Do you ever feel like leaving your marriage, feeling down, feeling like there is no sense to be married?
Do you ever feel just bored and want your 'freedom' back?
Do you ever feel like you want or deserve more in your marriage and you don't get?
2007-12-08 22:27:43 · 12 answers · asked by LMH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't know...try to fight the feelings and make a better life? Or just leave?
2007-12-08 22:33:23 · update #1
Sounds normal for most marriages. You have to decide if you can work through these or if your going to run. Talk with your husband and, see if or what can change in your marriage to make it better.
Do you feel your marriage is worth fighting for? Remember why you got married in the first place and start from there. People change and as a married couple you change either together or alone.
2007-12-08 22:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time. Bored all the time too. Yes I want my freedom back. Yes I feel like I deserve more but not in marriage that just doesn't work. If you ever get divorced and you find someone special don't ever ruin it again by getting married.
2007-12-09 09:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are feeling is pretty normal for a lot of marriages, Even I have went through this stage. Find a time that is good for both you & your husband to sit down together to talk. You want to let him know what you are feeling, but before you do, you want to be sure you know exactly what is making you feel this way, that will make it easier for him to understand as well as you. If you love each other & really wanna make your marriage work, then you will find a way to resolve these feelings together. Worked for me. Good Luck, I hope all works out for you.
2007-12-09 06:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh for gods sake, just talk to him and stop thinking on your own. This is supposed to be a joint relationship, if you leave you will probably be very sorry, you loved him enough to marry him, so talk to him and work on it. I know it is confusing to first start a marriage, after being single for so long. Marriage is much better than being on the single merry go round. If you do all the nice guys will be taken anyway, the good ones will be taken and what is left will be disabled or gay.
2007-12-09 06:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to feel like that periodically. You are in a funk and it will probably pass. Marriage is a two way street, If you can honestly say you are putting 100 percent into your relationship and getting nothing back I think It is time for a talk with your spouse. If you have been moping around the house feeling sorry for yourself dwelling on things that have happened in the past, then its your problem not his. Fix whats wrong and you will feel much better.
2007-12-09 06:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by ridder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times in every marriage when things are not ideal, and there are times in most marriages when things are not going well. By sticking it out and focusing on how your actions and/or words can make the situation better or at least tolerable you can weather whatever difficulty there is today.
Boredom will pass if you make the effort to make things more interesting. What about what your spouse deserves? Spending more time making sure your spouse has what they need and/or want frees them up to better respond to whatever you are needing. Marriage is more about giving than receiving.
2007-12-09 06:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by detailgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the first question, yes i did felt that leaving marriage could be the best solution in our one year turbulent marriage, we dont communicate at all so what is the use of being together
for the second question i never wanted my freedom back until i realized and even heard that he does not include me in what he calls family, i was never in the list of his family members me and my son so what is the use of sticking it out with him
for the third question YES i definitely did not deserved what i had experienced in that marriage that i once had i was never loved back never appreciated, never taken cared for i was just a simple puppet in the use who works for my husband i was treated like a slave and mistreated by harsh words which we women doesnt deserve
2007-12-09 06:35:00 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy_drinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to make a better life. You must have been happy when you got with him and you got vows. Spend time away from eachother so you can miss each other. Marriage is so wonderful and people don't cherish it
2007-12-09 06:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Nae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband keeps asking for swinging and you don't want to do it, do you think you should leave the marriage?
2007-12-11 10:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex cheated. That was enough for me to overcome those feeling, divorce him and go my own way.
2007-12-09 07:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋