Marriage & Divorce - 2 December 2007

i like to know !!

2007-12-02 07:27:23 · 23 answers · asked by girliebutstrong 4

He and his friend were agruing, they were drunk, so it started to get bad, and as I stepped in to calm them down, he swung his fist and right in my face, now my cheek has a bruise, and it hurts like hell, he was sorry, he explain that he wanted to punch his friend, not me, but I can't help it, I'm still pissed of, what would you do?

2007-12-02 07:20:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was waiting for my husband to come home from work, naked, to make it romantic, he came home all right, along with three of his buddies, and they saw me naked, I seriously wanted to ripped my husbands head off, He always call when there are visitors coming, so I went to bed early, what should I do, his buddies wifes are my friend, so its hard to avoid the guys.

2007-12-02 07:14:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs and we have 2 children. He recently joined the Army. Our relationship has been on the rocks for at least 2 yrs. We've lost 2 apts, 2 cars, and lived in seperate househoulds 3 times. I've recently had to quit my job to move to his duty station. We are now fighting and barely speaking to each other b/c I don't have a job yet. We been here for a month. He thinks I sit around the house and do nothing. I take care of the kids ALL by myself and clean and cook everyday and actively look for a job. I can't make these people hire me. When he comes home from work he either looks at internet porn, races his remote control car, or talks on the phone. I feel very neglective and I'm soo unhappy. I try to talk to him but it turns into an argument. He thinks he right all the time. We've had these same problems in the past and things are Great when were on good terms but they never really last long. Is it time to move on

2007-12-02 07:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by leange1 1

I'm very grateful for anything you can share,
I want to hear your reasons about why this happens.

Thank you very much :)

2007-12-02 07:10:27 · 84 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bottom stings :(

2007-12-02 07:04:45 · 19 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

him - "if you are not happy,then you should leave" (after me saying im not happy with the way things are) then in another convo, him - "not working it out is called 'running', you rather run then work it out"(after me saying maybe I should move out been on my own because we have some issues. This was stated on 2 dif occasions. I think it is obvious some things need to be discussed and clarified between us.

a little history on us...
been together for 8 years almost nine met when i was 22 been livin together almost since we met. Hit it off real nice when we met and in the 3rd year he ran into problems and needed a very strong woman to put up with his situation (dont really wanna put him out the specifically but it is what it is) and i did and helped him through his troubling time through out that period (2yrs) HE told me (with out me nagging) ohh you are my everything we gonna get married blah blah blahhhh. I never pushed the issue because i was just happy being together and in love nothing else mattered so then he came out of the situation and has been for almost 4 years and doing well and I never heard any of the mushy mushy since. But were still together, but what happened to all the "oh you are my world" stuff? Was I taken for a ride? am i still? He does have a lot on his plate (3 kids baby momma issues that makes things harder for us and the kids takes care of the house financially and i do everything else) fair bargain? I dont know if we are ready for marriage and that is fine but why dont he even mention ANYTHING about what he said before or no updates or nothing.???
I know its not all his fault and i not even looking to point the finger, just wondering if i missed something or being taken for a ride because thats not cool.
I want some answers not a specific one but just something to go on...so why dont i just ask???
so i dont look like a stalker cuz im not! im trying to get answers with looking like a nag any suggestion are appreciated.

PS if you are going to bash me for mistakes already made dont waste your time, thanks.

I was thinking of just askin flat out if he is happy with the relationship in general and is there something about me that bothers him. just a start, am i being reasonable?

2007-12-02 07:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by GTASE 1

I'm an older lady 30's, dating a younger guy 20's for the past 6 months....he has been hinting that he has very strong feelings for me, but is scared to tell me how he truly feels, I know that he wants to say that he loves me.... whenever he brings this up, I will change the subject because, I dont feel the same way about him, because he is very unreliable and doesn't keep promises, and secondly I dont believe he actually loves me, because he doesn't show this with his actions.
So if he does tell me he is in love, should I be honest with him ? I dont wanna hurt his feelings, but I can't lie either. what should I do ??

2007-12-02 06:38:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel bad about leaving her in the car. Should I invite her into the bar and buy her a drink?

2007-12-02 06:35:54 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father does not like who i married because he is not my nationality im from Croatia and my husband is Italian. How do i get them to get along with eachother?? any ideas??

2007-12-02 06:16:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just watching football on tv, and was wondering you know how the Quarterback reaches between the centers legs and has his hands up there like right underneath the center's balls. wouldnt the Quarterback accidenally bump the centers balls and hurt him from time to time?

2007-12-02 06:13:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sam 1

him - "if you are not happy,then you should leave" (after me saying im not happy with the way things are) then in another convo, him - "not working it out is called 'running', you rather run then work it out"(after me saying maybe I should move out been on my own because we have some issues. This was stated on 2 dif occasions. I think it is obvious some things need to be discussed and clarified between us.

a little history on us...
been together for 8 years almost nine met when i was 22 been livin together almost since we met. Hit it off real nice when we met and in the 3rd year he ran into problems and needed a very strong woman to put up with his situation (dont really wanna put him out the specifically but it is what it is) and i did and helped him through his troubling time through out that period (2yrs) HE told me (with out me nagging) ohh you are my everything we gonna get married blah blah blahhhh. I never pushed the issue because i was just happy being together and in love nothing else mattered so then he came out of the situation and has been for almost 4 years and doing well and I never heard any of the mushy mushy since. But were still together, but what happened to all the "oh you are my world" stuff? Was I taken for a ride? am i still? He does have a lot on his plate (3 kids baby momma issues that makes things harder for us and the kids takes care of the house financially and i do everything else) fair bargain? I dont know if we are ready for marriage and that is fine but why dont he even mention ANYTHING about what he said before or no updates or nothing.???
I know its not all his fault and i not even looking to point the finger, just wondering if i missed something or being taken for a ride because thats not cool.
I want some answers not a specific one but just something to go on...so why dont i just ask???
so i dont look like a stalker cuz im not! im trying to get answers with looking like a nag any suggestion are appreciated.

PS if you are going to bash me for mistakes already made dont waste your time, thanks.

I was thinking of just askin flat out if he is happy with the relationship in general and is there something about me that bothers him. just a start, am i being reasonable?

2007-12-02 06:10:43 · 5 answers · asked by GTASE 1

everyone is saying so many stuff about everyone and i just want it to end what would be the best way to end it?

2007-12-02 06:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by D 4

My ex and I bought a house close to his Military base,and after 6 weeks of being there,he cheated on me with some girl he met online,then took off. Leaving me with the house and all. I got him to pay for half of the house payment for a year until I get back on my feet. Now when he gets mad,he says well I don't have to pay,or if I date,he thinks he doesn't have to pay. This month he hasn't even paid it yet and it was due on the 1st on NOV! So he is already a month behind. Does he think he is GOD? I mean he is a control freak as it is,but will I be able to do something about it seriously? Someone said go to I.G? Is that right? What rights do I have without spending alot of money I don;t have on lawyers. We already have the court papers.

Thank you

2007-12-02 05:45:45 · 8 answers · asked by Holly 2

Something tasteful, legal, without screaming, beating, cutting tires and similar. And, and not "live good", because it's long, and needed something quick?
What did you do, what was your revenge? Again, please, without breaking/cutting/beating whatever.

2007-12-02 04:42:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Has the uncany nack to control eveything in our lives such as money, sex, emotion, make me feel guilty about everything,it seems as if I give she takes, Ive tried to talk with her about it to no avail!example the last three days Ive tried to get frisky with her and she dont feel good or to tired or what ever but in the next day she feels good eough to go shopping or somethig!Is it to much to want to be hugged or flirted with or just patted on the *** with out halfing to ask for it?

2007-12-02 04:40:12 · 25 answers · asked by DUDE 1

If you are free to do what you want , will you choose to live with your wife or your husband? And if you go backwards in time, will you choose the same wife or the same husband?

2007-12-02 04:13:02 · 15 answers · asked by Aaaa A 1

2007-12-02 04:07:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 03:56:22 · 44 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4

My present husband adopted my children after we got married, I am now in the process of a divorce from him. The girls biological father wants rights to them and wants them to have his last name..Can an adoption be revoked or does he have to adopt them himself..how does this work..The girls want to change their name because the adopted dad isnt in the picture, and never calls them or comes to see them.

2007-12-02 03:52:20 · 9 answers · asked by raelynn_13 1

can you regain someone's trust once they have lost their trust in you? i had a problem with hyperthyroid and it made me have crazy mood swings. bc of this, my gf stopped trusting me. how can i regain her trust? 3 weeks ago we were happy. she wrote on her live journal, last night, "am i ready to move on? probably not. i'm not even sure what i want anyways." does this sound at all hopeful? i love her and i want her back

2007-12-02 03:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by the w 1

My ex-husband lives in another state and has vacation time in addition to the holidays that are coming up.

He wants to spend time with our daughter who is 15 and just moved in with me. He has asked me twice if he can come and see her and I have said its okay.

However, he still does not know that my daughter and I are living in an apartment on our own separate from my parents. He sent our daughter to me thinking she would be in a home with a family structure. My mother had asked me to move out and so my daughter and I did.

Now, I am not sure of his holiday plans and my parents are putting pressure on my daughter and I to take a road trip with them.

My daughter tried to mention to my ex-husband that we will probably be moving into an apartment and he was very angry and upset at the idea. I know its not his decision to make as long as our daughter is in a safe and healthy environment which she is.

I am thinking its best to leave the decision up to him.

2007-12-02 03:30:19 · 20 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

We have been married for a little over 3 years, and have had an ongoing issue about chores around the house. We both work full-time and don't have any kids. I am under the impression that he feels as if he should not have to do chores, unless HE wants to do them. The only thing that he will do when he does is wash the dishes. When I say he washes the dishes, that's what he does. He wipes off the countertops and the stove, but he refuses and I mean refuses to clean and clear all the stuff off the table in the kitchen. Also, he rarely sweeps and never mops the kitchen floor. He usually won't put up all the pantry items either (that were left out). Also, he never throws away leftovers that have been in the refrigerator. If I want it done I have to do it. He will, on occasion, "straighten up" the living room. That involves clearing off the coffee and end tables, straightening the pills up on the couch and maybe vaccuuming but that's it. He never dusts or polishes the furniture.

2007-12-02 03:27:20 · 19 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

We've been broken up for 4 years and have 2 children. In the beginning he was threatening revenge (yes, infedility), now, 4 years later he's drinking excessively and has threatened suicide many times. When i reach out and offer support, help, whatever i can do (because i DO take this very seriously), he tells me to butt out and leave him along. He claims we're all better without him. I'm worried. He's very "driven" and I feel he's going to do it.... He doesn't want to see anyone or talk to anyone... doesn't want help, doesn't think it will help.

2007-12-02 03:09:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies, please help me with honest opinions. My ex girlfriend got married 10 months ago. We were together for 4 years, but we broke up bcs. of distance, and decided to "take time off to see what we really wanted." On the rebound or out of desperation of something, I dont know, she got married a few months after we broke up with an old friend. Since this, she has contacted many times telling me she still loves me, is too confused, didnt think well about getting married, etc. I love her too much, but I havent send her emails, texts, etc, she is the ONE who has always emailed me. This being said, I just found that she blocked me on MSN Messenger. Is this her way of moving on? I know I shouldnt be thinking like this, but I am praying for some miracle for us to be back together. Why did she block me? is it to stop her from feeling bad when she sees my name? did her husband tell her to do it? or has she decided to just accept her marriage and try to give it a shot?

2007-12-02 02:46:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello, as they estan, I have been divorced for a year and was hard for my,lo surpasses now I hope to find a woman.

2007-12-02 02:41:24 · 3 answers · asked by Bob Marley 2

fashion show? A couple of the new members husbands that aren't very big have to do this every year.
I never saw my wife happier than yesterday as she made put on a bra , pantyhose, and heels and try on dresses.
She thinks this is so funny and fun to see me wear womens stuff and try and walk in heels! Why?
Is this nornal for women?

2007-12-02 02:37:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today when I was on the phone with my fiance, he was talking about his mom, and said she was the BIGGEST part of his life. Then he quickly added, oh and your a big part too. It makes me nervous, because I feel since he has asked me to marry him we should both be the BIGGEST parts of his life, I don't think one should take rank over the other. I am planning on moving 2 hours away from my family to be with him, and now i'm having doubts, I don't even rank in a top spot of his life. I just feel so afraid to leave everyone I love behind, to be w/ someone who can't even put me as their priority... I'm just confused.

2007-12-02 02:31:16 · 12 answers · asked by Girly 2

a disagreement he calls her or goes over to there house. We have been separated for the last month and just got back together last week. He packed his stuff up on Friday with out talking to me about it and told me he was going to stay at his moms with his son. Am I wrong for being upset?

2007-12-02 02:29:38 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently separated from my husband of 8 years, we have 2 small children together. I thought we were trying to work on our marriage, I am in another state, and we were going to try to work on this long distance. I have recently found out he has been seeing and sleeping with someone. I also know he has told her he loves her, they have been together about 2 months. She has no kids and likes to party like him. This man is now going to be divorced twice with 3 kids (he has one from another marriage). How can a 23 year old girl possibly understand the pressures of having to deal with 2 ex wives and a middle aged man that is broke. Why would he tell me he still loves me, but still continues to see this girl? I need some advice, especially from a man, as I am really pissed, hurt and I feel betrayed.

2007-12-02 02:29:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous