I cheated on my Husband tonight?

Question

I'm still feeling naturally high from my Lovers prowess.

But in the meantime I feel a bit guilty when I went into our childrens rooms.Seeing them sleeping so peacefully .
But then I get nauseous seeing my husband snoring like a pig.

My Lover is younger and richer,smarter,beter lover and MUCH BIGGER in the right place.
I know i'll be sore tomorrow but I just want to eliviate the guilt.
any helpful hints?
Thanks

If you were in my shoes you would have done the same.. Just wish I did this sooner. all my husband does is eat,pass gas,lay around,gets ontop of me with bad breath, screws me for 30 seconds and goes to the fridge to eat more.
I found this guy a weeka go and it's more than I could ever want.I just want him to please me, i know my lover is using me but im using him..
i'll stay with my husband for the kids sake..sure ill do my wifely duties but i will love and wait for saturday nights with my new young stud.
it really is amazing.
I've never felt so alive..it's like im on drugs.

Answer 1

depends what u value in life, lust only last for awhile, and isn't real for very long, its just a fantasy because u don't know this other man that well, if u were married to him instead, after awhile it would be the same as it is now with your husband. u will feel guilt, because down deep u know what your doing is wrong and could possibly alter your marriage, guess when u go home at night, u still have to face yourself.

Answer 2

Of course when it comes to something like this it can be a very touchy subject. I may only be 19 but do give me some credit I'm doing a general psychology degree in UCD Dublin that took my 550 points out of 600 in the leaving certificate to do. I plan to branch off into criminology. Right now you may be thinking 'Why the heck should I give a rat's **** about what this 19 year old student has to say.' Well... You'd be surprised. I'm male, I have been in a relationship with my fiancée for three years now and although that is nothing compared to you're very long 15, I feel I am a nice person and I long to make her happy. So I think in one way or another we can relate there. I take it from his brother saying 'James hasn't cheated on Lacey SINCE...' would be the give away sign he has cheated before? Unless I haven't picked something up but that is not always the case. I'm sure there could be numerous reasons for his lateness (not making excuses), on top of this, would it not be better to perhaps not... Spy on the chap. At risk of sounding rude it doesn't do good for a relationship and if this is a marriage you are trying to save or perhaps improve, this wouldn't do too good for relations between the both of you. There is a lot to be said. If he is in fact cheating on you and you find out in a more conventional way I would tell him to sling his hook if I was you. However, for me, something just wouldn't sit right about doing that to my partner (the 'spying' over the phone), even if they are a cheat. Benefit of the doubt love, it really is the best option at times.

Answer 3

girl on one hand I can understand you and on another hand I cannot say this is the right thing though

I became like your hubby to my present girl. In all essence, she should have left. Now I see you're staying with hubby for the kids sake, but if the kids/hubby finds out, what kind of an example are you setting?

What kind of an age do we live in when girl comes on practically bragging and acting like this is a great solution, but hey, help me with the guilt.

I don't think cheating is the answer. It's for weak minds to get through adversity.
I don't know what else to tell you, you know your situation best.

Too bad you married your husband and had kids.

Answer 4

Honestly, cheating is never the correct answer in a relationship, especially marriage. However, if you want the marriage to work, maybe you should talk to your husband about his hygene habits or maybe go to marriage counciling. Don't be in the marriage just for the kids. I am a product of divorced parents and although it was hard for me at first, as well as for my sisters, in the end..we all turned into great successful adults and my parents are happy in their marriages. If you guys argue, that can be alot more damaging for the children than you think.

I HIGHLY suggest some marriage counciling and seeing where it goes. or AT LEAST talk to your husband. Come on, you married him in the beginning for a reason, you have to still be able to talk to him.

Answer 5

I'm not going to judge you. You obviously feel you've done the right thing. However, neither will I help you, because I feel you've done the wrong thing. And as to the first statement of your "additional details", no, i would not have done the same thing in your shoes. That is one thing I've promised myself and my husband, never to cheat. Hope you can find a better way to deal with your problems. Having a young stud is just a band-aid, temporary fix. You'll find out.

Answer 6

You made a vow before God to love that man for better or for worse, otherwise you shouldnt have gotten married and had kids. That is selfish. Destiny will catch up with you sooner or later. I pray for your family, your husbands and your kids. Oh btw heres a hint: Tell your husband.

Answer 7

Are you kidding?

If I wouldn't get zapped by Yahoo control, I'd tell you to go get a pistol.

Take all the bullets out... Call the family together.

Put the gun to your mouth and pull the trigger and watch their reaction.

What you did with your 'lover' is just about the same... without asking anybody that would be affected, you took a piece of you out of them.

EDIT: You say he's such a pig? How did the marriage happen? Circus soleil?

Answer 8

You should leave. If you want someone else, get out of the marriage you're in before starting up with someone else. Why would u put your kids through that? Did you fall out of love with him? Or is it the thrill of getting caught? You need to sit down and look at your prorities.

Answer 9

wow to do that to your husband is one thing but you have kids think of the hurt they are going to feel when daddy has to live somewhere else while a new guy sleeps in his place you should feel guilty you have just ruiend a home tonight your husband might be hurt for a while but he deserves better than you and i highly doubt the new guy will stay with you anyway why would he your a cheat or maybe your dishonest with him to and he doesent even know you have a family hope it was worth it

Answer 10

The guilt's where it belongs...I'm just surprised that you can write about how wonderful the other was when you should only be worried about how you treated your own husband...Your kids' father (hopefully)...Don't get married and have kids unless you're going to be loyal and actually love your husband...yes, it's expected that you will meet others that you love possibly MORE, but you have to have the self control to stop youself. I'm sorry, but there's know way that asking people looking at this from a third person view are going to help get rid of the guilt...bad decision