OK found out some lies my live in b/f has told...what do you think?

Question

ok it all started about month or so ago and well it is strange my boyfriend came home from a cop car and tells me that the taxi cab driver got arrested....and stupid me belived him and i was talking to a lady friend i have on line and guess what the real story was? he was at a place of party and his friends left him and he got a ride from a lady friend at the party which is a friend of my friend..anyways she tells me that the girl told her he tried to sleep with her...and she says she didn't but, I find that hard to believe because her boyfriend is in wheel chair and he has been trying to get rid of her so he is always making her end up taking men home hoping she will leave him cause he don't really want the lady, now when i confronted him (my b/f) he thinks his guy friend told me but does not try to say it is a lie only that who told on him, funny i know. now I have desided x-mas is so soon i am waiting to kick his little butt out until I take his last penny. then he can go so do you

I am doing a good thing? taking his last penny? or should I do something else give me some good ideals of how to make him pay without going to jail of course.....thanks...

plus if i throw out now no presents for my kids..if you know what i mean...so i need good ideals of pay backs but none to hurt the flesh...thanks

she really did go to jail that night so he only lied on some of it...like the most important thing the trying to do her.....

one more detail she is butt ugly too. that makes it worse. at least pick a pretty girl....GGGGGG

your memory is great...but, sometimes money and bills can make it hard to end it right away but, i am soon free of the drunk looser...

my love died over the years of drinking...and being loud and crazy drunk did love in for me....nope no love anymore....

maybe it is not revenge but, if I gotta keep for bills should I not take avantange of it? why should I not at least do something good..maybe not to hurt just to make a good joke.....cause he is a joke....so why not?

ok I am not doing anything bad to him all i am doing is what he was going to be doing anyways...getting the kids xmas presents and he is living here so it is like rent????right?????

thanks...for all your answers need more though to get what to do......

Answer 1

I think the best thing you can do to pay him back is to tell him to leave, and then find somebody who will treat you well and be happy with that new man. Your old boyfriend will realize soon what he has lost.

Answer 2

If he has lived with you for any length of time, it will not be as easy as you think it is going to be to kick him out if he does not want to go and you will have to go through an eviction process.

Better to take the high road, tell him that what you have with him is just now what you want in a relationship and that he need to make other living arrangements by X date, but in the meantime, he needs to contribute his financially to your household. If he refuses, you will need to get an attorney or check with legal aid to see about evicting him.

Another reason to take the high road and go about it in a mature matter is not only setting a good example for your children, but if you try to exact revenge by throwing him out into the street after Christmas, he may decide to keep the revenge cycle going and there are lots of ways he could make your life and that of your children miserable...don't give him any reason to do so.

Answer 3

Well karma is a bit** so instead of you waiting for Christmas to roll around and getting all the gifts, just get rid of him now before karma bites you in the @ss. It doesn't matter that he told the truth about some of the story, what matters is that he lied about some of the story and I'm sure you know that. We always want to get our revenge in our own way, but I've learned the best revenge is to just move on.

Answer 4

The thing about revenge is that you always get hurt worse than the one you are seeking revenge on. It would be better to just break up and let him think you will do something. He will spend so much time and energy worrying that anything you could do would be a waste.

Answer 5

i think you should of broke up with him the last time you asked a question about why he hadnt returned home all night from going out angry just because you were at the stores that day.
im pretty sure that was you, typically i have a good memory for these things.
in that case i also think it would help you to seek the skills you need to highten your esteem. maybe an alanon group.

Answer 6

Remember what it says in the Bible. Do unto others as you would have done unto you. Do you really want all this to come back at you worse then what you are about to do to him. I would think before you act really are presents more important then your sanity or quality of life.

Please Grow-up and God Bless.

Answer 7

her bf who is in a wheel chair.. more than likely thinks he is doing her a favor by trying to get rid of her.. sounds like he loves her.. he is being unselfish.. and sounds like she loves him.. she did not cheat...i hope they both work this out.. as for you bf.. he should not have lied to you..it only makes you wonder the what haves..and could haves.. and did's..sounds like you got a plan.. funny thing is you don't mention being hurt by all this..sounds like you dont really love him any more than he did you..

Answer 8

leave his butt

Answer 9

WHAT MORE DO YOU NEED? YOUR PLAN SOUNDS GOOD TO ME.