2007-11-28 02:23:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
maybe she already does, just not to you.
2007-11-28 02:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First, if she flat out refuses then you need to respect that.
If she's not refusing but is frightened about it (I was) then it's your job to show her a few things. Read an article together about the safety factors and how to keep her comfortable. Read a few erotic stories to get her mind there. Stimulate that area in other ways to get her used to it and excited by it. You need to help her overcome the mental part of it plus the pain part of it. If you can accomplish this you'll get her there. We've been doing this for years and I'm glad now that he talked me into it. I get as much pleasure as he does! Good luck :)
2007-11-28 03:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's her back door, it's her decision. If you love her you will respect that. from experience I can't tell you how annoying it is to have your man constantly whining and begging you to do some dirty/kinky/whatever that you don't want to do. if she said no already, then there's your answer. you need to either learn to live with that or get out of the relationship, or agree to an open relationship so you can find someone with an open back door...
2007-11-28 02:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by kallista 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck??? What if she asked YA! the same thing... like How do I get my husband to give up the back door?
Maybe try borrow the back door.... or share our back doors...!
2007-11-28 03:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by Blue Jade 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Many women find out they like it back there. The first thing to do is talk to her and ask her to do it. Have you tried asking her? Email me if you want to know more about this topic.
2007-11-28 05:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by mikey_fiveoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that will never be answered just like "Does a tree that falls in the wood make a noise if no one is around to hear it?" I have try to talk my lady into it and have been turned down everytime. Best of luck and let me know if you found anything that works.
2007-11-28 02:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Go to Lowes they have great Christmas bargains on gorgeous Front doors...How's that!!!! 8-)
2007-11-28 02:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This' is a very sensitive issue . "literally" be careful 'cause not everybody is as kinky as you and i, don't push it that is your fantasy but if she's not into it you've got to respect your wife's decision maybe it will happen but takes time
2007-11-28 02:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by sexyballs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't until she's ready, if she ever is. Not something every girl wants to try, but putting pressure on her is only going to make her resist the idea more.
2007-11-28 02:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by kiddkosmic 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and offer yours up first ..
What?! Ewww can't do that?! Well then shut up, neither should she .. hubbs did the same thing.
2007-11-28 03:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMFAO I NEEDED THESES ANSWERS CRACKED ME UP. THANK YOU ALL!!!
UHm depending on your size that may be why she isn't want to open the back door.
2007-11-28 03:20:28 · answer #11 · answered by Alpha Female 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋