2007-11-28 13:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let your baby spend the night at Grandma's and re-light that fire! you will be happy, your husband will be happy and Grandma will be happy.....it's a win win win deal!
2007-11-28 13:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All marriages lose their spark from time to time. It's normal. Life happens, and in your case it was a baby. You are probably both exhausted and a little overwhelmed by all your new responsibilities. You don't say how old your baby is, but if you have a grandma nearby who can watch her for even a little bit, the two of you can at least go out to dinner, and when she's napping at night, you can spend a little time together. You'll adjust to your new life and your marriage will get back on track. Don't panic.
2007-11-28 21:14:42 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard. you don't want him or he doesn't want you which is it if it is you your probably not in love and just wanted kids if your friends you can still work things out. if he doesn't want you then maybe he justdoesn't want anymore kids. Or maybe you just have too much going on for sex too drive you. slow down get a babysitter out of the home sit down have a nice mael and watch a movie together pick the baby up in the morning not too early and see if things are better that night you may just need the alone time that you hd before to spark things again
2007-11-28 21:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by inloveinTN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, Plan a special night with your man, let him in on the planning so he can be anticipating to, call the sitter, grab the candles, the romantic CD, grab 2 steaks and baked potatoes, (Quick, Easy little effort) And just reconnect, picnic in the living room floor, desert in bed, have fun again, and protect your self if you are a fertile girl right after having a baby and 2 toddlers in the house is a real mood killer!
Have fun!
2007-11-28 22:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by NADDYBOO1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby's take a lot of time... You are gonna have to convert from super mom to super wife... not sure how old the baby is... but try putting the baby down early and spending time with hubby... or Ask mom-mom to watch the baby and go on a date with your husband... just like you use to do when you met... go to dinner and a movie or.grab some take out, rent a movie, cuddle on the couch and watch the movie... Do something that is all about you and him... We all need separation time...
2007-11-28 21:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it lost it spark because of the child
you will find that in your priorities, the child is number 1
and it shouldn't be
your husband should be number 1
where is his incentive to work long hard hours
if all he comes home to is a women totally devoted to the child
many women make this mistake
and many men are stunned to see themselves in second place to the child
and thus somewhat resent having children
keep in mind when you first hooked up
all of your attention went to him
and no one else
now that you have had you child, that has reversed
and the spark that you had, goes with it
2007-11-28 21:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to EVERYBODY. If it did not happen, you'd be the exeption. You and your spouse have learned to be a couple. Now, you must learn to be parents. Then, learn how to be husband and wife with a child. The things that you took for granted, time, energy and patience are all compromised. You must make a conscious effort to regain the clicking. Make Sunday afternoon your time. Leave junior with someone and get out of the house as a couple. You can evolve your couplehood.
2007-11-28 21:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by beckoningsubstitutes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very normal. The simplest thing you can do is to put the baby with someone you trust and spend a weekend away with your husband, just the two of you.
2007-11-28 21:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More details needed----how old is the baby? Was the marriage fantastical before the little one came? A baby can enhance a great marriage, and destory a shakey one. Please give more details, although I will tell you that it takes time to adjust to being parents.
2007-11-28 21:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Invite a girl into your bed? hehe
2007-11-28 21:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋