The whole punishment and reward system.
2007-11-29 11:31:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It doesn't matter what women think they control. The 2 women who I know who think they control their men the most and don't even let them ever go out alone own their own businesses and cheat the most during the day LMAO Here are the facts of life dummy:
1. There is no Santa
2. Everyone lies (even to themselves)
3. Marriage sucks
4. All men cheat and almost all women cheat
5. Life is not fair
Happy Holidays, good luck and email me with any questions you might have I don't lie anymore.
2007-11-29 13:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
When you play that game, the marriage is really really starting to turn sour.
When two people fight, sometimes they both do not feel like having sex. Or then they might have make up sex. Either way punishment reward system is just gonna make a guy end up like a sterotypical GUY!
2007-11-29 19:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hawai'i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you cut them off the more they will want to find it elsewhere. I tried that once and started to get grumpy and irritable I was the one getting punished. It is not good to wait for a long period of time because it hurts right after having the big O.
2007-11-29 19:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ridiculous to "cut a man off", because how long can a woman really play that game? We have needs too! And we shouldn't be playing games in marriage in the first place! If we're not in the mood that's one thing, but holding off on the lovemaking because you want to teach your hubby a lesson is childish. I would think there are better ways to get your point across without treating him like a little kid who just had his TV privelages taken away.
2007-11-29 19:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of the name "Lorena Bobbit" when I see questions like yours. He abused her ...cheated on her.. killed her mind and her heart at that time.. He could have just as easily been kind to her..loved her..honored her above all other women by NOT cheating.
Punishment and reward.. seems like honesty and love comes out the winner.
2007-11-29 19:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in some ways....because I don't think sex should be used as a punishment....However as a reward I don't see a problem...
As long as sex isn't given exclusively as a reward...
2007-11-29 19:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's silly and immature. I can't stand when women use that as a reward tool. If you need to discuss an issue, act mature enough to talk about it, resolve it, and get back to the hot sex, quickly! ;)
2007-11-29 19:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex shouldn't be used as a punishment. If there's a problem, women, suck it up, talk it out, and get over it! Don't dork around with the silent treatment or the no sex consequence.
2007-11-29 19:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who play games, often come off second best.
They may find that hubby dearest, finds consolation with someone else Watch it...You are not the only pebble on the beach
2007-11-29 19:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because they are cutting themselves off and a man can go just as long without it as she can, sometimes longer if she has mistreated him and made him angry.
This is called "cutting off one's nose to spite one's face"
They also fail to realize, many girls who don't CARE that the guy is married is just WAITING for a "golden opportunity" like this to show the guy what good "wife material"they'd ,make if the guy could just come to his senses, realize he made a horrible mistake and divorce his $%^& wife and marry her!
2007-11-29 20:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋