my step grandad married my grandma for her house.. even though when she died before him and he died a yr later he gave it to me and her
my ex husband married me for the same house.. even though my grandparents were alive for 7 or more yrs after we married
why does she believe that a man would marry someone for what they have..she has told me that she researched what a military wife get when her husband dies.. and she married my father he was in the navy for 20 yrs.. died 5 yrs after.. now she is doing good.. she keep telling me to marry into the miltary..my bf is not in that..to me she seem so sad.. she is going to die alone with out love..what do you think of it?
2007-11-28 12:22:44 · 14 answers · asked by vis 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't blieve the way she does.and even though he dont make as much as i do.. child support take most of it.. i am not going anywhere.. just wondering what you make of her comments
2007-11-28 12:40:45 · update #1
live for love not money money can'tbuy happiness. your moms mixed up and probably never expirienced real love if she is still alive try to get her out to meet people she should know what love is she would not say these things if she every had love in her life.stay with the one you love you can have it all that way. love is the only thing anyone will ever need besides food clothingand shelter. love beets all else hands down.
2007-11-28 13:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry for love and happiness. Money is nice to have but inevitably you will be miserable of you marry for money. Money can always disappear...So can love, but only if it is allowed to die. I married for LOVE. Now my husband and I are building a stable and comfortable home for our kids. If you marry for the right reasons then the material things will come later if you work hard and work together.
2007-11-28 20:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you marry for the wrong reasons I dont think you can ever be happy. If she is sad she is probably lonely. Maybe try and fix her up on a date?
2007-11-28 20:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think everything you are writing about is sad. You and your family have odd ideas regarding the criteria one uses to select a life mate !!
2007-11-28 20:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by thirsty mind 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe she married for the wrong reasons!
2007-11-28 20:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to marry someone to settle your own life. girl u are adult take charge of your life.u buy your own house and earn your own money and settle your own life. why depend on husbands income or benefits?
2007-11-28 20:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by min 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marry for love. it will get you through a lot. of course, you can grow to love someone too.
2007-11-28 20:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people marry for money they earn every penny.
2007-11-29 00:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Stanley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Santa will put your whole family in the naughty list.
2007-11-28 20:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG the whole world is going to hell. Cheap, nasty, lack of love and morals. ew.
2007-11-28 21:03:13 · answer #10 · answered by Renesme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋