We married after dating for 7 1/2 months.
We have been happily married for over 59 years.
We still have a great deal of respect for each other and we have allowed each other to become the person we really are.
Never been possessive or jealous.
My husband is my lover, best friend and soul mate.
You will know you are loved, when you don't have to ask.
Very good question, Thanks.
2007-11-29 18:22:46
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answer #1
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answered by DeeJay 7
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1: We own our own business's, a basement waterproofing company, and a taxi and sedan company. And I stay home with our kids.
2: We only dated about 6 months, but he was my best friend before that.
3: Yes
4: I was 21, he was 30
5: 9 years
6: Couldn't be any happier.
And I know he adores. I can call him any time while he is working and he makes time to talk to me, we usually talk on the phone 5 or 6 times a day.
He buys me cards just because.
We will be watching TV together and not talking and he reaches over and holds my hand.
We still hold hands when were out together in public.
When I'm sick, he always asks if there is anything he can do that will make me feel better.
He has gotten up out of bed at all hours of the night to go to the store to get me medicine, tums, or anything else I need. And he doesn't complain about doing it.
I could go on and on about the things that he does.
I couldn't ask for better then what I already have.
2007-11-30 02:30:00
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answered by cris 5
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I am not married, but I am certain my Dad adores my mom, and vice versa. I see this in many ways. haha first I don't think anybody would put up with either of them. :P Seriously though, its the little things. Like my mom has been sick a lot and has had to be in the hospital, and has had many surgies. Everytime my dad takes her home from the hospital, he plays their song, Queens "Your My Best Friend." Also, no matter what, even if my parents are yelling at eachother, everyday before my Dad leaves for work he kisses her goodbye. Its kind of funny actually, they will be having a huge fight, and then he'll lean in give her a kiss, they'll stop fighting while he kisses her forehead or cheek, then as soon as he pulls back the argument is on again. That is their little thing. Only a few times can I remember him forgetting, and usually it was because he was running late, but he will call as soon as he can and apoligize.
As for your questioneer:
1. My dad is a Lisenced Nuclear Plant Equipment Operator (basically he runs the machines that run the plant) and my mom is a home maker.
2. They only dated about a month. My mom says they were on a date in the park, he bit her in the butt, and she knew he was for her.
3. It was the second marriage for both
4.My mom was about 22, and my dad about 27
5. Almost 30
6. More or less. They have there problems, but seem to work it all out in the end. My mom often says "its not about not arguing, and agreeing all the time. At the end of the day its about making a life with this person, and getting through the bad times together."
I will never say my parents marriage has been perfect. It hasn't. They have thrown the big "D" around a few times. In some ways i'm glad they have not had a fairy tail marriage. It shows me that irl things are hard. Relationships take work, you both have to give 100% of yourself. None of that 50/50 crap. If you think about it, if you do that you are only giving half of yourself to that person. I think to truly love somebody, and to have them love you back you have to give yourself over completly.
2007-11-30 02:25:00
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answered by evil_kandykid 5
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My husband calls me by "beautiful" every chance he gets. Sure we have ups and downs but who doesn't. He will stare and me and tell me he doesn't know how he got so lucky. There are some other little things like when we are sleeping - he might wake up during the night and hug me tighter.
We didn't date very long before moving in together (a couple months) and getting engaged. We both just felt ready. We got married 10 months after we got engaged and now we have been married for 16 months. This is our only marriage - no priors.
2007-11-30 02:17:52
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answered by Sarah C 3
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I know we adore each other because there is mutual respect and appreciation. We also have all that "lovey-dovey, mushy stuff", but when you're over-tired from the kids, work and responsibilities it's not always easy to show your spouse respect and understanding.
1) he's an accountant/ i'm a stay ay home mom
2) dated 4 years
3) his first marriage/ my second
4) 31/ 30
5) married 5 yrs
6) very happily!
2007-11-30 02:37:31
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answered by mamabunny 4
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1 what profession are you both in? - He's blue collar and I'm a housewife
2 how long did you date prior to marriage? - 3 years
3 first marriage? - his first marriage, my second
4 how old when married? he was 24 and me 25
5 how many years married? 25
6 happily married? most of the time
If he adores you, you'll know it. He comes home every night, spends time with you and does his part of the chores (trash, dishes, whatever you decide).
There will always be disagreements, especially in the beginning, but once you accept each other faults and all, and decide this is who you'll grow old with, then you'll adore each other, most of the time anyway.
2007-11-30 02:21:05
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answered by SuthrenGirlWithGrits 2
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My husband is a D.J. and i am a nurse, we have been together for 12 yrs, and this is a second marriage for both of us, we met when we were in our 30's, and yes we are both pretty happy, as we grew together in our relationship, it just seemed to get better, we knew what each liked and disliked, and when one of us were sad, the other would pick up on that feeling, and just be there for each other, my man is the best, and he says the same about me, although we have to work very hard everyday on our relationship, I think everyone does, cause it just doesn't come natural, anything that is worth something, you have to put time and energy into it right?
2007-11-30 02:19:59
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answered by tiny 3
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We dated a few month before we got married. It is both of our 1st marrage. We were both 18 and we have been happily married for over 3 years now. He show me he adores me in many ways. He calls me his princess, has never abused me in anyway, has always has and will be my superman when things are tough, he gives me back and foot rubs, tells me all the time he loves me, and when things are less than perfect he always puts a smile on my face and a warm feeling in my heart.
2007-11-30 03:41:06
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answered by necessary 1
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If there is good chemistry between a couple then you will know when he adores you, is mad, angry, happy, sad, confused, frustrated, in the mood, and many more. Me and my lady had dinner tonight and she was upset and I happily calmed her down in my own little way. About a year ago her being upset would have ruined our whole week but not now. Good luck!
2007-11-30 02:19:03
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answered by Chris S 2
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i adore my wife with the little things.
i know its corny, but little things count.
for ex, inthe morrrning i brush the frost off of her car window and leav her a little have a good day message. occasional flowers, kisses to the forhead, tring to cook dinner, giving her space when she needs it.
1 she is a biology proffes, i am a HS calc teacher.
2 HS sweethears
3 yes
4 25
5 17 years strong
6 yes!
2007-11-30 02:19:09
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answered by envquake 1
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