asked by oporajita 2

2007-12-08 03:07:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 02:48:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we both talk about it and that we are going to get married but i want to take the first step

2007-12-08 02:25:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

...do you think he would do it?

2007-12-08 02:18:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous