Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2007

2007-11-28 23:59:06 · 13 answers · asked by Mark D 1

my husband &I met a two years ago. we got married after a year.he was good guy , was good at givng attention.just after we got married ,he accidenatly sent me a txt mgs that was meant to got to one of his female firends&it said how he was proud of her &that she was one of the most beautiful woman he has ever seen , she had just won a modeling context.I talked to him about it &he said he would make sure he did not overstep this friendship.well, this just sent red signals to me &I started cheking his phone.I realised that he was a bit infatuated by this friend &I thought well, it just will blow over but let me watch him. well ,it got worse and I kept on checking .he knew I was checking &he kept on going , even began to meet other women online thru hi5 etc.well ,I was hurt but did not ask him coz I hoped it was a faze that wld pass.it hurt our relationship.during this time , he lost his job, I did fret but as a wife I felt it was my role to have his back.I made a bit more than him so I

2007-11-28 23:55:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was in car with another man who decided to have sex with her against her will!

2007-11-28 23:55:14 · 39 answers · asked by other boy 2

I met this female after awhile she quit her job due to her mom and dad getting sick..I bought a cabin and I am trying to give her the world. It seems that every other night her neice wants to come over and drink..Her neice stole everything out of her house.I mean everything including her hot water tank..You name it it was taken.The reason is cause her ex owed people some money..It seems that the only thing she wants to do is loose her temper and break things cause I Do not want her niece waking us up every other night wanting to party..What should I do?? Should I drop her?? Or how would I get her help since we are not married..What should I do??

2007-11-28 23:44:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i have been living together for over 7 years now. a couple of weeks ago he told me i could do better than him. does anyone have any idea what he meant by that statement.

2007-11-28 23:31:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

women say that men will be men, when it comes to men looking at other women while they have girlfrends/wives... My question to you is:
Wouldn't you rather your man be wholly Captivated by you, and have no need to look at another woman? To know that you captivate him to the point where you are worth pursuing even after being married 30 years? that His desire is to you? Let's ask ourselves this: What is the real reason behind us men looking at other women?

2007-11-28 23:02:26 · 17 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

2007-11-28 22:57:21 · 15 answers · asked by dum 1

2007-11-28 22:51:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 22:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by someone 1

Can some one give me an (Serious) advice on forgetting a cheating incidents and forgiving a close one who has cheated. I am trying to forget but some how I am not able to take things off from mind. I think unless I forget I may not forgive.
Thanks in advance

2007-11-28 22:00:22 · 20 answers · asked by ssd 3

Suppose a wife is married 2nd time and has seperated and is considering divorcing the new husband, is she entitled to maintenance? She had collected lumpsum after first divorce through court. 2 nd marriage has broken due to husband's cruelty.

2007-11-28 21:55:18 · 8 answers · asked by gerald d 1

my husband take a shower twice to 3 times a week esp its cold. And its really bothering me, the muskie smell down there u know...but i dont know how to tell him with out hurting his feelings.

2007-11-28 21:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have a total of 9 kids, 7 of them at home, ranging from 21 to 3 years old. My husband is retired, but still works a new full time job. I handle the finances,we are financially secure. The problem is that my husband is a sports official on his side time. Basketball season begins during the holidays, in which he is gone at least 2 to 3 nights of the week, often staying out late. This is very stressful for me. I am exhausted from taking care of all the kids and the house. I have asked him to please stop refereeing basketball. he says this is his favorite sport and refuses to give it up, in spite of my tears and pleads. He says the more I tell him not to do it the more he is willing to fight me. I am so upset, I don't feel anything but tired. I am sure he is not cheating, the money he makes out of refeering 3 sports he brings to me. I doubt his love since he is willing to give up our marriage for his own cause. Please help me.

2007-11-28 21:04:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance exwife had an emergency court hearing for tempoary full custody and child support payments. when the before agreement was joint custody and each parent was responsible for child support. When we went to court she recieved temp full custody and he was ordered to pay child support tempoarialy. As well as ordered to pay some other fees. When does he have to start paying and will he recieve papers in the mall stating the court order as well as how to make payments. Does he make them straight t o her or what? None of these questions got answered in court.

2007-11-28 20:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by kerind336 1

He owed a lot of debts under my name either officially (bank credit card, phone bill, car loan . son's school fee..)or unofficially ( I have borrowed a lot of money from my relatives and friends for him) If he leaves without saying I will be doomed with those debts.
We have a hdb flat. but all the money was come out from me. He didn't pay a single cent while we bought it. His only contribution is the deduction from cpf for the loan after we bought it. Must we sell out the flat if we are divorcing? If yes how would the money be divided after we have sold out the flat? If not can i not letting him to stay ? How about the debts? Is there a way to make him responsible for all his debts which are under my name by force or law? I dare not to go for the divorcy because I am afraid after signing the paper all the debts will be under me and I am unable to clear all his debts and it is really not fair that I have to bear all these.
I am really vex and broke and lost now.Can anyone help?

2007-11-28 20:32:46 · 6 answers · asked by gt 1

2007-11-28 20:22:14 · 15 answers · asked by ? 4

ok i am married and when my husband comes home from work all he does is want to watch T.V. and when he is at work he calls once(i believe because i noticed that his calls got less and less ..he was callin about 4 times a day).I feel like something isn"t right..however when i discuss my feeling with him he says no,no everything is ok ...but i just have an unsettleing feeling I cant shake ...please HELP!!!!whats going on here has anyone had this happen?

2007-11-28 19:47:35 · 3 answers · asked by Jenny 3

my wife bite me all over my body with her teeth and i have scars everywhere. The issue was that she was roaming around to market with my child having fever of 103 deg F. i objected and she bite me everywhere saying me that i m a child of my mom. she has been abusing and hitting me for years togethor in front of the child and i absorbed it due to her blackmail of suicide and taking the child away. but now i m tired. i m scared that i will get rabies. i consulted a doctor but my doubt is not going away

i didn't lodge a complaint with police till date. as she told me , if i did that she will tell police that i m emotionally , physically and financially abusing her as per instructions of my old parents. what can i do legally , so that i get the child as she is not willing to leave the child

2007-11-28 19:40:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 19:37:43 · 11 answers · asked by papasays 4

What do cheaters feel? Do most cheaters eventually regret or feel remorse? What are the statistics for an adulterous relationship actually working?

2007-11-28 19:22:13 · 24 answers · asked by BlaBla 2

2007-11-28 18:56:46 · 19 answers · asked by rynldsdrn 2

Ive been praying for years to find a wife, and today i think i just met her. I also asked allot of people to pray for me and a woman told me something really strange, she said that my wife is coming into my life very soon from now...that the wait was over and i need to begin to prepare for her.

I was sitting studying in the room on campus, and normally only one person uses the room, and she walks in an sits to the table to the right of me, we talk for 2 hours, then walk back to the dorm, and it turns out she lives right next door across the hall like 5 feet away...

I know it sounds off to say someone is my wife, but we really hit off,...

Look I have this strange feeling, and its weird...I mean we had this weird chemistry, like we clicked saw eye to eye...I'm confident she likes me, I know this might sound weird, but i think she is it...Please pray for me and that i don't have to wait and that she is my wife... i got this gut feeling like thats it.. Please pray only takes a second.

2007-11-28 18:52:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I come from a strong, strict, catholic (and western) background. I grew up in an area where unfortunately racism is still a major problem. My mother has always actively fought against racism and has instilled in me the same tolerance. 2 Years ago I left home for university in canada, a country MUCH more culturely diverse than home. I met and fell deeply in love with a palestian man. I love everything about him, his culture, his family, I've even learned to speak quiet a bit of arabic! I've been accepted by his family which is a HUGE deal bc they are very traditional in that they dont beleive in dating (his older sister had an arranged marriage). The problem: my mom, the same woman who taught me my whole life not to judge refers to him as a terrorist...she has never met him (bc she lives in a different country) She has never said it in a hateful tone, always jokingly, but i know she would NEVER accept any racial slurrs to be uttered in her house, even jokingly.

2007-11-28 18:47:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I own a house together in California and we would like to get a divorce soon, however, we both don't want to sell the house since market price is not to neither of our benefit. What's the California divorce law about community property is not sold in process of divorce??

2007-11-28 18:45:29 · 3 answers · asked by Mochi 3

Please help. I married with my boy friend one year ago . We were friends. i knew that he started to go out with a friend when we were friends . i asked him to cut our friend ship but he said that i love you and i can't . the girl called me severl times and said that they are just firend and there is no relation ship between them. after passing 6 months we married and theycut their friendship . but now i found that my husband is looking to find her web site on 360 or other sites. he has their e-mail and tel. no but never called or e-mailed them he just want to see their web site . i suffer when i see that he is doing this and think that he didn't love me that always is searching his previous girlfriends. I'm totaly deppress and don't know what to do. is it better to say him what i feel or no ?. please help me .

2007-11-28 18:42:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know what to do but am planning to sick for devoice because am tired of the situation is going to two yrs now,i take care or my self and my child

2007-11-28 18:39:14 · 4 answers · asked by monica richie 1

Don't they realize that if he cheats on his wife he WILL cheat on her?

2007-11-28 18:38:10 · 16 answers · asked by Miss Muffet 1

should he pay child support? is there a law that protects men? please respond!

2007-11-28 18:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 18:22:11 · 18 answers · asked by BAREBEAR 2

she cheats on me every chance she gets. we have a child but are seperated but i still love her. her and our son are comeing to visit me for christmas... were getting a divorce. would it be worng to try and have sex with her just for the sex?

2007-11-28 18:14:13 · 28 answers · asked by cirus06 1