i have been in arelation for 4years we love each other alot but due to his parent we break up because we different from caste,religion,he said he love but he cannt marry me but when i try to avoid his call he cant bear that.what should i do shall i wait him will he come back or moved forward to life please advised me icnt decide because ilove him alot n cnt forget,
2007-11-29 17:01:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think if you ignore him enough, he will marry you or be with you no matter what the circumstances are. If it bothers him when you ignore his calls, keep it up...he will come around and be with you.
2007-11-29 17:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him it bothers you that he will not marry you because you are investing your life to him. You could accept that it isn't what he wants and move on but there has to be a final closure, at least to the marriage question. If he loves you like he says then it shouldn't make you wonder if you are wasting your valuable time and potential happiness waiting for your future with him to start. Then I would take the other advice of stop calling him and if its meant to be it will be.
2007-11-30 01:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man i was in a relationship like this but i took control of it me n my girl aren't different religions but i'm a lil thuggish tattoos everywhere n around a bunch of bad stuff. I promised i'd change fa her but in doin so i told her not to listen to anyone cause this our relationship not her parents n so on tell him if he loves u to be true to u regardless of what others this man just look at romeo n juliet(no i haven't read it but i saw the movie) if its true love it will work out just follow your heart n do everything u can for the relatioinship so even if it doesn't work you'll know u put your all into it n its not your fault u know.
2007-11-30 01:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if you both went to another country to live where you could marry?
Different religions though is difficult because some insist you will have to abandon your and raise your children in the other -very sad for you.
Ask him if he does not love you and won't marry you - then, stay away.
Talk to your parents. Perhaps they have good marriage advise for you.
Joy to you!
2007-11-30 01:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nimi, I'm not counselor by a long shot... but it sounds as if he would really love to be married to you. He is torn between his feelings and his parents wishes. They don't seem to match up the same. He is either going to have to go against his family and be with you or he needs to let you go. I hope he makes the right decision. If it were me, I would wait and tell him to make a decision and stick with it. He can not keep dragging you around, it hurts.
2007-11-30 01:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by gone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move ahead! Time will settle the emotional knot and the bind, in due course! Be practical in life! Your life will start afresh, you will have all that you need, you want, in terms of good family life, love and affection from loved ones -- so, move ahead!
2007-11-30 01:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your 'love' should go to his parents and have a talk. Tell them about yourself so they know who their son wants to marry. Explain that you are in love. And how much you will suffer if you dont have each other.. I hope you get along with them.
All the best. x
2007-11-30 01:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ana m ♦ Настя♥ ■ ■ ■ ╪Hecate╪ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he can't leave his family for you then better you move forward. I am sure you will find some guy to stand up with you when the time comes.
2007-11-30 01:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by strange_raga 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You know the old saying "If you love something ,Set it Free if it comes back it was meant to be!"
2007-11-30 01:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by dawnO 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i d move on there are to many other men in the sea.not to mention ones your have things in common with.life's to short.good luck
2007-11-30 01:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by miranda m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋