Ladies, please help me with honest opinions. My ex girlfriend got married 10 months ago. We were together for 4 years, but we broke up bcs. of distance, and decided to "take time off to see what we really wanted." On the rebound or out of desperation of something, I dont know, she got married a few months after we broke up with an old friend. Since this, she has contacted many times telling me she still loves me, is too confused, didnt think well about getting married, etc. I love her too much, but I havent send her emails, texts, etc, she is the ONE who has always emailed me. This being said, I just found that she blocked me on MSN Messenger. Is this her way of moving on? I know I shouldnt be thinking like this, but I am praying for some miracle for us to be back together. Why did she block me? is it to stop her from feeling bad when she sees my name? did her husband tell her to do it? or has she decided to just accept her marriage and try to give it a shot?
2007-12-02 02:46:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, if you never answered her messages, she probably thinks that you've moved on. And so is she.
2007-12-02 02:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all no relationship should have to take a break. I have never understood that. Now lets think about this for a second whether it was rebound or not she married someone else. I am sure in planning for this day she did not think of you. And if for some small miracle as you say you would get back together how do you now she wouldn't be telling her ex-husband the same thing she is telling you know. Everything happens for a reason, and life is a learning experience. Learn from this and move on..
2007-12-02 10:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by boucho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she blocked you on MSN because you didnt send her any emails back maybe she thinks that you are avoiding her probaly. And you are right about thinkin of a miracle that might make you guys together, you shouldnt think like that. I think you should move on if she has decided to get married, dont you think that she has moved on alot in life. And if you guys really love each other meaning that you guys are soul mates that are in true love then you guys will be together but if you find someone else that you are attracted to you then i think that means that ur ex wasnt the one..I think you should have patience..dont worry everything will get better trust me
2007-12-02 10:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by preeti72892 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is,she's married now and though admittedly, you still care deeply about her,its just totally inappropriate to go after her. it would definitely be a wise move to just let her go. morally, it's wrong and besides, if she TRULY HAS GENUINE feelings towards you, no matter how lonely life gets, she won't go and marry someone in a heartbeat! that's just pathetic! she may flirt around, date a lot, have sex maybe but not get married! it's a lifetime commitment,you know!
she may have realized that now that's why she blocked you. she made her decision so i suggest that you should too. marriage still is a sacred thing and praying for your getting back together is just unhealthy for you. try to take baby steps in moving on.. stay strong and know that somebody out there is bound to find you too...someone truly deserving of your trust and love.
goodluck and cheer up =)
2007-12-02 11:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but move on. She is now a married woman, and unavailable. Mistake or not on her part she needs to deal with her actions especially since it involves more then just herself. You do not need to be in the middle of her drama. She blocked you? I would say she has done that so that when she is at home your messages don't pop up at an inconvenient time.
2007-12-02 10:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Katie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on....obviously she jumped into marriage on the rebound and was feeling low and decided to contact you. She is very confused it seems. Maybe blocking you is her way of not getting messages from you so there is no communication (out of sight out of mind).
2007-12-02 11:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably blocked you so that you don't just respond some day while her husband is looking over her shoulder.
The reason, though, doesn't really matter. It's time for you to move on. She might be using you as a safety valve, which won't be good for her marriage. You owe it to her and to yourself to move along...
2007-12-02 11:06:37 · answer #7 · answered by pecosee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she jumped the gun and made a mistake by marrying thats HER problem...for now, she is STILL married. If she blocked you...go with that and leave it and her alone. She made her choices..if she shouldnt have gotten married, she should get out of it. Move on
2007-12-02 11:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was hurt that you were not responding to her messages. It is probably for the best. You should not get involved with married people even if you are in love. You will always end up hurt.
2007-12-02 11:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Charlee's Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably blocked you because your not answering or is trying to put you behind her. Even though she says she still loves you, by not answering her your telling her that either you have moved on or you don't care about her. Try talking to her in person.I hope this helps.
2007-12-02 10:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by op 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, move on...theres more fish in the sea...If she got married then that means she has moved on i suggest you do the same as well or, you can let it interfere with your life your choice...
2007-12-02 10:53:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋