So my wife of 3 years cheated on me a couple months ago with some 21 year old she met on a video game.
When she left she said used everything under the sun to justify her affair, and straight up tore me to shreds. She refused to do anything, or even work on the marriage... shejust ran 1/2 way across country to live with a kid she only knew for a couple weeks over the phone/internet.
They living together 2 mos now. She tells everyone she is so happy, happier than ever bla bla bla. New life, new boyfriend, new friends. I haven't had contact since she left, she refuses contact, she doesnt want any.
Now what I find intersting is I have a profile tracker on my myspace, shows me my visitors. Why the hell does she check out my pictures and blogs everytime she signs online? If she wants nothing to do with me and is happier than ever with this guy & wants to divorce me and never talk to me again why would she have such an interest in reading my myspace journals and such?
2007-11-28 12:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Someone mentioned that its too see that im unhappy... but actually I post nothing unhappy. Rather I post all about the fun life I'm leading as a single person... Like all the activities and hobbies, etc... So I doubt its so she can get satisfaction at my misery... I hide that.
2007-11-28 12:09:39 · update #1
It sounds like she wants to know if you found someone & may not be as happy as she is putting on. You need to set your profile to private so all she can see is your quote by your picture. Keep changing it (at least every few days) saying how happy in love you are & so on. That will really get to her. : )
2007-11-28 12:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she's still curious honey. And shes probably not really THAT happy after how deceitful she behaved. Just think- her relationship with that kid will always be riddled with fear and paranoia over 'is the other one cheating'? Thats what I find funny; a relationship that begins with deceitfullness can never really be more than that.
You say how they met eachother, that is SO funny and indicates that shes very immature, and that YOU deserve BETTER. You are very handsome, obviously intelligent, and more mature than her. Why don't you take the profile tracker off and don't think about her ever again?
Success and living well are the best revenge. Be happy, you deserve it.
2007-11-28 12:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Renesme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know? I think she feels miserable... and isnt happy so she wants to see whats going on in your life... And it seems like your a great guy! I'am sure she realized she messed up.. And of course is acting like shes happy... when i'm sure you know that deep inside shes not
Advice: Dont ever post blogs, bulletins, or anything that it might make you look upset, or unhappy... Thats why you have Yahoo Answers lol :D
2007-11-28 12:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by O.C MiLFy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may be an online junkie - she probably checks blogs and profiles of every person she knows every time she logs in. I wouldn't read too much into this. Some people are this way, they live their life online.
2007-11-28 12:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy Ego 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she could be wanting to see if you are hurt by what she has done. also it could be not her and the BF if she shares her password with him.Just tell you or ask why are you always viewing my myspace page. then see if it stops. Or post something on your blog or comments about why ex's stalk the other.
2007-11-28 12:09:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if she see you unhappy that'll give her some sense of pride.don't give her that.just go on w/ your life and do find a better woman you truly deserved. your "ex-wife" isn't the only pebble on the beach.so cheer up young man.the world is there for you to conquer!
2007-11-28 13:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by saodaji 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude - perfect opportunity....she is still interested in you. spending 3 years with someone, and leaving one day for someone new, would actually remind you of what you lost. So, trick her, write on your journal about how you are moving on, sometimes missing her, and finding a woman who reminds you of her and how this new woman is only better, etc....
2007-11-28 12:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's trying to convince herself and every one else she's happy and isn't and wanting to make sure your not either.I say even if your not don't let it show on your my space.post a bunch of new pix all with smileing face's.
2007-11-28 12:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you get the my space tracker, I'd like to download it. As for the question, sounds like regret.
2007-11-28 12:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jacob W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it makes her happy knowing how unhappy you are... can you change your my space to something she don't know..see she is getting the big head.. it is like he can not get over me.. i am all this and a bag of chips...
2007-11-28 12:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋