2007-11-28 03:27:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you'd like for him to pop the question instead of YOU asking HIM, then...
Periodically and subtly, direct your conversations towards your long term goals as a couple. Believe me, he will get the message, and the idea will be planted in his head (if it's not there already).
If he doesn't respond as you'd like for him to, drop the subject for a long while. He may be waiting to finish school, get a better job, save some money, etc. In other words, it could be just a timing issue. A few months later, drop another hint, and see how he responds. He might be more ready to talk about it then. Just don't force the issue.
Outside of these suggestions, if you have the time and patience simply wait until he's ready to ask you to be his wife. When/if he does, say, "Yes! I thought you'd never ask!"
2007-11-28 03:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would hope that you're both on the same page with that and it's something that comes up naturally when you're together. You might want to consider how long you have been with him first, because it would probably freak him out if you've only been dating for six months or so. However, if it's been a year or more and your relationship is solid, you could bring up the subject and see what he says. You could say "You know, I could really see myself spending the rest of my life with you. How do you feel about that?" And take it from there. Good luck to you!
2007-11-28 03:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU?. IF YOU ARE UNDER 20 DON'T EVEN BOTHER BRINGING IT UP. I was 23 when I proposed and married when I was 24. Really you never rush into marriage it is the most important decision you make in life. Maybe just start discussing it with him get his views on marriage etc. Some men do not even believe in marriage it is best to find out his views before you continue down this road.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-11-28 03:43:58 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The cool thing was when I talked to my hubbie about our life plans..one of his plans was to marry..he told me he planned on marrying me. So it was an awesome feeling. I knew I wanted to marry him too. Just talk to him about the future and see if he plans on having you in it or if he plans on getting married. By the way hopefully you have been together a little longer than a few months. You might scare him off other wise.
2007-11-28 03:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jill L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared to just asked if this is the man you really want to marry than you should be able to tell him anything that's on your mind and if he really loves you then he will fulfill your wises and make you a happy bridge. Now go to it.....
2007-11-28 03:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Hmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hint it to him. Say look at that couple. I think we should gt married. Then kiss him and smile. He should get a clue unless hes a little slow.
2007-11-28 03:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by James R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By being upfront and honest with him. Marriage is very, very hard work and takes Commitment, Communication, Honesty, Unconditional love, & lots of Hard work.
2007-11-28 03:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just said Mark I love you I want to be with you for the rest of our lives than asked him what he wanted
2007-11-28 03:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by sarah W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. you don't have to propose, but say, "i love you, and i think i'm ready to take that next step in our relationship, what do you think?" or something like that. don't pressure him into proposing, if he's not ready yet, he will come in his own time.
2007-11-28 03:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would talk to him about it ...like i would say i know we have not talked about marry each other.but i really love you and will you marry me.
2007-11-28 03:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by dashawn d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋