Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2007

my wife and i are split up. here's the deal. we constantly argued over having another child. we had 3 already. marriage wasn't going good and i said let's wait until we're back on track before we go down that road. she then had a temper tantrum, said she'd get artificially inceminated or adopt if i wouldn't have another one. she even had one with another guy out of wedlock before we met. so i know her stance on things. Two months later she tells me she's pregnant. she was and she told me that she knows what she needs to do....have an abortion. what????? i told her why don't we keep the baby. she gave me all these lame excuses as to why she didn't want it. so i ask you, after all that and her telling me she'd do whatever it takes to have another one, why did she want an abortion? I know the answer to the question logically but want to know what conclusions others draw.

2007-11-29 00:17:33 · 29 answers · asked by survivor 1