She went after him when I was pregnant. He dumped me easily enough, and while I could not even pay for food, they travelled to Caribbean, to five star hotels, and bought her expensive jewellery. Then they married, she had a girl. When their daughter was 8 months old, he dumped her, too.
2007-11-29 18:50:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, was it good, then, for her to be happy when they ran away from my 7 months old embryo?
2007-11-29 19:02:24 · update #1
A boy. I was in the hospital then, and they - at a deluxe hotel suit overlooking the ocean.
2007-11-29 19:07:21 · update #2
When God said Revenge is mine, he really means it. He did good for you, didn't he. You might take the time to thank Him sometime.
2007-11-29 19:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow most of the time in these situations the ex who ran with the other person would get dumped. But he dumped her instead. Yes it may feel good for her to get the same treatment since the ***** went after your man but your ex is a piece of **** too. It seems he enjoy this pattern of dating women and dumping them after having children by them.
I will say your true satisfaction will come along when he meets a woman that will sweep him off his feet and will be so blinded by love that it will hit him with a ton of bricks when she leaves him (probably for another man). When that time comes, this certified loser would know how it feels to get dumped. Isn't karma wonderful?
2007-11-30 11:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by ranay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he committed the same crime twice should make you feel good about yourself. After something as traumatic as what you had gone through, please take note now that it was NEVER you. Im sure there was a small element of doubt in your mind as to whether it was your fault or not for him leaving you. Thankfully this dumba@@ had the nerve to do it twice, so now you, I, and everyone on yahoo knows that it was HIM and his inability to make the right choices that ended your relationship. He did you a favor, hun!
Would you want someone like this teaching your child bad habits from the start?
2007-11-30 04:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by dayzed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she lured him away, then it is natural for you to feel she got what she deserved...but it really isn't kind to want someone else to suffer the same way you did.....it wasn't all her....your husband could have remained faithful...so you married a jerk and are probably better off.
Now you can move on and find someone who you can trust the next time, and hopefully you will know him better first.
Not all guys fall for girls like this...some believe in marriage and what it is supposed to mean....but you need to know what they really think before you try the next time. What are his core values? They do matter....and you could probably have avoided this if you had stopped, looked, and listened first.
Don't waste time dwelling on the past. Decide your future is just beginning.
2007-11-30 02:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I admit I'd feel pretty smug there as well
On the other hand Don't you feel bad to find out you've been married to and had a baby with this complete nitwit? And that he's doing it three times?
Also I do feel sorry for the kids (both of them.
2007-11-30 07:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by MissE 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost the same exact thing happened to me except they have not had a child yet and are still together but honestly the only way to go on is to hope that the same thing happens to her i hope i am so lucky. I would not feel sorry for her i bet she feels pretty stupid right about now ha ha ha
Karma is a bi#*ch
2007-11-30 03:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Krisbabee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not!! His act validates what a loser he is and how lucky you are to be rid of him!
He'll do it again, most likely... and you will have to work very hard to convince your boy that is not the way to be a father. Make sure your son has a lot of healthy and positive father role models around - your dad, brothers, uncles, friends, etc.
2007-11-30 03:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gatubella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good thing to be happy about an 8 month old whose daddy just ran away.
Two wrongs make it right?
2007-11-30 03:00:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should feel bad at all,this woman received all that bad karma after she went after your ex.I think honestly that this woman got what was coming to her,now she realizes how much of a jerk and a loser this guy really is.Too bad she had to learn this lesson the hard way.
2007-11-30 02:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider yourself lucky you are not with the creep anymore, and just move on, don't think you have won any brownie points or anything, cause he was obviously not worth it, go find a real man now, good luck to you.
2007-11-30 02:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you shouldn't feel good for anything bad that happens to someone else, it doesn't matter who the other person is. But is inevitable, to feel good when something bad happens to the person that took you "something" away. It would be wrong if you go and rub it in her face, but as long as you keeping it to yourself you should be fine.
2007-11-30 02:57:51 · answer #11 · answered by claudia_v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋