i caught him cheated once when i open up his YM account.I can't imagine that he could do that to me.I thought he was a change person when we got married.I've put too much trust on our relationship before but after that incident I can't find myself to trust him anymore.
2007-12-08 18:08:26 · 14 answers · asked by niCoLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
caught him on ym cuz we were exchanging YM accts. He was the suspicious one but sad to say he was the cheater.After reading those cheesy chats he had with his x I fiond it very difficult to believe it mysel, especially when he said how he misses her a lot and they are planning to continue their relationship even if he's already married.
2007-12-08 19:28:48 · update #1
once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater
2007-12-08 18:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
You know that he's only human. He commits mistakes and I think that he can change for the better. One way or another he will soon find his happiness and commitment to you. But if he really is not satisfied with your relationship then you must be ready to accept the consequences.
Be strong and also fight for your right. Trust him and don't open personal emails and messages even on the cellphone. It signals that you really do not trust him and he may even do that intentionally because he's been angered or something =)
2007-12-08 18:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Red 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may want to seek marriage council. If you still married this guy after you already knew he was cheating, you may need some personal counciling as well.
You need to fix yourself before you can "Fix" him (which is impossible by the way).
If you don't have any kids with this dude, you might want to cut your losses and hit the road.
2007-12-08 18:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Nic W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One time caught my wife chatting with some one in the phone
Which my mom tell me ..
Yes I feel the same way too.
But I also cheat with another girl.
That not the point . to cheat one to other .
Like right now we trust one to other.
And just is that trust him.
And you trust him and do it again.
Just forget it
find some one else
2007-12-08 18:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by HUGO M & GABY 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as someone who had been cheated on, I came to realize that if I cannot trust someone, I cannot be with them. I'd recommend the same strategy for anyone, regardless of gender.
No trust = No relationship.
2007-12-08 18:19:33 · answer #5 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
caught him in YM...?
how come
u were suspicious, on him; you never tried to find out whats the reality. women make big stories out of nothing.
have u really caught him with other women;
u should have asked him why he cheated; or find out why he cheated if really cheated. once and for all.
You doubt him and always feel like, he is chezating on you always.
Thats women nature BY BIRTH
2007-12-08 18:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by 498A_Crusader 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are worrying all the time it will drive you crazy. So if you are going to forgive him then you have to totally 100% forgive him. If you can't do that then you should really evaluate your situation.
2007-12-08 20:40:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my ex cheated..and then after geting down on one knee...2 yrs later cheated again..once a cheater always
2007-12-08 18:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the trust gone sorry
find someone new
you need someone you can trust and love forever
2007-12-08 19:49:01 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT believe that once a cheater always a cheater, because i am proof of that. follow your womanly instincts, youll feel it, when somethings not right.
2007-12-08 18:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You do know that you and you alone are responsible for your happiness... right?
Do not depend on him for happiness if you cannot trust him.
Good luck.
2007-12-08 18:33:02 · answer #11 · answered by box of rain 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋