Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2007

i worked a mc donalds and i had bad experieces there, my sister is working there but im jobless, i really dont want to go back but my aunt is pressuring me, what should i do

2007-11-28 14:30:24 · 8 answers · asked by TaAla J 1

My husband is a very depressed, angry person who refuses counseling and has rages 3 or 4 times a week where he throws things, kicks things, curses and screams about how he hates his life. Most of his problems he says comes from working and then coming home to a messy house. This just isn't fair that he says that, because he will literally throw things all over the house, or trash the kitchen and just leave it. I try as hard as I can to get it cleaned up but I just can't. I have a 2 year old son in all of this, and I am almost 7 months pregnant again (it was an unplanned pregnancy). Anyway, I want to separate until he gets some form of counseling but I'm afraid of what he may do. He has told me that I "won't get 10 steps out the door with his son" and has cancelled my debit and credit cards once when he thought I had left. I live 15 hours from family and friends, but I can drive it if I need to. All of our accounts are under both our names, even my cell account, and he's not above....

2007-11-28 14:26:44 · 15 answers · asked by Michelle R 1

My soon to be ex and i agreed that we just cant live together anymore. Its a 'nice' divorce, no hatred or bitterness, in fact, we still love each other, we just dont work well together anymore. But we cant seem to let each other go. we still say 'i love you' at the end of our phone conversations, we are still intimate when we see each other, we still talk about the whole soul mate thing and if we're meant to be together, we will find our way back to each other. This is so strange to me. Do people do this when they divorce? And pls dont say we might as well stay married, THAT IS NOT AN OPTION, too much damage in the marriage and a long history of it. I just want to let him go alltogether. I feel like if we stay like this, i'll never move on with anyone else, i'll always feel obligated to him. how do i let go and convince him to let go as well?

2007-11-28 14:07:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work with all men and one other lady, and I know I asked about what not to wear to work, but the truth is that I'm 26 and single and want sexual attention. Is that hormones or singleness lol?

2007-11-28 14:06:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-11-28 14:04:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 6'6" and about 290lbs, so obviously I am a big guy. My wife is always complaining about how big I am. My clothes are hard to find and a bit more expensive than more average sizes, we have to replace our mattress every 3 years or so cause where I sleep gets "too flattened" for her taste. Thru it all she always makes comments like "if only you weren't so damn big" or " Why do you have to be so damn huge" Keep in mind I was 330 lbs when we got married so I have lost weight since we married and since we met 18 years ago I have always been big. I feel like I am doing pretty good considering my family. My dad is over 400 and My mom is close to that. I have two brothers that are easily 500 (all about the same height, except mom, she is 5'11.) Is there anything I can do or say?

2007-11-28 14:03:02 · 11 answers · asked by skye5150 1

last week he found out i chatted with a guy friend, he was angry because i did not tell him that i chatted for 1 month n not telling him. we've been together for 5 years.. i once went for a drink with a guy fren n did not tell him untill he found out. he just cant accept me again for hiding things from him. we already discussed this n he said he cant accept for being a liar. he said he does not love me again just because of this. i am so sorry n he knows i love him n not cheating on him but the fact of me lying to him is the matter that he said he cant accept it. please tell me how do i win him back. please...
1 hour ago - 3 days left to answer.

2007-11-28 13:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by honeygirl h 1

i am 43.. bf 31... 12 yr diff.. he says he is not the marring kind.. i love him and would marry him tommorow.. bad habits and all.. drinking until to drunk to walk..etc..would you wait it out.. also you drink . but not the same as he does

2007-11-28 13:54:35 · 18 answers · asked by vis 7

2007-11-28 13:54:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently had a boob job after my husband & I divorced. I had always wanted it, so I went for it...also I thought maybe it would boost my confidence after my Ex had destroyed it. Do you think this will hurt future relationships? Do people think badly of women with fake boobs? Just want honest opinions, no rude remarks.

2007-11-28 13:45:40 · 44 answers · asked by Erin 2

My husband has been gone for 8 hours and i havent heard from him any advise!!! any tips on staing calm!!!

2007-11-28 13:39:23 · 25 answers · asked by ttc #1 4 years 3

My boyfriends exwife just told me this today.
They were married ten years yesturday.
She filed for divorce today.
They have been legally seperated 6 years.

2007-11-28 13:35:28 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa G 2

i love my bf..would marry today..but he says he is not the marrying kind.. says he loves me with all his heart..wants to spend the rest of his life with me.. i am 42 ydr older than his is,,would you wait for him??

2007-11-28 13:34:43 · 36 answers · asked by vis 7

Ok, someone I work with (he's married) used to act nervous around me like he liked me. We were dancing around with each other for two months (by that I mean liking each other from afar, not really doing anything else). It was one of the things where you just knew that he had feelings for you and vice versa.

Now recently, all of a sudden, he gives me the cold shoulder. When I enter a room, he exits out right away before I even know it. He has his back turned to me when he knows I will walk by. He used to be so loud and outgoing at work, but recently he just goes to his office and never says a word anymore. I feel like he's almost avoiding me.

I think that he had feelings for me at one time, but now could it just be that he decided it was wrong? I'm taking it so personally and I can't help it because even though I just want to be his coworker again, I feel like he feels uncomfortable around me now because we liked each other. It's almost like he hates my guts or something.

2007-11-28 13:27:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok this is a serious question no wise cracks please. Heres the story, my husband has always told me he doesn't masterbate, which I am not an idiot I know all men do, but then I caught him 7 years into our relationship and let him know he didn't have to lie to me, I am open minded and he swears he only did one other time when I was pregnant. I feel kind of betrayed by him for his lying to me. What do you think? I just can't help the betrayed feeling for the lie.

2007-11-28 13:27:21 · 10 answers · asked by married with kids 3

Hey **** how's it going these days, i have dropped into **** Shops but it has been at night so the chemist is already closed, tell you what though it was really good seeing you,
that time you where on your way out for a smoke break, just letting you know, cause I like yah, you sexy thing. Miss Italian o beauty, Ah well got to say even as lame as it may sound, that hug I got from you that day made the whole day brighter for me....Ahh yes do you still work at **** at the Chemist by the way??....Dang man it's been quite a while since I been there during the day ................because this new job I have, the Boss ( manager ) uses my charm..hahaha...to help get new contracts ..................................what you reckon sweetheart?. .........................................And if this is the last email I send you before Christmas or New Years, Merry Christmas and happy New Year, hope all goes well for you angel.

2007-11-28 13:20:26 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a very difficult conundrum. My wife no longer has feelings for me, and is not interested in my needs, either physically or emotionally. We have no children, so in most circumstances, I would think that this is a slam dunk divorce case. However, several years ago, she was diagnosed with brain cancer. She was expected to die, but is doing very well, and has, in all likelihood, beaten it. She did have to have brain surgery, and the specific area of her brain that was impacted was her frontal lobe, which is associated with emotions. So at this point, she is essentially emotionally stunted, which is quite possibly the main reason for her lack of interest in me. She does depend on me financially, as her disease has also cost her her ability to work. I doubt she could have any kind of adult relationship with anyone else because I don't think she's capable. So her life without me would be miserable. But being with her under these circumstances is making me miserable. Thoughts?

2007-11-28 13:08:17 · 33 answers · asked by plungeroo 1

Be specific and detailed pls......

2007-11-28 13:07:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

somthin about some girl leavin yu

2007-11-28 13:04:10 · 15 answers · asked by rockstah 1

do you think its to much to allow my 13 year old son to have provacative posters of christina aguilera on his wall?should i worry hes doing more than looking at them?

2007-11-28 13:02:54 · 14 answers · asked by megmeg4697 1

2007-11-28 13:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made the biggest mistake of my life....I want to be 100% there for my husband. The person I had an affair with says he loves me and wants me to leave my husband and be with him. I have told him I don't want to end my marriage. The "other" man gets angry and says he will not get over our relationship. When he drinks he threatens to kill himself and says he will ruin my marriage. I have tried everything to end this mess. I know I am a dirty b*&^h. Please offer real advise. The scarlet letter is not enough to carry. I know I should be spit on and rocks thrown at my head.......

2007-11-28 12:55:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 12:53:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are only seperated right now. I plan on divorcing him but I just don't have the money at this point in my life. I left him because he has a drinking problem and I couldn't let my daughters live that life anymore. I wanted him to get better so I left because he said he could not do it with me in the house. I wanted our marriage to work but I guess he didn't because he is with another girl and they are having a baby in a couple of months. My question is does he have to give me any money since there is nothing from the courts making him?He was giving me $100 weekly but I guess he didn't want to work anymore so he stopped paying me for our 2 girls. He even wrote me a letter saying he was giving me money because I was trying to get help with food stamps etc. I am just shocked that he wont help me and finacially I am hurting. He doesn't work and his girlfriend has free housing so he is just living the life right now. What can I do to get the money I need for my daughters?They are 10 and 3

2007-11-28 12:39:04 · 18 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1

what is the oldest you would date someone ? marry them?.. even if they look 10 yrs younger than they were?

2007-11-28 12:30:04 · 31 answers · asked by vis 7

I don´t know what think the psychologists, the moralists or the church about this question. But I think they can`t find the answer.

2007-11-28 12:29:18 · 28 answers · asked by tonydeleons 1

my step grandad married my grandma for her house.. even though when she died before him and he died a yr later he gave it to me and her
my ex husband married me for the same house.. even though my grandparents were alive for 7 or more yrs after we married
why does she believe that a man would marry someone for what they have..she has told me that she researched what a military wife get when her husband dies.. and she married my father he was in the navy for 20 yrs.. died 5 yrs after.. now she is doing good.. she keep telling me to marry into the miltary..my bf is not in that..to me she seem so sad.. she is going to die alone with out love..what do you think of it?

2007-11-28 12:22:44 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7

Dredging up the past and throw it in your face. Even after one has changed.

2007-11-28 12:21:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What makes a wife a great wife?
What does it entail? Besides the obvious of loving the husband.

2007-11-28 12:19:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 12:18:36 · 65 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2