Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2007

2007-11-29 13:56:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

too much stress and arguements with spouse, or the spouse was the different from what you thought

2007-11-29 13:48:52 · 9 answers · asked by america 1

I always try to please my wife when we get it on but she will occasionally, and very unselfishly, give it up, just to please me. Any others give or get the pleasure of quickies?

2007-11-29 13:36:33 · 13 answers · asked by jeff b 4

on the internet and the history said he was looking for girls on craigslist in the SAME state he lives in????? also im 18 weeks pregnant would you think he was courious or straying

2007-11-29 13:20:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

even if the marraige was not acknowledged in the United States under Christian Law ??
because technically he is considered to be single here in the United States

2007-11-29 13:09:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 13:06:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

how does it effect the people involved, when is it necessary, when is it stupid? what is your opinion?

2007-11-29 12:55:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 12:51:59 · 27 answers · asked by ROBERT G 3

I wear sexy lingerie to bed and all around the house...even when I was not feeling so wonderful (had a little cold bug for a day) I still bathed in some nice soap, put on my best perfume and did my make up...cooked his favorite dinner and served it in black lace lingerie and stilettos. I got nothing but a swat on the butt and a cuddle. He ate dinner. Watched CSI, and went to sleep.

He seems to have issues getting wood too. I did some things that worked without fail on past boyfriends and flings and he was still limp as a deflated balloon. My husband is 36 and I am 27. He is not old. I don't understand why he won't...you know? I swear I am not ugly or nasty, sloppy or overweight.

It drives me so nuts. Usually, when it's a woman who won't get it on with the man, everyone jumps her throat and tells her to do it anyway...tired or not. Blah, blah blah. Reverse roles, and everyone's pitying the poor man, because men's penis problems are so damn special. What about the poor woman?

2007-11-29 12:51:28 · 23 answers · asked by goldenchilde11 2

or i should say do you talk about the women at work?

2007-11-29 12:45:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My 3 year old daughter (soon to be 4) lives really far away from me right now. Does any one know some ways to keep good communication over a long distance? Besides the phone cuz i dont have her phone number, her mom moved and her moms new husband is a punk and he doesnt want his pjhone number given out. I do have an address tough. I tink it is real. I want my daughter to know daddy loves her. I never want her to tink for one second i dont. This is so hard cuz im dealing with childish adults. Right now I dont have alot of money, so i cant afford a lawyer at all. Thank You!

2007-11-29 12:45:01 · 12 answers · asked by Tim G 1

On both the sides of men and women! What should each give and take? What are some things one should definitely stay away from? People who have been in good, long relationships prefered to answer!

2007-11-29 12:20:58 · 17 answers · asked by Penelope 1

Wife-to-be hates the "dutch-oven" treatment...she says that the proper course of action is to retreat to the bathroom during sleep and any other time i have the "urge" to "cut the cheese"...especially since i am in my mid-30s. i should "act my age"...who's right? or am i just a typical guy? ----signed Windbag

2007-11-29 12:20:08 · 29 answers · asked by bbhuey32 1

If the birth certificate only had the mother's name on it originally.

2007-11-29 12:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by L L 1

I need more time to get settled in life. She says its now or she's finding someone else. i don't want to lose her. She is 25, i am 26. Should we wait? What is a good age to get married? What should i do..

2007-11-29 12:15:13 · 25 answers · asked by abizman 2

who.s saw this in good marrages when one starts going out and making a *** out of there selves . and who is more likley to do it. women. or men i would say women. from my past experance.s with a .sorry. trailer park trash woman in her.40.s while i was just in my latter teen.s .19 to be exact. she lacked morals ..in every aspect.

2007-11-29 12:15:01 · 5 answers · asked by matthew v 3

thinking about marriage

2007-11-29 12:10:46 · 10 answers · asked by rmartin luther d 1

My ex and I are still in love but i have not told her that i still love her. We have 2 kids and we where married for 3 years. But Our familys would die before letting us get married again. What should i do?

2007-11-29 12:04:32 · 12 answers · asked by John Adams 1

well, she worked with this guy at her previous job she dose'nt work there now but yeah and she divorced my real dad about 7 years ago and she remarried and has been remarried for about 6 now and she talks about this "darren" guy ALOT and my dad has suspected stuff for a while and they fought over it yesterday and then they made up last night and i am just 15 and i have already been through divorce once and i don't want to be again and it terrifies me to think she is cheaitng on him but right after they made up lat night and he left for work she and "darren" went out and got drunk and she even drunk and drove last night she could barely walk when she got home and that is NOT like my mom and i am soo terrified something is going to happen... i don't knwo what to do or say...

2007-11-29 12:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently met a guy at a haloween party ,at first he texted me all the things i wanted to hear ,but i wasnt attracted to him, little by little i got attracted to him alot ,but i recently pulled away because of the fact that he comes with baggage, for ex, he is 22 im 25,he has a kid dats 2 yrs old i dont have kids. he likes to party i dont..my question is 1) has anyone fell inlove with there partner after being friends for a while?or was it right away?? were u at tracted to the person right away or it took a while?? its been a month since we met and i broke it off a week ago but i miss him like crazy... wats going on? am i missing out??

2007-11-29 11:57:05 · 10 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

Even to busy for intimacy. Before she beganthe nursing program we had a beautiful sexual relationship, every other day. Now we have sex once a week...When I am by myself and I see beautiful women the urge to talk them arises. What can I do to avoid this lonely feeling and desires?

2007-11-29 11:54:29 · 16 answers · asked by J G 2

2007-11-29 11:53:14 · 22 answers · asked by jsizzle 1

We've been together two years but I want to do more career wise and I hate the fact that her mom keeps interjecting in our relationship. What do I do?

And yes, I do want to marry her, maybe in a year and a half.

2007-11-29 11:46:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

have this problem with my boyfriend recently, We have our ups and downs like most of other people do, conflicts arguments and diffrencent perpectives of love and relationship..But we both love eachother and know it..but recently everything is getting hard for me..I just dont feel loved most of the time..he is kind of person who shows opposite attracts and it's the way I feel loved and wanted...So, after talks and discussions that we have had last week he asked me to list the things that i dont like about him and also I love about him...Im just kinda nerveios and dont know how to tell what i want ..how to start and how to end it that doesnt make him upset or disappointed at me ..and make himTHINK AND REALIZE my need..Any suggestion and advice is a big help to save my relationship ...just need some good direction of listing my needs , how to start and how to end in most impressive way. ..thanks friends.

2007-11-29 11:44:58 · 11 answers · asked by Paris 1

The whole punishment and reward system.

2007-11-29 11:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

It can't just be sex. There are tons of women out there who want to have fun without a ring on their finger. I don't see any benefits. I think men just settle.

2007-11-29 11:27:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I forgave him and we moved on. Lately this has been creeping up at me, for no particular reason at all. We are talking about getting more serious and I feel confused. Does his cheating mean that he thinks it is "ok" for us to have sex with ex spouses? Can i have sex with my ex? Would it make me feel better if i did? I know these are silly questions, i just haven't been faced with anything like this before. And trust me, it is much more complicated than you would think.

2007-11-29 11:23:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband went out recently which he'll do on occassion. He only did this to clear his mind, everyone is allowed to blow off steam after arguments. However, on Thanksgiving he was out for 15 hours and didn't tell me where he was going or even talked to me to say where he was or anything. He was with a friend. Two nights later he decides to go out with the same guy for 12 more hours. He fell asleep over there cause he was mad. Now he's wanting to go out this weekend again, and he's about to deploy for 15 mos, he may never see me or his son again. He also promised not to do these things again, but went back on his word. I want him to have a social life, but to me this doesn't seem right at all. We've been having problems and considering divorce--not that this is the cause, its a number of things..
I've asked him to spend the last 5 days/nights with me and our son but he says im not respecting his wishes. In this circumstance am i asking too much now? Maybe should just end things now?

2007-11-29 11:21:03 · 6 answers · asked by Hawai'i 4

2007-11-29 11:18:33 · 23 answers · asked by Erica 1

i've been married for 8 years we have 2 kids and i have 1 by another man. things have been good and bad in my marriage. a few months ago i started talking to the guy i had my 1 child by. we both fell in love with each other and i cheated on my husband for the the time with him. i want to be with this guy and he wants to be with me, i'm stressed out and not sure what to do or wich way to go? i think i want to leave my husband but if i do i'm not sure what to tell him? my husband can be a big jurk sometimes and this guy is so nice to me. i don't have no one i can trust to talk to about it. not really sure what to do????

2007-11-29 11:16:11 · 39 answers · asked by stressed out 1