Marriage & Divorce - 28 November 2007

Mine would be...."When you meet Jeff....run, honey, he's nothing but trouble!"

2007-11-28 04:17:50 · 23 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

I haven't seen my finance' in days and want to have a romantic dinner...what can I do?

2007-11-28 04:02:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has a habit of clamming up and not speaking when he's upset about something. We've struggled with this since we were dating, and I've always told him that he can tell me anything, I'm here for him, I can't help him unless he lets me know what's going on, etc.

We've been getting better, but we're still struggling with it. What's the best thing to do to let him know that I'm not here to judge - I'm here to help? I tell him that, if he can tell anyone, it's me. I'm his wife, I'm supposed to be the one that supports him through everything.

He's been stressed out the past few weeks, but everytime I ask him what's wrong, he shakes his head and says nothing, or he'll just sit there and not answer me at all. It's very frustrating! What do I do?

2007-11-28 04:02:49 · 18 answers · asked by SimplyMe 2

my boyfriend and i are buying a house next year. he makes six times what i do. how do we decide what fair contributions are?

2007-11-28 03:44:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has employment that is on-off (mostly OFF for the last five years...) and he always waits til the last minute to do anything around the house. Cleaning out the gutters, fix the garage door, kitchen faucet, etc. I stopped nagging about 10 years ago, which I thought would help... but still items still remain un-done. How do you get someone like this motivated?

2007-11-28 03:35:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anna 1

Two sucessful, financially viable professional adults decide to live together after 2 and 1/2 years of seriously dating. Neither of them are in a rush to get married, but marriage talk have been done several times. They're both in their early 30's and have discussed the possibility of getting married within 2-3 years. They are both looking forward to the next step by living together as they have both maintained separate households until now.
What are the pros and cons of cohabitation?
Will routine make the relationship stale?
Is she worrying too much?

2007-11-28 03:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by Yoda Y 1

on Christmas eve? I have made a cd with all of his favorite songs and I will have food that I know he likes. I think it would be good to have our family together for the night. My sister and her family will be there and I know they miss him also. The only problem is that he has remarried and I wouldn't want her to come along.

2007-11-28 03:30:59 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 03:27:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-28 03:12:23 · 3 answers · asked by Angel 1

your husband dont really talk to you about your marriage,he just work and come home and pay his lil bill or 2 and dont give me any money dont hug or kiss me but when i kiss him he wipes it off telling me not to do that and inside of myself i start to feel really bad i cant explain how it feel but it hurts a lot he dont make love to me the marriage is very cold

2007-11-28 03:04:59 · 26 answers · asked by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2

its been almst 3 yrs into our relation..i hav truly loved her with all my heart and so has she(even more form her side)..bt th main problem is tht her family can b considered as such orthodox tht they wnt her married off asap.. n she is just 20 now,so am I n its obvious her parents r never goin 2 agree 4 an intercast marriage(m a christian n she is a hindu).
"rishteys" r comin n goin frequenty at her home n according 2 her kundli,her best time for marriage is said 2 be between March '08 n feb '09 by when i wouldn't hav even completed my engineerin.i am currently in my 3rd year.once recently whn things got serious at her home i had 2 let my parents know(they knew i loved some1 bt dint kno th situation @ her home).they now denied 4 this relation.my gf has promised me time till 1 1/2 to 2 yrs(being ready 2 handle all situations somehow) so tht i complete my engg. bt then,i'll HAV 2 marry her.my parents wil stil b against me,m sure..wht should i do?? i cn't hurt my parents either.. help!!

2007-11-28 02:39:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night I finally told my ex girlfriend I don't think we should talk for awhile. She ended the relationship about a month and a half ago, and since then SHE'S called me everyday and sends me text messages everyday. However, she continues to tell me we wont get back together and to approach our " situation" as it wont happen again but if it does be surprised and happy. She seemed upset last night that I was finally cutting the ties, as I'm finally starting to take the control away from her I believe. However, the only reason why I'm doing this is because I want her to miss me and for us to get back together. All my close friends and family believes we will and that its just a matter of time, I just really hope they're right. She's also hands on with me whenever we go out, and extremely flirty, and this will be stopping that as well. What do you think will this work and bring her back or no?

2007-11-28 02:30:40 · 27 answers · asked by Advice 4

It was a fatal car wreck that left a man trapped under his truck. This is the first major mva he has had to work.

I don't want to say the wrong thing. Are there any quotes or words of wisdom I can say to him?

2007-11-28 02:26:54 · 17 answers · asked by SS74 1

2007-11-28 02:23:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, How do you handle it?
I love my husband so much and he's a great guy. He is a hard worker, and kind to me and others.
He is just so negative about everything.
Movies, jobs, cars, you name it, he has something bad to say.
I am worn out hearing him complianing so much. I do try to encourage him, or just listen and agree with him, but at the same time, it brings me down.

2007-11-28 02:18:10 · 12 answers · asked by littlefoot 2

If so, How do you handle it?
I love my husband so much and he's a great guy. He is a hard worker, and kind to me and others.
He is just so negative about everything.
Movies, jobs, cars, you name it, he has something bad to say.
I am wore out about it.

2007-11-28 02:14:14 · 9 answers · asked by littlefoot 2

your spouse was not their for you emotionally and physically. Little to no comunication,affection or time. And their spending 6 days a week at work (even though the 6th day is an extra job for which you do not need the money) and on the 7th day they often spend what's left of the week away at their hobby. When they are home they mostly watch TV and zone out without much communication or affection. Yet they don't cheat, gamble, drink or womanize outside of the marriage. Is this even a reason to divorce? You can't say they abandoned you if they still "physically" reside with you, and to your knowledge have not committed adultery. Even though when they are home they just zone out to the TV, eat and go to sleep. And even after many many years of stating your unhappiness with the situation. Promises made by the spouse yet no follow through. Even though this is a hellish existance, is this a reason tp ask for a divorce.? Is this a viable reason, spiritually, morally or legally.

2007-11-28 02:08:59 · 43 answers · asked by haditforgood 2

My boyfriend of over 3 years loves using the pen like shocker on my nipples. He has started pressing into my nipples sideways and digging in, or he will press right into the middle of them. It hurts a lot and I can tell that he cannot be turned on otherwise. I think there must be something wrong when a person can't show affection otherwise unless they are only kissing you good bye. I certainly didn't feel like doing that at 3AM in the morning as is his usual time to wake me up after playing his video games. Usually I can take it but, I didn't feel good. He was very disappointed that I stopped him. WHAT THE HELL???

2007-11-28 02:08:49 · 16 answers · asked by baby 1

i mean i'm 16 i've got a long way to go but everyone is so happy when they think of themselves getting married but with me, i feel scared and i don't know why.

2007-11-28 02:04:15 · 31 answers · asked by 100% husaina 3

it's a very complicated situation!!

2007-11-28 02:03:24 · 4 answers · asked by DD 1

Have you ever loved someone so bad…and been heartbroken because they did not feel the same or they were just playing with your feelings… that even when you look back or reminisce on that past love and it still hurts inside…often wonder what did you do wrong.? 3 years pass and you are doing fine and married. That person walks back into your life and asks your forgiveness, explains and blames his immaturity for the way they hurt you.. And would love to be back in your life. what would you do? Would you allow that person back? Why would they want to be back after all they have done to you?

2007-11-28 02:00:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a pilot and regularly fly between Vancouver and Tokyo. I live in both countries and feel at home in both. I'm a native English speaker, but also speak Japanese.

I previously lived in Japan for a few years.

I'm now married to a woman I love in Tokyo. I have no problems with this relationship. It goes very well. We really suit each other.

When I'm in Vancouver, I'm also at home. I spend half my time here. There is a woman I truly adore and she likes me too. She's O.K. with me being away flying all the time. She actually enjoys the lifestyle. We're thinking of getting married.

Canada doesn't recognize a marriage unless it's registered in Canada, and mine with my Japanese wife isn't. It's only registered in Japan.

Same with Japan. If I was married in Canada, there's no way that the government would know unless I told them, which of course I wouldn't.

It sounds funny, but I'm a very loyal man. I just spend half my time here, half there. Ideas?

2007-11-28 01:53:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would you say and do?

2007-11-28 01:49:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so what makes you happy?

2007-11-28 01:46:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years now and we are very happy! We have plans to move in together in May and always talk about our life together. But heres the thing. Every time I bring up getting married(which I am totally ready for), he says yes, that he wants to marry me. But then when i ask when, he says some day soon. I would really like to get married as all my frineds are and Im the last one standing. And I feel that we are ready for that. But he doesn't show any effort to put some money away for a ring or even try to maybe set a time line. I feel like Im getting my hopes up. Please help. This is breaking my heart!

2007-11-28 01:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok,last year my boyfriend and i had plan getting married but suddenly one night he started crying and said i;m afraid of getting married i really really love you but give me time to build myself getting marrid and stuff,after one month later he didnt call me anymore and 6 months later i found that he has engaged with some one else,how can i forgive him,he really decayed my life i was really in love with him,our relationship was longdistance i did nothing just waiting to see eachother,that sometimes took 5,6 monthes,i was really faithfull and now i regret why!!!

2007-11-28 01:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married with two kids. I have come to a point in my life where I feel that i am miserable with my wife. When i try to be intimate she seems to push me away and i cant take it anymore. When i go to kiss her she turns away and gives me a forehead to kiss. When, and if we ever make love, she seems like it is a chore and doesnt give any feeling to it. She just lies there. We seem to fight all the time and i think it is affecting the kids and me. The thing is I seem to want a divorce but cant man up to the challenge of making it happen. I am sick and tired of getting no affection from her, and no matter how much i bring it up she still wont show it it is like she is miserable too. I guess what i am asking is for some outside advice please help.

2007-11-28 01:35:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So at the wkend, my bf was out on a wrk thing n it was more convenient 2 stay @ a female work friends house, (she's married n her husband also lives wih her) I felt really uncomfortable with this, and my bf said I should trust him more, I think he's right and I was defo in the wrong! any thoughts??

2007-11-28 01:32:21 · 16 answers · asked by flowerbomb 2

so, heres the things...we go to hubby's mother's house to spend the night, sometimes 2 nights...my kids go in thier school clothes and when they come home, they sometimes come home in other clothes she has provided, i dont exactly have other crappy clothes to change them in before going to grandma's. i cant have them coming home in different clothes , no matter what i say to them, grandma wont listen when i ask her to put on the clothes they came in. My husband's sis still lives with her mother at age 30 ish and she acts like this "clothes queen". She has clothes in a locked up closet so if someone needs clothes, they need to ask her. How do i avoid her and solve this problem of them coming back home with the clothes they went in?

2007-11-28 01:29:43 · 6 answers · asked by americansugar80 3

My friend works online as a doc finishing thesis.She came in contact with old family friend(son),best friend from years & in love.Shes got no choice but to finish work.

This mans mid 30s single busy works as doc powerful rich his folks abadoned so lived with his friends went abroad later.He loves her very much but cant express show feelings emotions due to his past.He gets angry & calls names as hes so in love with her hes angry upset with himself thinks everything will turn out like his past.Its holidays hes alone.She invited him over for xmas he said she could wait for him he wouldnt come she said shell wait.Hes there when she was in hospital & shes there for him.He loves her very much its cursing tearing hurting him inside but due to his past cant express show his feelings.She tries to reach out heal old wounds he'll reciprocate.Hes a good man with past who loves her.They might meet for xmas.

Be nice serious answers.Q:What to say & what to do.Thank u kindly.Happy Holidays!

2007-11-28 01:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous