Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2007

Are me and my boyfriend meant to be?

2007-11-29 22:48:08 · 23 answers · asked by Carrie ♥ 3

2007-11-29 21:49:57 · 21 answers · asked by BA 2

the four of us are going out for the evening and i will be hanging with her husband while the ladies are doing there thing?

i have nothing to hide but will he tell her what i say to him, like say im rude to a member of the staff?

2007-11-29 21:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey you know what ? Your not the only one with a life. im done with you crap. tis all good that you are the center of your universe, good for you. but hey i dont need the headaches of being your friend anymore. in case you havent realized, i have major life issues happening right now, and there is no place for your childish games here anymore. just who do u think you are? i am not a magazine that you can do what u did and then throw away on. you obviously stll harbor feelings of resentment for me and it just wont fly anymore ( you trying seek revenge). im sorry for whatever makes you act this way . i feel fortunate i dont have a similar problem set. ill be dammed if i allow myself to be sucked into your isseus anymore. im pretty normal and happy til you come around and make me feel crappy. and i dont understand what u get out of it. so dont contact me ive blocked your yahoo account. I hope you get the help you need. I do not feel i need to sign this, you should know who it is you treat

2007-11-29 21:09:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 20:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by neha k 1

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuXbCLzvuPPsXoeCWfGQ6r0gBgx.;_ylv=3?qid=20071129102540AAoD3yl

After this question I asked yesterday about my partners attitiude towards my family, today he started talking about my sister again but instead of calling her "your sister" or by her name, it was "that fat & UGLY sister of yours"
I told him AGAIN I didn't like it & there was no need for it & he thinks he is justified because "she doesn't like him & she patronises him"
The truth is, his sisters have always hated me & looked down on me but he says I am not allowed to call his sisters fat or ugly
(which I don't) because they are HIS sisters & how dare I. ( was trying to make a point & see how he likes it.)
HOW can he not see this blatant double standard.
I've been with him for 6 years (we live together) & his disrespect for my family (& therefore me) is really getting me down.
Is that a good enough of a reason to leave someone or am I just being petty?

2007-11-29 20:27:37 · 13 answers · asked by Meeeee! 5

I know I don't want to get a 'boyfriend' but right now it's very painful to get over him.
He threatens suicide (but never has in the 13 years, btw that's how he got me to marry him) He spends out of control when he's stressed (on stupid crap, nothing useful) He can't have an intelligent arguement (always storms out during time for him to account for himself) It's not like he does anything around the house, and what he earns HE SPENDS on HIMSELF. He says trying to get me in the mood is too much work (always WAITS for me to engage...ALWAYS) though it's never too much work to hack my email, research sites I've been (yahoo answers...wooo I'm a bad girl!).
The caliber of this guy is about 10years old.

I dunno, is getting a boyfriend to help ease the pain the only way to feel like a woman again?

2007-11-29 20:04:35 · 4 answers · asked by Xanadu 5

My wife attends school, I work full time. We pretty much only get to see each other on nights and some weekends. This is a hard way to live, but I think we have managed well. Recently, she has found a guy friend at school that she enjoyed spending time with. I didn't care or think much of it at first, but she has decided that she is going to be spending more time with him. She says she enjoys his company and they have a lot in common. The problem is now she spends more time with him than with me. I just returned off a week long trip, and I see her at night, but hear more about her and him during the day. I have tried to tell her that I don't mind the guy being around, I would just be more comfortable with her spending a little less time with him. This frustrates her and she goes on the immediate attack to defend her independence. I have no idea what to do, I am sure she isnt interesting in him romantically, but with the txt and phone calls and all the time at school, I have lost her!

2007-11-29 19:49:53 · 20 answers · asked by CT 1

My fiance has signed up yesterday & we need to get married before he becomes active. We have to "get into gear" very soon due to his age & I have no clue about military lifestyle & need an idea on where to start. How to prepare myself & our children? Are there certain standards that I should be aware of? Are we required to move constantly? Or any other details to add that would be helpful, I'd appreciate it. I'm a pretty flexible person with great ability to adapt well to any give situation & have strong capabilities to run our entire household alone while he's gone (here at home). But honestly feel a bit hesitant if we have to move out of state. Are there any other alternatives I could look into? I'd like to be prepared properly for the sake of my children.

2007-11-29 19:24:21 · 8 answers · asked by lovie808 2

I found out he lied to me about having a wife before we married. He also lied about not living with another woman while he was married.

2007-11-29 19:16:33 · 24 answers · asked by Nancy M 1

2007-11-29 18:59:47 · 6 answers · asked by mkst 3

We are both on the lease. Im asking about the cable and electric bills. Since they are not in my name, I dont think I should have to pay for them. Can I get in trouble for this?

2007-11-29 18:57:15 · 8 answers · asked by dustin s 2

She is my second wife,i was just divorced before i marry her last year.We have a platinum wedding ring and my fault is i didn't wear during office time coz my colleagues knows I was just divorce to my ex-wife.So everytime i go back home i put on my finger to show i am wearing it BUT she find out that one day I didn't wear it then she become angry and upset.She give me a second chance if I will not wear it again she will throw away but unfortunately it happen again,so suddently she went to window to throw away,can not find anymore.I am very disappointed about her coz SHE DIDN'T VALUED OUR RING.Am I wrong to blame her of this matter?She break some of my belongings because of jealousy coz she saw the pictures of my language teacher and I on my pc.She break all the material like voice recorder of my teacher about my lesson.DOES SHE IS TOO MUCH?PLS. ADVICE ME.THANKS

2007-11-29 18:55:40 · 27 answers · asked by macey 1

She went after him when I was pregnant. He dumped me easily enough, and while I could not even pay for food, they travelled to Caribbean, to five star hotels, and bought her expensive jewellery. Then they married, she had a girl. When their daughter was 8 months old, he dumped her, too.

2007-11-29 18:50:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever cheated on your wife? If so, why.

2007-11-29 18:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Mir 6

2007-11-29 18:47:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have reached the end of my tether with my husband. we have been married 2 yrs.he is fantastic to my son but he just cant communicate. when i try to talk to him he clams up and wont speak, he goes in huffs for days and it is driving me mad as nothing is ever resolved. eg he wont let me sing when listening to my mp3 player (i only do this about once a month). so last night i thought i would try to talk to him i said " i was upset that you wont let me sing after all i put up with your simpsons everynight, soaps everynight, football games and tv 24/7 (he loves tv i hate it). i said could you not let me have that one pleasure once a month,he didnt say anything so i promted him and said " what do you have to say" and he replied he had nothing to say. agh what do you make of it? he never says sorry and is never in the wrong either
Also in a joke i had asked why he never drags me to bed anymore for s** it is always very late now when he has finished tv. he just ignored me and stayed up late

2007-11-29 18:39:53 · 36 answers · asked by cottontail 5

2007-11-29 18:38:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I emphazise the word "how" because I want to know what he does to show he loves so.

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date prior to marriage?
3 first marriage?
4 how old when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily married?

Thank you

Disclaimer: I will not accept insults towards me or my question. Please be an adult about this. This question may not be for everyone.

2007-11-29 18:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a professor in a university and that's how we got married, I was a graduate student and he was an assistant professor (we had a *little* age difference).

Now Im having problems with his female students constantly having crushes on him (I did once!) but they all know he's married and I'm pregnant with twins, walking in university all the time with my baby bump (I work there too).
I know I shouldn't bother, but I can't help and they're even discussing how hot he is on some internet boards and we keep getting anonymous emails to his academic address saying they have a crush on him.

I just find it mean to myself, and they know I used to be a student when we hooked up...so they're just gossiping about it.

What do I do? How do I let go? Is this being too sensitive because I'm pregnant?

2007-11-29 18:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by Rachel 3

Im not sure whats going on, i was engaged and recently got married, and every since my husband got back from deployment i feel like im not worth anything, and that he can do better then me, and when i see other girls that are prettier then me that he knows or used to talk to, i think i wonder if he thinks about how different it oculd have been, or if he wished i would look like that..i think so negative about EVERYTHING when it comes to me and him, not about our relationship but about how he feels about me...how can i fix it? its overwhelming.

2007-11-29 18:06:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering if anyone could give me an idea of what life is like as the wife of a marine living on a marine base?

2007-11-29 18:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is such a weird question, but sometimes I feel as if I have to pass gas during sex but I hold it because I don't want to spoil the mood or gross my husband out.

2007-11-29 17:56:22 · 28 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Is it normal for the man to gain quite a bit weight after and during marriage? I am 5'7 and 220lbs. before I got married I use to be 165lbs. and muscular.

2007-11-29 17:55:06 · 14 answers · asked by john r 1

I' am going through what i want to call concensual break up with my girl, I dont know if im being unrational and making a big mistake, my problem is that i think she's too parenthood oriented in other words too close to her parents and sister that she forgets that I exist, were not doing good intimately either, I blame that she's still young by the way she is 21 and that she has someother goals in her mind rather than to make life with me on our first break up, I though she was stressed out for working and helping me out with the bills, but to a point i was understanding, but i dont get why she did not put the same effort on our relationship than she did with her parents and relatives????? the first time we broke up she claimed i didnt understanded her, now its me who took the step she confessed she wasn't really happy and that she had other goals but that she felt in debt with me????help please.thanx

2007-11-29 17:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by angel81 3

This is concerning the state of IL.

2007-11-29 17:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by bashar m 1

Men: Do liars make better wives?

Are liars more likely to have a successful married life as compared to others? Are you turned on by liars?

2007-11-29 17:46:14 · 15 answers · asked by Razor 5

when we were together he would always say that he loves me and would hold me extra tight. sometimes we were both just doing our thing. he says he still loves me and for the most part does the same things sexually but he does not want to be acouple again?

2007-11-29 17:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by cupcake26 4

My 32 year old husband just told me that he put in a classified add to trade his awsome snowmibile for a...HOT TUB!! What does this mean?

2007-11-29 17:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been in arelation for 4years we love each other alot but due to his parent we break up because we different from caste,religion,he said he love but he cannt marry me but when i try to avoid his call he cant bear that.what should i do shall i wait him will he come back or moved forward to life please advised me icnt decide because ilove him alot n cnt forget,

2007-11-29 17:01:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous