im married but now separated im confused as to what to do i have many needs and im all by myself,if i try to fulfill my needs that would be considered adultry and im also in no rush to get back with my spouse we have many issues to work out. what should i do in the mean time to cure my lonely and get my needs fulfilled ? please dont mention toys i hate that
2007-12-06 13:13:38 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go on a date!! Spread your wings! See whats out there. It ain't adultery if its over! It ain't the paper that makes a marriage, it's only an honorary receipt.
2007-12-06 13:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Oh trust me when I say, I know how u feel. I just threw my hubby out cuz I didn't want him no more and now toys are getting kinda old and my hand is as well. It's really starting to drive me crazy. I have no clue what advice to give u cuz there's nothing out there to try. U can go sleeping around w/ men but the only thing u'll get out of that is an std or something so damn I don't know but if u figure it out plz let me know.
2007-12-06 21:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wish that your spouse could see this. Not once do you mention love, but mention "your needs" three times. If I was him I;d slap a divorce on your pathetic butt so fast your head would spin!!
Note: Not one person answering here is on your side. Youre just wrong!
Man, you whine in all your questions don't you? Whining in another question because they didn't need you any longer than an hr and 15 minutes at their home for home healthcare. You wanted your hours, and she asked you to leave. If I had to tell you second time to leave, I'd be calling your boss!
2007-12-06 21:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're answering your own question. If you are going to cure loneliness with sex then you're manipulating others to avoid loneliness. Confusion starts when sex is a gauge of where the relationship is at. Sex is sex and loneliness is the absence of company. To avoid loneliness be around others, to have random sex is more about feeling accepted or attractive to others. Good Luck
2007-12-06 21:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rick L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are contradicting yourself. You say you are working out things with your husband, so you don't want to see anyone else---- at the same time you are adamant that you won't use self-stimulation to satisfy your needs. Therefore, you have no options at all, except having sex with your husband.
2007-12-06 21:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You poor dear. The weight of the world on your little shoulders must be great. Maybe if you realize the world's axes aren't really located above your head or between your legs, you would feel better.
2007-12-06 21:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by rustyoldma 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get divorced and if you are ever lucky enough to fall in love again DON'T CHANGE IT or RUIN IT by getting married again!!!
2007-12-06 22:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Stevie, GROW UP! If sex is your only concern no wonder you are getting divorced!
Try knitting or go fly a kite.......
2007-12-06 21:20:51 · answer #8 · answered by dixie_n_pixie 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
DIVORCE! No wonder you have issues. Your poor husband, he probably deserves so much better and an immature nympho.
2007-12-06 21:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
u r a bit selfish--if my marriage was splitting up, the LAST thing on my mind would be wondering how i was gonna get my rocks off!
2007-12-06 21:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋