Marriage & Divorce - 8 December 2007

i dated a girl for four months. we were together every day. the first two weeks were amazing for both of us. but i got scared after two weeks when i found out her ex (one month away from divorce being official) was bad mouthing her infront of the kids. i completely did a 180 and ran away emotionally. we still hung out, but she was on an emotional island and ended up sleeping with another guy and me for two months. i found out when i called the guy. the moment i found out, i freaked out on her and started threatening her custody - that i would go to her ex and that she would lose all her custody. i never meant any of it. she told me she never wants to speak to me ever again. it's been 3 months. the other guy she ran to, they didn't work out. i'm sure b/c he was just using her for sex from what i've been told. i know she has feelings for me. but her ex found out about my threatening her custody, and is now involded. they're in the middle of a custody battle. how do i win her trust back?

2007-12-08 15:45:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

That teen having sex with woman or wife that cheat her husband........or wife/husband cheat their wife/husband,,,give me alot movie name

2007-12-08 15:44:36 · 11 answers · asked by $Love money$ 2

i recently found that my mom has a porn video with a guy who has moved in the house next door

my parents are marrried since 22 years now

what should i do

2007-12-08 15:43:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Right now, there is a killer in my house! He beats me and he just came in the house with a gun! What do I do? Quick!!!

2007-12-08 15:41:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 31 y/o married woman with 2 children. I am happily married, I go to college full time to get a better career. The thing is, I'm obsessed with my husbands ex g/f. He dated her for about 4 years before he and I met, she was his first love & although she had cheated on him in their relationship, he always went back to her. I met him while he was still dating her. He cheated on her with me and eventually he broke up with her to be with me. We married and have been happily together ever since...so about 5 years. Well I found his ex g/f myspace page a little over a year ago. I couldn't help myself, I hated seeing her page online! I made a fake profile and tried to break up her relationship. EVer since then I'm obsessed with her and I find myself looking at her myspace page several times every day. I write and send mean comments to other people's pages that I know she will see, to make her mad. I love my life, I love my husband, my children. Y do I hate her so much? Y can't I let it go?

2007-12-08 15:37:16 · 11 answers · asked by says ME. 2

Seriously how do you forgive someone who hurt the people you loved so many times? This person is and been in a place in their life where they need me but so am I and just can't let go of what he did?

2007-12-08 15:32:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 8 year old told me a young 19 year old female has been sitting in my husbands lap at the races. I dont like it A few friends say it is no big deal because she has a boyfriend. What do you think?

2007-12-08 15:29:40 · 26 answers · asked by spence6209@sbcglobal.net 2

We have been divorced for 6 yrs. In the divorce papers, it stated he keeps the house. I signed a paper with the attorney to get my name off, but when I check my credit report. It was showing at 120 days late for the last few years. I want to know how to get off the loan and can he be accused of running my credit. I can not purchase a vehicle or anything because of this.

2007-12-08 15:28:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you are really mad at soemone who has brokenyour heart( cheating, taken advanage of,not considerate about your feeling and...) what would you do?...do you ignor them or you fight over the issue?...which one has the best result of comforying you? and why?

2007-12-08 15:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-08 15:12:41 · 18 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

My husband has a "friend" who things are crossing some lines...he swears no cheating has occured. But when asked if he wanted to sleep with her he said "Yes, the desire is there but I can't because we're married".

Its the most painful thing he's ever said to me. I tried to be nice until last night he invited her to come over for dinner with the option of sleeping over & when she couldn't show he invited her to go with us to a rec center today. I lost it.

I told him flat out I'm tired of being nice & I didn't want him around this girl period. He got pissed & when on about how I'm over reacting & just dont like it when he meets new people. I said thats it its her or its me choose right now. He said I'm not going choose she's my friend & he stormed out. My toddler wokeup later crying for him & he refused to answer my calls. I called his unit desk & had them find him I told him his kid needed him he said "what do you want me to do I want to do my own thing"

That was 3hrs ago...

2007-12-08 15:00:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

im not attending the services due to a previous engagement

2007-12-08 14:59:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship for 2 years. We have a daughter & I am currently 8mths pregnant. When we met he had someone else pregnant and this woman put us through term oil; filing false retraining orders, stalking us and making threats. He has not had any contact with her or the child for the past 2 years & just a few months ago it started bothering him because the daughter he has with her was not apart of his life & that was only because of this womans physocatic ways. I recently went over our cell phone bill; & what do you know her # is on there begining Oct 18, 2007 the day I went to court against her for a new restraining order. I confronted him with it & he states he was afraid to tell me that he has had contact w/her because of my reactions. I am hurt because we agreed that the 1st step of dealing w/her would be a decision made together. He even went as far as having his restraining order against her dismissed & her vice versa w/out telling me. What do I do?

2007-12-08 14:53:07 · 30 answers · asked by blknricanma25 1

The kid doesnt listen to me and I have to watch him every afternoon when I got hom because my houseband has two jobs, and he cryes ALL day until he goes 2 bed... I dnt like him and I know he dnt like either. So I can imagine the rest of my life with my husband but but cnt imagine one more month with the kid. And he will be with him cause he got full custody...

2007-12-08 14:48:50 · 38 answers · asked by sophieCR 1

Ok here is the story. I just found out my husband of five years cheated on me eight years ago while we were dating. He was 18 at the time, said it lasted only a month and he told her he had to stop cause he was in love with someone else (me). I know the girl and knows that she hated him and now I know why. It was a year and a half after we has started dating. I know it was eight years ago but I still feel so betrayed. He is a good father and husband and we are very happy and have a three year old and have been trying to have another child. I have already forgiven him but I dont know how to forget. I can't seem to get it out of my mind. What can I do?

2007-12-08 14:38:48 · 14 answers · asked by Quinn 2

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2007-12-08 14:34:16 · 52 answers · asked by Angel L 3

Married 26yrs but have not always lived together. My husband turned 60 in June. In July we had discussed living together again. We were dating on a regular basis and were still intimate. This anniversary is the 1st one we have not spent the day together. 2 weeks later he told me he met someone. "It just happened". Helpful ideas for saving this relationship would be appreciated.

2007-12-08 14:30:16 · 17 answers · asked by merbuns 1

2007-12-08 14:25:46 · 32 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2

when i came home from work yesterday, my wife had all of her things packed up, and said she is leaving me, and going to las vegas.

i asked her how she was going to financially provide for herself. she said that she had heard a good hooker could make $100 for oral sex in Vegas.

i was thinking about following her there. i don't want her back or anything, but i would like to see how the hell she is going to get by on $200 a year.

you think i should?

2007-12-08 14:23:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. So. A few weeks ago, I found out my husband of 4 years has what is know as a "cuckhold festish", where he enjoys seeing me with other men (he told me). I want to know what gives men this strange fetish and what they get out of it. Before anyone answers, please note that a) my husband isn't gay, b) I absolutely WON'T have sexual contact with any other men, c) I won't leave him no matter what, and d) I know he loves me. Any opinion is appreciated! Thanks!

2007-12-08 14:22:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you feel a man should bring to a marriage...?

ie-affection, trust, love? What makes a marriage last and I dont want any text book answers....

2007-12-08 14:16:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is obcessed with making my life miserable. I am so depressed, and almost homeless. When will it end? I wish I knew why he is doing this? It's as if he is from outer space. One minute he is fine......next minute, ca-plu-ee! Please......stop!

2007-12-08 14:11:05 · 3 answers · asked by reggie 1

2007-12-08 14:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2

serious answers only please, have any dads out there been discriminated against by the bias british family courts? hearing after hearing another ajournment for a few more months cos of yet another unfounded allegation of harrassment or domestic violence/ 15 months 7 court appearances 6 different judges 9 unwarranted arrests all of which was based on unfounded allegations 1 or 2 weeks before the so called final contact hearing which leads to another ajournment .. what about caffcass the caffcass officer in charge of my case said in her reports that my son really missed me andc wanted to see me but still advised that i had psyciatric reports which took 3 months to do and also came back that i pose no danger to my 6 year old son and the court sent my ex wife a copy of my reports without my knowledge! another "final"hearing next friday and i see my ex"s house in the property guide for rent section and no forward address, whats your experiances dad"s?? good? bad? or totally unbelievable

2007-12-08 13:57:43 · 3 answers · asked by crin 2

Lets call him "John". When we met a few years ago we were married to other people. Our (then) spouses were best friends at the time. John and I had an affair while I was in the midst of an ugly separation from my husband and John was still married to his wife. Our spouses soon found out, and within days afterwards John and I had stopped talking to each other. He went back to his wife to try and make things work so we backed away from each other completely. My husband and I began the proceeds for a divorce. It has been about 9 months since then, my ex and I are still going through a divorce and John and his wife separated within 3 months after the affair's discovery. John and I started talking again 2 months ago. He and I have had an incredible friendship and care very deeply for each other. I am unsure if we should just stay friends for now till our divorces are finalized or if we should just persue our happiness and a deeper relationship together, or nothing at all. What should I do?

2007-12-08 13:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by Intrigued 2

If yes, how many sexual partners have you had?

2007-12-08 13:44:00 · 7 answers · asked by banananutmeg1 1

2007-12-08 13:43:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have custody of his two children. Their mother has been in and out of their lives- one time she didn't see or speak to them at all for two years. She has been coming to get them for her court-appointed visitations for the last two years. She gets them Tuesdays from 3-7pm and Saturdays 9-7. She started dating a guy about a year ago and they have recently moved in together. We know for a fact that he physically abuses her as she has had to have stitches in her face which she admits that he did.
My question is this: she had them today for their normal visit and called me around 3:30 to tell me that she had to work at 4pm and gave the kids a choice whether they wanted to go ahead home or stay with the boyfriend until 7 when the visit was up. My oldest (boy) wanted to come home the 7yr old girl wanted to stay with the bf, I told her no--she screams that I have no legal right that they are hers till 7 and its up to her where they are. She says she is taking us to court.Help!

2007-12-08 13:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by mel_adramatic1981 2

2007-12-08 13:33:08 · 18 answers · asked by Raz, Taz & Jaz 2

2007-12-08 13:31:36 · 12 answers · asked by Me 1