Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2007

whats changed? still got my hair, not fat, just the same but older, all my teeth, good job, good mates, only 39. why do the older women hold back?

2007-11-28 12:16:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 12:15:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man says he's bored with his home life (family and kids) bored with his work and his lover...is there anything anybody can do about it?

2007-11-28 12:13:22 · 11 answers · asked by Danu 6

A woman I work with is in a really bad scrap with her stepchildren right now. She lost her husband not even two weeks ago to a car accident, and they're showing up on her doorstep telling her to get out of their father's house! How WRONG is that?

2007-11-28 12:11:33 · 8 answers · asked by Marina 7

I hate dressing up - how on Earth am I supposed to land a good job if I don't dress the part? I'm too curvy and my breasts are too big to wear suits plus I'm short - I hate work - I just hate it. I was made to make babies.

2007-11-28 12:07:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my wife of 3 years cheated on me a couple months ago with some 21 year old she met on a video game.

When she left she said used everything under the sun to justify her affair, and straight up tore me to shreds. She refused to do anything, or even work on the marriage... shejust ran 1/2 way across country to live with a kid she only knew for a couple weeks over the phone/internet.

They living together 2 mos now. She tells everyone she is so happy, happier than ever bla bla bla. New life, new boyfriend, new friends. I haven't had contact since she left, she refuses contact, she doesnt want any.

Now what I find intersting is I have a profile tracker on my myspace, shows me my visitors. Why the hell does she check out my pictures and blogs everytime she signs online? If she wants nothing to do with me and is happier than ever with this guy & wants to divorce me and never talk to me again why would she have such an interest in reading my myspace journals and such?

2007-11-28 12:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by BlaBla 2

not sure what to do, lawyer not much help for what he's costing me.

2007-11-28 11:59:29 · 9 answers · asked by darrellwefel 1

It seems that I lie to my wife about anything. As long as I can give her the answer she is looking for, and it keeps me out of trouble, I lie. Example: I'm dieting and something so simple as the food I was supposed to make for my supper (at work), I lied about. I said I made Tuna, but she knows how many cans there are. I should have known that, but I lied. I didn't bring supper. I was too busy watching something online to make it. But I lied to her about it. She found out, she is pissed. This has been going on for years. It started when I told her I didn't smoke, and then she found out. Then I kept lying to her about everything. Even things that aren't a big deal and wouldn't get me in much trouble, I lied about. Small little insignificant things. It seems to be that a lie will come out of my mouth so fast I don't have time to think about it. No time to think about whether or not I should lie. It's like a natural reaction. Why am I doing this? Why am I hurting her?

2007-11-28 11:57:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm wondering, if a married couple gets divorced, and they have kids that are in their teenage years, who gets custody over them? can the children decide who to live with themselves? because i heard somewhere that once a kid of a divorced family turns 13, they can choose which parent to live with, is that true?

2007-11-28 11:57:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my husband 6 months ago, he has 2 children over 21 years old, I have no children , is it true they are entitled to my assets?

2007-11-28 11:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Wannabe 2

I pay my fair half of the bills and I pay the full cost of my hobbies.
I cook and clean my fair share. I do my fair share of laundry and house hold chores.
Why should I share my paycheck?
What I earn is what I worked for not my wife.
So why isn't my paycheck mine?

2007-11-28 11:54:17 · 21 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

my friend feels he needs to work 2 jobs to make ends meet he needs serious treatment and has been without meds for awhile he says he never comunicates with his wife or anything else (not his choice) best not to argue. does she really want him?

2007-11-28 11:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am engaged to a man i love with all of my heart we have been together for two years and just had a beautiful baby girl 3 weeks ago..we do not live together right now i stay with my parents he stays with his..although we r moving out in dec together..well lately he has become very rude and says mean things i know he isnt cheating and i know he is in love with me were best friends..but he has the upper hand right now and i want to have it like i use to i know childish..and he knows i wont leave him so he knows he can get away with being an asshole..and he acts like he dosnt care what i do because he knows it hurts me but then he is also so nice to me most of the time and we get along great..how can i get back with the upper hand and make him feel like my world dosnt revolve around him and i can stand on my own..please dont tell me to break up with him we been through alot and we really love each other we just going through a hard time..were both 19

2007-11-28 11:43:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like anything my wife and I do it ends up in a fight. Recently I was putting up Christmas lights and ended up realizing the ladder I bought this past summer with my money was not tall enough to reach the roof in one spot. Wife basically tells me to climb on the roof(after I told her I didn't feel comfortable) or why we bought a ladder that didn't reach the top. It seems like everything I do is questioned and I am not trusted by her. To top it off we never have sex and when we do it is the same and boring.

I should preface I have self esteem issues. I feel like I never get any attention from her but when i do she is sarcastic and makes fun of me by calling me an idiot, etc. She gets mad at me because she says I never talk to her, which is true because when I do I get made fun of.

I know I could probably use some help talking over my issues with a proffesional but when i have asked her to go with me she refuses. I don't want to divorce but we have lost our spark

2007-11-28 11:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 11:40:52 · 8 answers · asked by Lisa 2

that they have a right to ALL the husbands money?

2007-11-28 11:40:26 · 22 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

if you found out your spouse had a separate savings account?

2007-11-28 11:39:05 · 16 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

Say this is in Riverside county. You are doing your own divorce, and you just served the papers on your EX. As long as they don't file a response, how long until the divorce is final??

2007-11-28 11:38:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf sister thinks her husband of 2 yr is fooling around.. because he don't tell her she is pretty everyday..and how sexy she is.. so she is thinking of hiring a private eye.. to keep taps on him.. she did this to her last bf..paid a girl to come on to him to see if he would stray.. I say go looking for trouble you will find it.

2007-11-28 11:36:33 · 6 answers · asked by vis 7

He's been out the back all night banging and hammering away at it to try and fix the damn thing. I've missed all my tv programs tonight and not very happy about the whole thing. Last week it was the mantelpiece clock and the week before that it was the hoover. I'm at my wits end, and all i want to do is gain custody of the procurator fiscal's carburettor as it makes a hell of a noise first thing in the morning. I have no power. I'm at Elsie's sending this message as she doesn't have a lazy useless good-for-nothing layabout for a husband who breaks her Electricity Generator. What should i batter him with when i get back home? Thanks

2007-11-28 11:34:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

something that he will think is special too and that is also cheap

2007-11-28 11:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by cangirl 3

2007-11-28 11:27:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

is this shameful on the part of a man?how this will affect you if you were in this kind of situation?

2007-11-28 11:23:27 · 13 answers · asked by Lhizz 1

I am married to a Mexican

2007-11-28 11:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Lisita 2

So I have been happily married for a little over 3 yrs now. Recently have noticed my wife being very short, if not curt with me. She is often very negative and very critical of what I say and do. If I ask her to not be so harsh, she tells me I'm too soft (wimp). I ENJOY BEING NICE TO PEOPLE. At work I am confident, direct, and assertive. I try not to be this way at home as I do not want to dominate my wife, rather I want her to get what she wants and be happy. So she tells me I am not dominant enough and she doesn't find me as attractive because of that. She says you need to stand up for what you believe". So I start to be more assertive with her and it only leads to fights. She can be totally wrong, but will never admit it. Some folks have told me just always agree with her. Don't disagree, don't make waves. I understand why, but then I feel fake and feel like I am being passive. What to do? BTW- I’m 30, she’s 27.

2007-11-28 11:10:14 · 16 answers · asked by Hikerjoe 3

I shall be 60 next year and since my 59th birthday a few weeks ago I have been thinking about it. I am frightened of the thought as I am not sure what people do all day as I have always worked.

2007-11-28 11:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by classyone 5

Whats the procedure of getting a restraining order? Can anyone get a restraining order against her husband?

2007-11-28 11:05:59 · 9 answers · asked by Steve 1

ok it all started about month or so ago and well it is strange my boyfriend came home from a cop car and tells me that the taxi cab driver got arrested....and stupid me belived him and i was talking to a lady friend i have on line and guess what the real story was? he was at a place of party and his friends left him and he got a ride from a lady friend at the party which is a friend of my friend..anyways she tells me that the girl told her he tried to sleep with her...and she says she didn't but, I find that hard to believe because her boyfriend is in wheel chair and he has been trying to get rid of her so he is always making her end up taking men home hoping she will leave him cause he don't really want the lady, now when i confronted him (my b/f) he thinks his guy friend told me but does not try to say it is a lie only that who told on him, funny i know. now I have desided x-mas is so soon i am waiting to kick his little butt out until I take his last penny. then he can go so do you

2007-11-28 11:05:21 · 9 answers · asked by daisy 4

i'll try to keep this simple. my husband is in new jersey. His wife is in Arizona and we both in Georgia, work for the same company. Complicated part, this man is my baby father, my ex from three years ago. We all move around a lot because of our career,( military) Now i done lied to my husband before and he forgave and then married me that was just last year. I've never stopped loving my baby father, he knows that, but he trusted me. I want to stop this, i really do but you know woman always make decisions with their heart, not their mind. My husband is a great guy, I wish i could feel for him what i feel for my ex. I also dont wanna be wrecking another woman home. I dont know what to do.

2007-11-28 11:03:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We got into an argument about him having his jaw open and looking at other women, I was jealous and he got REALLY upset with me. He says that he does the same things and more for me, I just don't hear him...and he always looks me in the eye and tells me, "You are the most beautiful woman in the world to me" so for me to be jealous of those other women he just looked at was ridiculous and made him feel like I didn't believe him, trust him or believe in us enough to know how much he loves me, my body included. That he has never asked me to change anything about me, but to wear less make-up. Now he hardly talks, he won't let me touch him, and he says he needs a couple days to figure things out...but it doesn't mean he is leaving or doesn't love me. Then he made sure I had everything I needed for those couple days and said "I love you" before he left. I feel so stupid. I let my insecurities push him away. How do I fix this? I hate knowing I made him feel this way. What do I do?

2007-11-28 11:00:51 · 14 answers · asked by hny_rstd 3