ok,last year my boyfriend and i had plan getting married but suddenly one night he started crying and said i;m afraid of getting married i really really love you but give me time to build myself getting marrid and stuff,after one month later he didnt call me anymore and 6 months later i found that he has engaged with some one else,how can i forgive him,he really decayed my life i was really in love with him,our relationship was longdistance i did nothing just waiting to see eachother,that sometimes took 5,6 monthes,i was really faithfull and now i regret why!!!
2007-11-28 01:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him this, then let it go and move on. It would not be healthy to keep all these feelings of betrayal inside to fester and ruin your life.
2007-11-28 01:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He met someone he actually loved, he only liked you. What happens when someone falls in love THEY GO BLIND and do something stupid like get married. Don't worry it won't work out marriage never does. The people that stay married for 40 years are lying to themselves. Before you make any other choices in life here are some facts you need to know now!!!
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
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2007-11-28 10:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a long distance relationship , which if your truthful, it wasn't a relationship, when you got together , it was all about the sex...... and when you called him on getting married, he was all ready set with another woman and put on a darned good show, so that you felt all sorry for his sorry hind end..... then he broke it to you he was engaged to someone else........ well, duh..........
You need to get over this long time user of women and thank your lucky stars you not his wife...... cuz if he was playing you while engaged, think what he will do while married....... what a poor miserable marriage..... and most of the time his wife won't know what is going on...........
Be thankful your not involved anymore, pick up your bootstraps and move on with your life.....
2007-11-28 09:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by bizzymom38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. This article works wonders.
Getting Over A Bad Break Up: How To Heal and Move On
http://www.hearts-and-kisses.com/relationshipadvice-getting-over-a-breakup.html
2007-11-28 10:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by lovehealer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never regret it. It is part of your past it is what has helped make you who you are today. Just remember long distancerelationships are really hard to work out, because there is always that possibility of temptation. Just realize that you are better then that and try to move on. Good luck I nonw that is hard to do.
2007-11-28 09:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by zyah77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry but please count your blessings, you could be married to this boob. He did you a favor even though it hurts now. Go out and enjoy life, meet people and you will find Mr. Right. Say a little prayer for the new fiance, he is her problem now...:)
2007-11-28 10:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you....and I understand your pain....
The thing is when is someone absent...there must be a reason...don't believe the words ...believe the facts...
He was absent for 6 months he can't love you in that way...cos when you love someone you need to see that...
I'm sorry...but there will be a guy who will be completely just for you....trust me one word...
Good luck and most of all....take care of yourself.....
2007-11-28 09:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by Aquamarine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a journey just put it behind you, thank him for the time he traveled with you the good times the joy, just forget the rest dwelling on pain just brings more pain and taints your soul
2007-11-28 09:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by sarah W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋