2007-12-02 03:56:22 · 44 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sex and money or lack of it!!
2007-12-02 03:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
In my opinion, one of the most important things that causes fights is "not communicating". Staying quiet when we should be talking about what is bugging us or talking instead of sitting in front of the boob tube TV....lack of communication is one main reason couples fly off the handle so quickly, they are starved for attention. Then after this comes the money and time spent alone together. All this can be worked out if the couple will sit quietly and calmly and discuss what is the problem each one has with their loved one. Marriage is not 1 person trying to fix the problem. It takes 2 it has always been that way and won't ever change. Also what couple does not get upset once in awhile ? Sometimes we are tired and not in the mood to be social with our husband or wife or anyone else so we need some quiet time in our bedroom or family room reading or going outside sitting in the sun reading a book. just to rest our minds from our routine schedules..so we must tell them we need this time and not to be offended....we have to take care of ourselves along with taking care of our family. This way we will can do our work with a positive feeling and enjoy doing it for them..without a feeling that it's a drag. Being a couple in any relationship takes work by both...so keep the communication open so it does not break down.
Best of luck,
Mama Jazzy Geri
2007-12-02 04:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Jazzy Geri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of issues face couples but the one that is always the cause of the argument is the lack of consideration for the others perspective and the second is unwillingness to compromise.
2007-12-02 09:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, most couple fights boil down to two common factors... money and sex... one way or another... it all boils down to those two things... I just got done fighting with my husband about sex, then about money. The sex after... and during the fight was great though.
2007-12-02 04:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by dj.hatchytt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is more than likely the #1 reason. #2 would probably be . . . not spending enough time together as a couple or not getting enough time to be alone.
2007-12-02 04:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person with no values are being trash at the can like a garbage, this is him and has no contentment, the most important to him is his personal prowess claiming he is best, if the table will get close, then he just chase his shadow and regrets all his past memories. Good luck ..............
2016-04-07 03:36:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first is the difference in how to solve a problem. There are more than one way to fix those things in life that promote difficulty in a relationship. The other is that they have not learned to agree that they disagree on some things.
2007-12-02 04:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money (without a doubt) and I think just the everyday stress of life causes the "little" things in life to morph into big issues! I think that is why it is important to have God in your marriage and to always, always communicate!
2007-12-02 04:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 Money Not sure about #2-maybe how to squeeze the toothpaste.I guess that would be living habits or diffrences in them. Like who cleans -who doesn't
2007-12-02 04:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by catfur4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All good answers but I think the two top are
No boundaries set
Lack of respect
2007-12-02 04:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by cspb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The two most common are sex and bills.
2007-12-02 13:16:58 · answer #11 · answered by Julie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋