lets say you were with somebody whom treated you sooooo good. You had the best relationship but the sex wasn't always spectacular. Would you cheat?
I am asking because my hubby and I have a wonderful relationship and a very active sex life. (almost daily... sometimes more!) Some nights its really hot and I KNOW he was loving it and others... its just "eh". I mean, there is only so much you can do and if you do the same thing EVERYDAY, wont he get sick of it? I want to wow him on occasion, not the same routine everyday kind of thing
2007-12-08 04:23:59 · 9 answers · asked by blah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For most men the sex doesn't have to be great or even good as long as you are willing to try .The only time cheating crosses my mind is when she witholds sex and no longer seems interested in me (which happens occasionally in most marriages) this makes men feel insecure and unloved.If you are having sex on a regular basis then you are doing all you can.Sex isn't always going to be great.
2007-12-08 05:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read up on things to do to spice up love life. Lots of things come to mind. Costumes and role playing are fairly popular. How about meeting him at the door and being someone else? or meeting at door wearing nothing but an apron? But be careful that is is him. Just use your imagination, much written on the subject, some right here on the net. Something like Sex101 is on here somewhere. Ask on Answers and it is likely someone knows. Good Luck and Happy ...
2007-12-08 13:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only an idiot would cheat on someone they are in love with while having a good relationship. He didn't marry you for sex.
2007-12-08 12:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What????? You have SO much to complain about. wonderful life and husband, but the sex isn't spectacular EVERY TIME!! Better or worse ringing any bells?
2007-12-08 13:22:08 · answer #4 · answered by Randy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a great time.
Make sure to not get stale,,, use different rooms, different positions, techniques, outside, etc etc.
gets some toys, oil etc etc,,, have fun. Sex should be FUN.
2007-12-08 12:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat. I love my wife too much to bring that kind of hurt upon her.
2007-12-08 12:29:28 · answer #6 · answered by docC 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just see my answer when you asked this in Singles and Dating.
2007-12-08 12:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pop in a porn and watch it together and try some of that stuff out
2007-12-08 12:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't chase cheeze, while I have steak cooking at home!!!!
2007-12-08 13:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋