Marriage & Divorce - 8 December 2007

Should I tell my friends that I am a virgin. I am 19 and in college. I don't want to lie to my friends, but I think if I told them that I was a virgin they might think I am a loser and not want to hang out with me or they might think I am gay. I just dont know if its a good idea to tell them that on top of that I have never kissed a girl and I know if I told them that they would think I was gay when I am not. I am asking cuz they like to talk about sex and all some times and I kinda just sit there and I got nothing to say.
Or if they talk about it should I just make things up and tell them I have had sex and all?????????/

2007-12-08 18:46:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a guy were to work out in order to make himself more physically appealling, what areas would you recommond?

2007-12-08 18:45:58 · 16 answers · asked by lmspencr 4

My husband and I have been "separated" for almost 2 weeks. We speak because we have a 2 year old son and I work full time and he watches him. He left me for my best friend and wants to "date other people" and "have sex with others", his reason: "I won't know how I feel and you should do the same thing". I told him no way, we are still married and I respect that vow I made. It really hurts that he wants to be with my ex-best friend and date her/sleep with her while we are still married. He says he is only married b/c of technical reasons, but still wears his wedding band (or at least he does when he sees me). What is the right thing to do, this is such a silly question, but I am so confused right now. He lives with his parents right now and wants to bring another woman to their house and be intimate with her....how rude! Please advise.

2007-12-08 18:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by cwilcoxrn 1

2007-12-08 18:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Cafe au lait 2

I'm in the same boat, and live about 200 miles from my kids for the time being. I see em once a month right now, and have had to travel alot for my job of the last 7 years.

Do you worry that the picture they have of you is not accurate and fed that direction by a bitter x wife and former inlaws?

2007-12-08 18:32:03 · 7 answers · asked by Zipperhead 6

About 5 weeks ago my husband of 3 years (we've been together 9), told me he didn't love me and didn't want to be married any more. My best friend, or so I thought, was trying to comfort me and him. To make a long story short, my husband has decided to leave me for her. We have a 2 year old son together. He keeps telling me that he doesn't love me or want to be married any more, but then will say that he wants to try, but I have to make changes. I had asked them both to stop talking/texting each other and they both refused. He tells me that regardless the outcome, he is still going to be friends with her. He doesn't understand why I am not friends with her any more and thinks that I'm a bad person for that. I am so angry, sad, jealous, every emotion all at once! I kicked him out of our house and he is living w/his parents, but we are still married and he is having her over @ his parents house! Does anyone have any words of encouragement or advice. I have talked to an attorney.

2007-12-08 18:31:43 · 7 answers · asked by cwilcoxrn 1

2007-12-08 18:25:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ignore the seducer, shout at the seducer, leave the job, ...etc.

2007-12-08 18:17:39 · 17 answers · asked by ej974 2

i caught him cheated once when i open up his YM account.I can't imagine that he could do that to me.I thought he was a change person when we got married.I've put too much trust on our relationship before but after that incident I can't find myself to trust him anymore.

2007-12-08 18:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by niCoLE 2

2007-12-08 18:05:11 · 13 answers · asked by Yas 1

my friend said she heard that you can get marry over the phone if you are in one country and your husband to be is in an other country --- to hard to belive- i say it can"t be done

2007-12-08 18:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by lady of the hearts 2

2007-12-08 17:54:27 · 1 answers · asked by Patricia B 1

I'm still feeling naturally high from my Lovers prowess.

But in the meantime I feel a bit guilty when I went into our childrens rooms.Seeing them sleeping so peacefully .
But then I get nauseous seeing my husband snoring like a pig.

My Lover is younger and richer,smarter,beter lover and MUCH BIGGER in the right place.
I know i'll be sore tomorrow but I just want to eliviate the guilt.
any helpful hints?
Thanks

2007-12-08 17:54:22 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm designing a website for a Wedding Planner.

What would you expect to see to make you feel more comfortable about your event?

I'm having a little bit of a hard time because I'm a male, and this site is most geared towards females.

Thanks for any help!

2007-12-08 17:42:55 · 5 answers · asked by Nic W 3

I was cleaning today and said something to my husband about not helping, he was just sitting there watching TV all day why I cleaned. I walked out of the room and he called me a Sl*t. I was very upset and then he got mad at me and said he was just joking, he turned it on me and said I had no reason to be upset then went on to ignore me the rest of the day. Am I right to be upset? What do I do about this?

2007-12-08 17:25:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Explain why ?

2007-12-08 17:18:30 · 7 answers · asked by Joy 4

My boyfriend and I would like to move in together. We have been dating 3.5 years. We want to be financial stable and ready to get married at least a year after living together/. Whjat would be a decent amount of money to have save up before living together?

2007-12-08 17:01:19 · 12 answers · asked by J'adore 4

2007-12-08 16:53:09 · 12 answers · asked by 1/6,833,020,409 5

If an alcohlic is lying about sometime should the non-alcohlic confront they about the lie. I am never sure if I should telll my boyfriend I know he is lying or not. I mean what's the point he is going to lie anyway. Causing me even more frustration.

2007-12-08 16:49:18 · 7 answers · asked by going to the dogs 1

And followed through with it?
My ex did!

2007-12-08 16:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm due in two weeks, and I'm thinking about asking my fiance to leave after the baby comes. He's been totally disinterested in my pregnancy, though getting pregnant was his idea. His cleaning skills don't exist and he only cooks when he wants to. Even after I got put on bedrest due to preeclampsia, I have to get up to cook and clean a little, otherwise the house is embarrassingly dirty when my sisters come by to help. One of the last straws was when he decided to spend $2000 for a new tv/audio set up at Thanksgiving. I've been struggling financially for a while, and he's been contributing little to the bills. Turns out he was saving up for that! I give 90% of every check to the house and he gives 50% of ONE check a month, and extra only when he can "afford it." Thing is, I feel bad because I've been putting up with it thus far, how can I gripe now that I've realized that he's just worthless? I feel like I may as well be living alone. I'd probably be better off in the long run.

2007-12-08 16:42:23 · 13 answers · asked by laffitupfzbl 3

these days its what my wife will be telling her sister

2007-12-08 16:41:42 · 23 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1

He said that hes not sure if its his but the girl told him when she found out that he was marreid and had 2 kids that he could go back to his family and that he would never hear from her again what can i do its the 2nd time he cheated on me i need lots of advice please help?

2007-12-08 16:34:46 · 32 answers · asked by Nora+ 1

He basically said I don't make him happy and then walked out the door. We have three kids 6, 4 and 4 months. I know we have been fighting alot but I seriously do not know how to feel about this. I am scared and I don't know what to do. If you have been in this situation can you please give me some advice?

2007-12-08 16:30:05 · 17 answers · asked by *~mama mari~* 3

There are different types of love, there's the kind of love that consumes you, full of passion, desire, that feeling where you can't live w/out each other and there's the kind of love where you can co-exist in harmony w/ a person therefore build a life but you can tell when a couple settled vs. when a couple is as in love w/ each other as they where form day one. Which kind of love have you experience? And if you are married which kind of love do you have w/ your spouse?

2007-12-08 16:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Danny82 2

He just seems to be really insensitive and uncaring today. He is busy playing xbox 360 (which I bought him for christmas and he said he needs to test it out a few days ago and hasnt finished 'testing' it yet) and I have been trying to talk to him about a problem we are having. We sorted out the problem after a horribly frustrating argument and then I was feeling emotional and was trying to explain all my feelings to him and he said 'please stop, I don't want to talk anymore' so I started crying and telling him I just wanted to tell him my feelings, I went off crying into our room and he just went back to playing video games, he didnt check on me or show he cared in any way. He still isn't. I am really upset and I have nobody to talk to, he is the only person I talk to and he doesn't even want to listen to me today. Is that normal? What am I supposed to do, I want him to be caring and show me he cares.

2007-12-08 16:03:05 · 36 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6

My hubby is does not want to cook and even he does not want to enter the kitchen. How to make him to get in to the kitchen to help me when I really need some help? Hi girls, how do you make your hubbies / partners to help you in the kitchen? Hi Guys, is that really sucking to see what the wife suffers in the kitchen? I am really fed up with this attitude and I just wonder what is going on with other couples?

2007-12-08 16:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

and that is running late?

2007-12-08 15:59:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am really annoyed my husband for not telling the truth to his parents.?
My mother and family are very handy people. My mom went out of her way to help us install laminate flooring and backsplash in the kitchen. she took 2 days off from work to help us do the job properly and also showed my husband how to use the cutting machine for the backsplash. I was expecting that my husband will tell his parents that he completed theses two projects with the help of my mom and that there was lot of work involved. Instead he just said it that yeah WE did all the work in 2 days and didn't mention anything to his parents that he was able to do all this because of my mom and her assistance. His mom now thinks that he did everything.and i am not happy with this because to me this is a lie. I hate when people doesn't give credit to those people who have went out of their way to help them. I did talk to my husband about this and that his thing was that that there is already a friction in two families

2007-12-08 15:52:30 · 12 answers · asked by c 2

My wife has done some really bad things to me and our relationship, currently we are separated, and she has told me that she wants to work on our relationship after she works on herself. She has put me in jail 3 times for nothing (control) I have 3 children with her, but I just don't see her changing, how can I detach myself from her?

2007-12-08 15:51:31 · 20 answers · asked by ocean 1