We've been together two years but I want to do more career wise and I hate the fact that her mom keeps interjecting in our relationship. What do I do?
And yes, I do want to marry her, maybe in a year and a half.
2007-11-29 11:46:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your going to live like you're married why not be married.Whatever you can do shacking you can do married.Thats a fact!
Or be honest and tell her mom, "look Mrs. ____, I am not interested in marrying your daughter right now, I just want to use her for sex, if thats ok with you!?"
2007-11-29 11:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two years dating and you aren't ready yet? and you say you're going to marry her in a year and a half?
Don't take this the wrong way...but you're full of it. If you don't want to marry her after all this time, it's because you're comfortable where you are, don't really like her enough to marry her and too lazy to go look for somebody who you might possibly fit better with. Stop lying to yourself and sh%t or get off the pot. It sounds to me like you should just move on and let her move on instead of stringing her along like this.
2007-11-29 11:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her mother that you would have probably married her daughter by now if it wasn't for her interjections and nagging. Tell her that her interjections have interferred so much with your plans that you're afraid if she continues, that you'll be so turned off, you won't even be able to ask her daughter.
2007-11-29 16:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are not ready as of yet. You are wanting to marry her but not at this time.
2007-11-29 11:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel uncomfortable now..think of what it will be like three years from now..
Do not marry her and let the pressure roll right off your back.
2007-11-29 11:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion: Quit being around her mother so much. It will only get worse once you two are married.
2007-11-29 11:50:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hawai'i 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In order to destroy a great relationship, get married.
2007-11-29 11:56:17 · answer #7 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about your girlfriend's pushy Mom. If you want to get married, you'll do it on your schedule and no one else's.
2007-11-30 06:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to admit to yourself the real reasons why you do not want to marry her at this time.
Good luck.
2007-11-29 11:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should explain to her, how much you care about her.and love her, but you need to let her know you need to terminate your career. you want to be able to provide for her,and your family. if she can not understand this then move on with your dreams.
2007-11-29 12:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by lizrobledo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋